Taylor Swift Should Apologize To Harry Styles After He Takes High Road

Mon, February 18, 2013 6:38pm EDT by 23 Comments
Taylor Swift Apologize To Harry Styles
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Taylor Swift, your ex-boyfriend just gave his first interview about your relationship and he’s handling it the totally opposite way than you have been. Harry deserves an apology from you. Here’s why.

Taylor Swiftyou are smart and a hugely talented role model, but you publicly dissed your ex Harry Styles during your Grammys performance and he has now refrained from digging right back at you in his first public interview since your breakup.  You should really rethink your policy of  using your performances and careers to get revenge on all your exes, especially him.

Certainly some of them may deserve it because they’ve just plain been jerks or they repeatedly hurt you by breaking up and trying to make up like it appears Jake Gyllenhaal did. But honestly — you only dated Harry, 18, for a month or six weeks and it seems as if the relationship was happily hot and heavy for you until the big fight that broke you up.

Does one split fight in an otherwise good relationship qualify a guy for punishment at The Grammys, where you said the line, “We are never ever getting back together” in a British accent? Plus, there are reports that you’ve written five revenge songs about Harry for your new album.

Harry Styles Could Have Gone On A Revenge Rampage

Now, Harry might  have decided to fight fire with fire once he started talking, but he hasn’t. In fact, he was a total gentleman when he went on the radio on London’s Capital FM on Feb 17 and was asked about his split from you. Actually, he was downright polite.

“I’m okay, thank you for asking,” Harry told his interviewer. “I’m good.” Can you imagine most celebrities saying “thank you for asking,” when questioned by the press about a recently failed romance? That would be a no. Most would curtly cut the conversation off. So first,Harry gets kudos for being respectful and not defensive.

Then shockingly, Harry takes the total high road and heaps praise on your Grammys appearance. “She’s a great performer and she always performs great,” Harry said. “She’s always good on the stage. She’s been doing it a long time. She knows what she’s doing on stage. It was just another good Taylor Swift performance. It was good.”

Wow! He just killed you with kindness and should have bought your undying respect. He refused to be drawn into any tit for tat battle just because of your public diss. Then Harry went even farther to win the hearts of fans – yours and his. He makes it clear that he understands why his and your fans would want to know his feelings about the split, so he says: “I understand why people would wanna know stuff like that, I get it. If someone does stuff like that then I wanna know about it, too. I guess it just kind of. . . It is what it is, I guess.”

Harry Styles Respects & Doesn’t Resent His Fans Interest In His Love Life

How cool is that! Again – he doesn’t put down his fans for wanting to pry a little into his personal life. He understands that he’s a public figure, who is loved and adored by hundreds of millions of young women and he gets their interest in his love life.

Taylor – that should impress you too. He’s handled your split with grace, candor and with respect for his fans.

Now, doesn’t his high road approach make you feel a just a touch badly about your Grammys revenge move and possibly some songs you have in the works? Do you really feel the need to try and publicly shame him further?

You don’t need to do that. You’re so together and inspirational in so many ways.

Why don’t you respond to Harry’s olive branch and find some clever way to publicly praise him in a way, that could be construed as your own apology.

He deserves it! Don’t you agree? Let me know.

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– Bonnie Fuller

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MaryDtn9

Posted at 5:44 PM on February 22, 2013  

So much hate. So much anger! Haters publish hateful comments towards many remarkable and successful individuals. Psychologists have determined that haters, also known as bullies, start by abusing their own families, spouses, children, siblings, pets, and friends. Haters are also, most often, child abusers and always cowards when confronted.

Don’t be a hater. Take back control of your emotions and always question Social Media hateful BS. No one is perfect. We all have flaws. Choose to be positive. A positive approach will serve you well in your personal and family lives. It’s a personal choice. It’s your choice. You can end the hate today; end the anger.

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roarin_with_horan1993

Posted at 7:07 PM on February 21, 2013  

After everyting Taylor has done at the end of the day she has just made a comeplete fool of herself he doesnt deserve an apology he NEEDS one!

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Hoosier Wife

Posted at 2:36 PM on February 21, 2013  

Harry is more mature for his age than Taylor will ever be.

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Monica

Posted at 5:44 AM on February 21, 2013  

harry did not deserve an apology, and not even a song like this. Note: BONNIE SAYSs YOU BELIEVE HARRY STYLES BE SO PERFECT WHY NOT STAY with HIM AS a GIFT for YOU?I am on ( == BlackWhitePlanet– c 0 /m.СòM ==), met many good guys and beauties, they also want to find true love. Now I have found my l’ove , so I recommend it to you, I hope everyone can find their best l’ove.Goodluck.==(( βlαckwhitеPlanet.СòM)—-==

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Swiftie

Posted at 4:59 PM on February 19, 2013  

Omg! (Btw she did diss harry but it doesn’t always have to be immature)
Don’t u guyz gett it?!
I would do the same for my boyfriend if I was in her position
I mean if he did cheat on her then I get it
Sometimes ur feelings of anger and frustration as well as sadness and confusion can join forces and turn you into a completely different person
But if the guy knows what he did wrong and is sorry and understanding
He should be the one apologising and pleading for Anathor chance (if he cheated and wants to egt abck together) but haylor hasn’t and should just end with it already!
But no taylor shouldn’t be the one apologising she deserves to show her feelings coz u guyz THE MEDIA keep trying to guess how she’s feeling when she’s just told you and then u go criticising her
Just leave her alone HATERS!!!!

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Shannon Smith

Posted at 10:50 AM on February 19, 2013  

She has not personally commented on Harry or their relationship in the media. Hollywood Life creates most of the controversy by using unnamed sources and frankly, making stuff up. Like another commenter stated — I watched the Grammy’s, I didn’t hear a British accent — it pretty much sounded like every other performance of that song.

So, instead of telling Taylor to apologize (when she hasn’t done anything) — how about you just stay out of it, and let these people TRY to have some semblance of normalcy in their very “un-normal” lives!

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allison

Posted at 10:17 AM on February 19, 2013  

so proud of the perfect gentleman he was!!!!

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ashley

Posted at 5:08 AM on February 19, 2013  

till now i dont understand how it was a british accent?
anyways its none of our business cuz we dont noe what happened between them!

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BuBu

Posted at 4:10 AM on February 19, 2013  

She dated Harry on and off for about 10 months with a couple of months with Conner Kennedy in between. He dumped her twice.

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jun

Posted at 3:26 AM on February 19, 2013  

Is taylor swift a “teenager”? she’s 23 yrs old and harry was 18 when she dated him. Taylor acts like a sorry arse 16 yr old. She is so immature it’s becoming very annoying. Thanks for this article.

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Amy

Posted at 1:39 AM on February 19, 2013  

Bonnie, aren’t you a little old to be commenting on the lives of teenagers?

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sam

Posted at 9:39 PM on February 18, 2013  

People should mind their own business.

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Wow

Posted at 8:30 PM on February 18, 2013  

What BS what happened between Swift and Styles is theirs to worry about. Harry is ok with it, his fans should let it go.

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ellys

Posted at 8:28 PM on February 18, 2013  

taylor swift apologize for harry styles? taylor apologized to taylor launter with the song “back to december.” and harry did not deserve an apology, and not even a song like this. Note: BONNIE SAYSs YOU BELIEVE HARRY STYLES BE SO PERFECT WHY NOT STAY with HIM AS a GIFT for YOU?

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RealityCheck

Posted at 7:36 PM on February 18, 2013  

WHAT IF he actually did do something douchey??? Then she has a right to put him on blast.

Everyone comments as though they know first hand what happened between them. So in reality, YOU ALL SHOULD STFU!

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whatever

Posted at 7:51 PM on February 18, 2013  

If they had a problem in their private relationship and it was of his doing (for which there is no factual evidence), some people would still think that publically dissing him is not gracefull. Sorry but not everyone loves public lynching.
As it is, nobody knows what happened between the 2 of them, and while I’m sure that some poeple would like to think the worse of one of them depending to their allegiance, maybe it was just not working, maybe they realized that they had different life styles of priorities… I’m sure that some bad things can be said in the heat of the moment, but that doesn’t mean that something dramatic happened to lead to a break up.

I actually don’t think that Talor needs to do any sort of public gesture to apologize, I just think that she needs to stop using the stage for her revenge against ex-BF stuff. I know that it’s her thing, but she can write about other things (bullying was a good move) and be just as (if not more) inspirational to her fans.

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Jasmine

Posted at 7:33 PM on February 18, 2013  

LOL AT THE DIRECTIONER WHO WROTE THIS. you guys have now infiltrated even the gossip sites. kudos

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whatever

Posted at 7:55 PM on February 18, 2013  

Maybe some gossip people can be genuinely impressed when someone takes the high road instead of going down the more often travelled fighting back path…
Does that make them directioners?

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isabele

Posted at 7:03 PM on February 18, 2013  

She’s only provento be immature and childish.

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Regina Callahan

Posted at 7:02 PM on February 18, 2013  

Notice that he said she always does a good job when”on stage”? Perhaps meaning that when on stage her personality is alot different than in real life…

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Over Exposed

Posted at 6:47 PM on February 18, 2013  

I am sure that she won’t have many dates in the future. Who wants to date such a b**ch!
She thinks she is above everyone else. Get over yourself!

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A little light please

Posted at 12:17 PM on February 19, 2013  

That comment is completely uncalled for…you sound insanely jealous…she could have any man in the world if she WANTED them..what more do you want…beauty, brains, money and a caring heart! She is NOT in R rated movies, she is not a party girl, she is a responsible charity giver…please check yourself!

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johnwayne1

Posted at 6:42 PM on February 18, 2013  

She should just shut up, but she never does.

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