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Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee were one of the most iconic couples of the 90s. Though their romance didn’t last, their relationship lives on in photos, here.
Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee might not have been forever, but they were one of the 90s most outrageous couples when they were. The Motley Crue drummer began dating the bombshell in Feb. 1995 and became her first of now-six husbands just four days later.
Not long after, the couple welcomed son Brandon Thomas, born June 5, 1996. Their youngest Dylan Jagger arrived as a late Christmas gift the next year, born December 29, 1997. During their days, there were masters of PDA, always locking lips on the red carpet, but behind the scenes, Tommy was violent. Pam filed for divorce for the first time in Nov. 1996, but the filing was later withdrawn.
In Feb. 1998, he was arrested for domestic abuse and went on to serve six months in jail. Pam filed for divorced days later, and after that, they bitterly fought each other for the boys’ custody. The duo eventually settled on a 50/50 arrangement in Oct. 2002.
While things were bitter between the exes at first, they later reconnected as friends with benefits. During the mid-2000s they were often seen out together, and Pam even admitted to regularly hooking up with her ex in a 2007 interview.
While the relationship was tumultuous, they shared some sweet moments. Ready for more of Pam and Tommy? Learn everything about their relationship in our photo timelines, right here.
Pamela Anderson & Tommy Lee Marry in Mexico
![Pamela Anderson & Tommy Lee Marry in Mexico](https://hollywoodlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-relationship-timeline-ss-06.jpg?w=680)
Pam & Tommy In Malibu in 1995
![Pam & Tommy In Malibu in 1995](https://hollywoodlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-relationship-timeline-ss-22.jpg?w=680)
Pam & Tommy in a Hot Air Balloon
![Pam & Tommy in a Hot Air Balloon](https://hollywoodlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-relationship-timeline-ss-21.jpg?w=680)
Pam & Tommy at the 1995 Cannes Film Festival
![Pam & Tommy at the 1995 Cannes Film Festival](https://hollywoodlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-relationship-timeline-ss-03.jpg?w=680)
Pam & Tommy Promote ‘Barb Wire’
![Pam & Tommy Promote ‘Barb Wire’](https://hollywoodlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-relationship-timeline-ss-02.jpg?w=680)
Pam & Tommy at the Empire State Building
![Pam & Tommy at the Empire State Building](https://hollywoodlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-relationship-timeline-ss-20.jpg?w=680)
Pamela Anderson & Tommy Lee in London
![Pamela Anderson & Tommy Lee in London](https://hollywoodlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-relationship-timeline-ss-19.jpg?w=680)
Pamela Anderson & Tommy Lee in 1995
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Pam & Tommy in Bed
![Pam & Tommy in Bed](https://hollywoodlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-relationship-timeline-ss-17.jpg?w=680)
Pam & Tommy at the 1996 AMAs
![Pam & Tommy at the 1996 AMAs](https://hollywoodlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-relationship-timeline-ss-09.jpg?w=680)
Pam & Tommy at the 1999 World Music Awards
![Pam & Tommy at the 1999 World Music Awards](https://hollywoodlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-relationship-timeline-ss-04.jpg?w=680)
Pam & Tommy in Monte Carlo
![Pam & Tommy in Monte Carlo](https://hollywoodlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-relationship-timeline-ss-14.jpg?w=680)
Pam & Tommy at the 1999 MTV VMAs
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Pam & Tommy at Logan Airport
![Pam & Tommy at Logan Airport](https://hollywoodlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-relationship-timeline-ss-15.jpg?w=680)
Pam & Tommy at a PETA Party
![Pam & Tommy at a PETA Party](https://hollywoodlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-relationship-timeline-ss-10.jpg?w=680)
Pam & Tommy at the 2000 American Music Awards
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Pam & Tommy in 2001
![Pam & Tommy in 2001](https://hollywoodlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-relationship-timeline-ss-01.jpg?w=680)
Pam & Tommy at the Premiere of ‘Scary Movie 3’
![Pam & Tommy at the Premiere of ‘Scary Movie 3’](https://hollywoodlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-relationship-timeline-ss-13.jpg?w=680)
Pam & Tommy in2004
![Pam & Tommy in2004](https://hollywoodlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-relationship-timeline-ss-12.jpg?w=680)
Pam & Tommy in 2005
![Pam & Tommy in 2005](https://hollywoodlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/pamela-anderson-tommy-lee-relationship-timeline-ss-11.jpg?w=680)
Pam & Tommy in 2007
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Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee: Photos
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