Chris, I couldn’t believe my eyes when I saw your Instagram today and read that you think the time is right to make a baby with Karrueche. It’s not!
Chris Brown & Karrueche Tran: Now Is Not The Time For A Baby
Listen, I’m glad that you’re letting Karrueche know how much you love her. She’s going to be thrilled, especially since you two are in the midst of making up after your latest breakup. But Chris, have you forgotten that you did just break up with Karrueche because she wanted more of a commitment than you were ready to give?
At Hollywoodlife.com, we learned exclusively that Karrueche was pushing to move in with you and that you just weren’t ready to take that more permanent step.
You wanted your “space,” explained a source close to you. “Chris thinks Karrueche deserves the world and he will be forever grateful to her for standing by him when he was at the lowest point in his life, but he’s just not sure if he’s able to give her what she wants.”
Chris, we learned that you had been having a commitment crisis. On one hand, you love Karrueche and you wanted her to be with you a lot. But on the other hand, you were terrified of getting fully tied down.
It was your commitment phobia that caused your most recent breakup. That split lasted all of about a week and a half, until you two reunited and PDAed at a charity football game which was benefiting your Symphonic Love Foundation.
Clearly, you missed Karrueche big time and you were so happy to be back in her arms that you posted a photo of the two of you smiling together on Instagram. Yes, sometimes being apart does make the heart grow fonder, and in the case of your short separation, that seems to have happened.
But Chris, just because you missed Karrueche, doesn’t mean that it’s time to have a baby together.
Chris Brown: Don’t Repeat Your Parents’ Mistakes
Honestly, the last thing you need right now is a baby. At 25, you’re still growing up yourself! In fact, you just spent several months in rehab and several months in jail. And you ended up in both of those places because you had anger management issues and alleged addiction issues.
Chris, you still need to work on both of those problems , and be able to take better care of yourself, before you even think of becoming a father. Plus, you need to be fully ready to make a forever commitment to Karrueche before making a baby together.
Babies need two parents in a deeply committed relationship — preferably marriage — in order to grow up in the most loving and secure environment possible.
Your own parents split, Chris, and you grew up in a terrible situation, living with a stepfather who terrified you and who physically abused your mom. No doubt, your own anger management issues are a result of your stepfather’s abuse.
For all these reasons, you mustn’t repeat the same mistakes of your parents. You mustn’t have a baby with Karrueche now. By all means, stop playing around and show Karrueche how much you care for her. That’s a great next step in your relationship.
But as for having a baby — put that on your way-in-the-future wish list!
Do you agree, HollywoodLifers? Is Chris ready to be a dad? Let me know.
— Bonnie Fuller