Selena Gomez: Don’t Go Back To Justin Bieber, Hold Out For A Calvin Harris

Selena Gomez — don’t do it. Don’t get lured back into Justin Bieber’s web of love. You need to take a lesson from bestie Taylor Swift and wait for the right man who WILL commit!

Selena Gomez, don’t go back to Justin Bieber. Resist, resist, resist that temptation. You need to wait for a new love –no matter how long it takes, until you can find a man like Calvin Harris. Selena, you’ve gone down this Justin Bieber road too many times to count. Just when you’ve almost broken free emotionally and are ready to move on, Justin does something that pulls you right back in to his heart again… but he never commits.

This past Saturday night, the 19th of March, Justin did it again. He posted a throwback photo on Instagram of the two of you kissing passionately, and captioned it with the sole word, “feels”. Well, Selena, you must have been feeling for him, too. You ‘liked’ the photo. Now, you’ve gone further than that. You’ve commented on the picture, saying “perfect”. Oh, Selena, his public display of affection is working on you.

We hear at HollywoodLife.com that Justin, 22, has also invited you to his concert in LA at the Staples Center tonight, March 21. “He wants her to attend his show. She doesn’t have to be in the front row, she can hang out in a luxury box, backstage or at Hyde [the nightclub inside the Staples Center],” according to our insider. We also hear that you are “very interested” in taking him up on his offer but are “weighing the pros and cons of inviting that drama into [your] life”, explains the source.

Selena, you are so right to hold out and thoroughly consider whether you want to invite Justin back into your life, period. The last time that you did resulted in him singing “My Girl” romantically to you in the bar of the Montage Beverly Hills hotel in LA. But not long after that, Kourtney Kardashian was photographed doing the walk of shame from that very same hotel. The two were hooking up, right under your nose. It’s true that you and Justin had not agreed to be exclusive at that point, but it was a reminder once again that he’s just not ready to date you, or any girl, exclusively.

Selena, 23, you deserve to have a relationship with a man who worships the ground you walk on. Who wants to be with you, and only you. Of course, you are well aware of how happy your best friend Taylor Swift is with her boyfriend of one year, Calvin Harris. Taylor, even more than you, was convinced that she would never, ever, ever  find a good man after her multiple heartbreaking splits. Her Harry Styles, Jake Gyllenhaal, John Mayer and Joe Jonas romances had all ended badly. Taylor was convinced that she would only be happily ever after with her girl squad and her cats. And the, when she least expected it- she met Calvin.

Well, Taylor is still the best girls’ girlfriend ever, but she’s also found her happily ever after, at least for a year and counting with Calvin Harris. Calvin loves her like crazy, appreciates her strength and talent and has had no problem being true to her, despite the fact that they had to cope with weeks spent apart while she was on her world tour last year. He and Taylor just celebrated their one-year anniversary with a cake, a locket that he gave Taylor, and a romantic tropical vacation that they shared with fans on Facebook and Instagram.

Selena, don’t you want to be THAT girl? The girl who is adored by her “committed” boyfriend? We bet you do. But the only way that you’ll end up meeting a man who is your Calvin Harris , is if you can let Justin go for good. When you continue to allow him to rope you back into a relationship, your heart just won’t move on. Selena, don’t fall for Justin’s new Instagram flirtation. Hold out. You deserve a Calvin, not another short fling with the Biebs.

Do you agree, HollywoodLifers? Should Selena say no and not go to his concert, and break free from Justin for good? Let me know.