Selena Gomez & Rihanna Hurting Their Self-Esteem Dating Justin & Chris

Fri, December 21, 2012 7:25pm EST by 38 Comments
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Selena and Rihanna you both need to love yourselves more and sincerely accept that you deserve more than two-timing Justin Bieber and Chris Brown.

Selena Gomez and Rihanna, you are both gorgeous, talented, intelligent women who don’t deserve to be treated like doormats by your boyfriends Justin Bieber and Chris Brown.

You both have millions of fans and plenty of male admirers but meanwhile you are choosing to accept second best relationships, and you need to ask yourselves why.

Selena, why do you keep taking Justin Bieber back when he has now stepped out with Victoria’s Secret supermodel Barbara Palvin twice?

First he was photographed and videotaped backstage gawking at Barbara at the Victoria’s Secret show taping in New York on Nov. 7 and then taking her to The Lion King, the next night.

Next, “Justin and Barbara were together in Miami,” a friend of Justin’s told Life & Style, when he was there performing in the Jingle Ball on

Dec. 8!

No Wonder Selena Gomez Was Furious With Justin Bieber

Selena, you were furious with Justin for publicly practically drooling over Barbara and other Victoria’s Secret models, and you broke up with him after this.

Then you broke up with him AGAIN after he hurtfully spent an evening, Dec. 13. with your ex Nick Jonas.

That was supposed to be IT! The final straw. The last time you’d be taking him back. But then…you were sighted just days later boarding a private jet with Justin on Dec. 19.

According to a Hollywoodlife.com source, you may be getting back together with him because you get “weak” around Justin.

Oh Selena! And oh Rihanna! We hear through a source close to you Rihanna, that you haven’t dis-invited Chris Brown from coming to your family Christmas get-together in the Barbados even though he saw his ex-girlfriend Karreuche Tran behind your back in Paris for a few romantic days.

Ladies — what does it take for you to dump these dudes who don’t deserve you?

What’s Wrong With Rihanna and  Selena Gomez?

“They both have low self-esteem,” explains Beverly Hills psychiatrist Dr. Carole Lieberman, author of the book, Bad Girls: Why Men Love Them & How Good Girls Can Learn Their Secrets.

“It doesn’t matter that they’re big stars, they can still have self-esteem issues, especially when it comes to men,” says Dr. Lieberman. “It has to do with their childhoods’ — Rihanna grew up with an abusive dad and Selena had an absentee father.”

They haven’t had good male role models. According to relationship expert, Dr. Gilda Carle, both Rihanna and Selena are allowing themselves to be in emotionally hurtful relationships because “they don’t see themselves as deserving of the full enchilada. They are willing to accept crumbs.”

Selena, Rihanna — this just isn’t right. You both deserve to have men who worship the ground you both walk on.

But when you both keep going back to men who are publicly disrespecting and humiliating you by seeing other women, you are making Justin and Chris value you even less.

Are Justin Bieber and  Chris Brown Respecting Their Girlfriends At All?

“When they keep making up and breaking up, they’re ruining their chances of having good relationships because these guys will respect them even less,” warns Dr. Lieberman.

And I have to agree. Ladies, you are just encouraging Justin and Chris to take you even more for granted.

If you’re not valuing yourselves and saying, “I deserve” a loyal boyfriend, then they will never value you!

“These beautiful young women who have everything on the ball are giving away their power,” adds Dr. Gilda, the 30-Second Therapist for the TodayShow.com.

I couldn’t agree more.

I know it can be really confusing to you both, Selena and Rihanna, because Justin and Chris keep chasing after you, after you do break up with them — only to disrespect you again.

Why Don’t Justin and Chris Break Up With Selena and Rihanna?

So why are they doing this? Why won’t they just let you girls go?

“Justin probably is in a confused state. On one hand, he’s young — just 18 — and he’s at a time of his life when he wants to sow his wild oats, but then he does love Selena and he sees her as an anchor,” believes Dr. Lieberman.

And honestly Selena, he is just 18, and he has millions of young women throwing themselves at him. No matter how much he cares about you, he has a buffet of temptation in front of him at all times.

As for Chris, he also at 23, is in the sowing his wild oats stage of life, and he also has millions of female fans, aside from Karreuche Tran, tempting him. But he may also feel insecure with you Rihanna — not quite sure that you truly will stay with him. He may on some subconscious level be afraid that YOU will leave him again.

“Karreuche is a security blanket, who’s not threatening or challenging,” believes Dr. Lieberman.

What Selena Gomez and Rihanna Need To Do Now

So ladies — what should you do?

I know it’s hard, but you have to dump these unappreciative guys. Dump them and dump them for good.

But you also have to settle in for some serious therapy. Both of you need to get to the bottom of why you’re willing to accept second best relationships.

Only then, will you whole heartedly believe that you DESERVE to be #1 with a man you love. And Selena and Rihanna, you do DESERVE it! Believe me.

Don’t you agree, HollywoodLifers? Should Selena and Rihanna split from Justin and Chris? Tell me now and vote!

– Bonnie Fuller

More Selena & Justin and Rihanna & Chris News:

  1. Justin Bieber: ‘Treat A Woman Like A Queen’ — Message For Selena Gomez?
  2. Rihanna & Selena Gomez Need To Dump Justin Bieber & Chris Brown
  3. Rihanna Enjoys The Single Life With Best Friend In Barbados

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Sumieika

Posted at 9:47 AM on December 24, 2012  

Whoever wrote this is clearly a hungry forever-alone loser man! JUSTIN deserves better than her, not the other way.. I mean who was the last to cry a river when her boyfriend had a “friendly” chat with her ex? She’s a dramaqueen, whatever.. Dear ugly editor, you can have that ugly mexican burrito and that large nosed ape on the go.. Meanwhile LEAVE the beautiful creator of a god (that so happened to be a eye-admiring canadian) to the rest of the 450.million girls waiting on line! Same goes to the handsome swaggy-king CB!

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annbarb

Posted at 1:09 PM on December 23, 2012  

yes your right Dr,Carole Lieberman, she is a true gold-digger to her heart and its up to chris to see that!

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annbarb

Posted at 12:55 PM on December 23, 2012  

Guess what! their famous they know who they are! at least their not a nobody trying to get famous! their already famous and they know how to get their appoint across.

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roxy

Posted at 12:32 AM on December 23, 2012  

It is getting annoying and I know it hurts but the more Selena stays in this relationship, the less Justin will appreciate her. I thought they were so cute but after the nick Jonas incident and the Barbara Palvin incident (twice), that was the last drop that made the cup overflow. I think these 2 are so used to each other that it has become difficult to let go. As for Rihanna, she is more independent and I am sure she could let go of Chris. Even though he tries he is surrounded by temptation and she doesn’t need someone to give her headaches. Life is hard but if you act wisely and do the right thing, it pays off. Good luck.

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Niynnpr Blueez

Posted at 12:12 AM on December 23, 2012  

this seems too Halirously talking about DUmp them Young Boys LOL LMFAO

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BUZUZU

Posted at 11:18 PM on December 22, 2012  

WATCH OUT FOR KENDALL JENNER AND JUSTIN BIEBER HOOK UP IN 2013 , COURTESY KIM KARDASHIAN . THIS IS AUTHORITATIVE .

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BUZUZU

Posted at 10:56 PM on December 22, 2012  

JUSTIN HAS MOVED ON AND WILL ANNOUNCE A HOOK UP WITH ONE OF THE KARDASHIAN JENNERS .

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annbarb

Posted at 5:31 PM on December 23, 2012  

well at least Justin, dating someone that have merits !

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lina

Posted at 3:11 PM on December 22, 2012  

pphhh when i see rih and selena pic , think omgg slena on so uglyyy :)

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annbarb

Posted at 1:17 AM on December 24, 2012  

LINA, DON’T LIE ON SELENA, SHE BEAUTIFUL, COME ON EYES TELL EVERYTHING SO IS RIHANNA, AND I HOPE THEY FIGHT FOR THIER MEN! FOR REAL! PEACE! AND DON’T LET THE TABLOIDS DICTATE THIER LIVES PLEASE!

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worldenow

Posted at 2:49 PM on December 22, 2012  

stupid people …

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Honesty

Posted at 1:36 PM on December 22, 2012  

Well, both these young women are just like any other woman who make mistakes in love. It’s just put out there in public for the world to see which has to be hard. Selena looks like she is trying to move on since Justin is back with that model again. Not, sure about the one dude she has been seen with lately but dating dudes is a start. She’s pretty and she does deserve better. As for Rihanna, that’s more difficult. She proclaims her love for a guy and then finds out he’s with not only his supposed ex but other chicks as well. Plus, having strangers call her ”stupid” and other names is much more heartbreaking. It appears she is realizing this is something she needs to move on from, but confused. Can guarantee by next year she’ll have a wonderful new boyfriend who is NOT Chris Brown and will treat her well. Usually that is what happens when we go through heartache. These chicks are talented, beautiful. They are realizing this. And soon it will be Justin and Breezy who?

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BLUEJAYS

Posted at 1:24 PM on December 22, 2012  

It’s two ladies they alway’s take the ladies side.

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BLUEJAYS

Posted at 1:22 PM on December 22, 2012  

Is selena respecting Justin Hell no look at the two picture above Selena is kiss a girl and Selena kissing Ronan farrow and that ok in Your guy’s eye’s. Where your writen on how she disrespected Justin Bieber their oh no where.

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lol

Posted at 1:58 PM on December 22, 2012  

hahahahahha, lol, Selena does respect Justin, look at Justin, does he respect her? sure but not that much, she he always flirting whenever their are girls. i don’t hate justin or love him but seriously, saying that about Selena when you don’t even know that other story about justin, huh, so stop trying to make it sound like Selena’s a bad girlfriend to justin!

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True swiftie

Posted at 2:09 PM on December 22, 2012  

Look nobody really cares weather the girl or the boy in both relationships are the problem but at the en of the day the relationship is never meant to be because a great aspiring woman once said to me
“Don’t regret the things that once made you smile but if it turns the smile will disappear and so sel and RI should dump their guys already but I can’t judge RIs situation coz I haven’t been researching their relationship as I did for jelena for 1 whole year (not a stalker just curious I’m the queen of true love that’s what I do) but from my understanding I believe BOTH these women have to break it off

Ps. Just cause they act all lovey dovey on the spotlight doesn’t make them golden couples when judging judge them as if they were two modern , normal couples

Xoxo 💖 The Queen Of Love

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NOTHING

Posted at 10:08 AM on December 22, 2012  

Where is the choice for the boys to break up with the girls?

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Jewels

Posted at 7:31 AM on December 22, 2012  

If you dont know much about the Rihanna and Chris situation shut ya trap! I dont know much abt jelena or whatever the f*ck them two are called so you wont see me yapping my trap and judging them FOH

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Jess

Posted at 7:27 AM on December 22, 2012  

Great advice actually, one should always love themselves more in order to know they’re self worth and not tolerate bullsh_t. Whether this advice applies to Ri or Selena remains a question as we only see the tip of the iceberg of their love lives so we have no stance giving advice *shrugs*

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julena..

Posted at 6:53 AM on December 22, 2012  

Instead of writing stupid stories that are NOT true. Why don’t u write stories about where they are, since they have the burden of million lights following them, that’s what i don’t get. If they are constantly followed, why can’t there be picture of where there instead of stupid stories that make no sense. I don’t want your opinion, just want to know where they are, if they are together, like next to each other, or if they are in Canada or Texas.

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Nelly

Posted at 6:48 AM on December 22, 2012  

You news people that are in the Hollywoodlife.com website. You do not know what’s going on in their private lives. Let the two mates left alone. If they had a quarrel or a fight knows wealth is not about you. Okay, all hollywood star has problems with their privacy, and I know 80% of hollywood stars here have boyfriends and they have problems with them. But okeei, there has never been anything like you? I think it has happened, but spread you out you privacy to others? No, you do not. So why should you care about other people’s privacy. Let the lover pairs left alone and eventually follow after every step they take. You have nothing to do with how their privatlived is. Okay, one more thing, show they had a fight and broke up. OK, so what. It happened just such situations over millions of couples around the world. Let those left alone and not confuse you in your personal things.

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Nelly

Posted at 6:51 AM on December 22, 2012  

I know it’s their job, but anyway so do not overdo it too much. You can say something about kari their shoulder and stuff like that is positive for people to hear. I say what I mean but you exaggerate too much. But jaa. just said what I thought and felt for you Hollywoodlifers

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selenator4life

Posted at 6:43 AM on December 22, 2012  

A source or someone EXTREMELY close to them (as u say) would never reveal that info to media. That’s how i know most of your stories suck.

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sena

Posted at 5:09 AM on December 22, 2012  

You don’t even know what’s actually going on in their lives, and when they fight and all that. like if selena had a fight with justin, why would she tell someone who might leak this information to the media?
And you drew this picture for Justin that he cheated on selena with the victoria secret model, and it’s not even confirmed. And you’re talking about this love triangle (chris- rhianna- Karreuche ), but what if chris brown actually dumped Karreuche and is now dating rihanna? you can’t be sure about that unless one of them releases an official statement. I don’t think any ‘source’ can actually give such deep and private information, unless it’s the person involved himself.

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Kelly

Posted at 10:31 PM on December 21, 2012  

At least, Justin never battered Selena.

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Michelle

Posted at 9:55 PM on December 21, 2012  

I think Selena enjoys the fact that she gets a guy a lot of young girls want. He’s a trophy, with lots of benefits. Let’s be honest – she isn’t considered the next great actress, or singer, or dancer, but has become popular mostly on her good girl image and charity work, and being with Justin. so many other girls would love to be in her shoes, and this boosts her ego. Don’t really know much about Rhianna’s situation. Neither deserves heartbreak, which is true for anyone, but you’ll never convince them of what’s right, because taking these guys back again and again maybe makes them feel in control of the relationship.

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kapua

Posted at 9:43 PM on December 21, 2012  

Rihanna and Selena both love chris and justin. JUSTIN AND SELENA ARE SO MEANT FOR EACH OTHER. AND RIHANNA AND CHRIS WELL. THERE LIKE FIRE AND WATER,. ENOUGH SAID. JUSTIN AND SELENA ARE THE MOST ROMANTIC COUPLE EVER.

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annbarb

Posted at 12:57 PM on December 23, 2012  

I think chris and Rihanna is !

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Fair

Posted at 9:38 PM on December 21, 2012  

Why don’t you include RPatz in this? Does he have self-esteem issues cuz he’s dating the two timing KStew?

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Gabi99

Posted at 9:33 PM on December 21, 2012  

Hijos de Puta! solo se fijan en Justin? acaso no se dan cuenta de lo que hace la perrade selena esto es lo que me molesta y no compares con Chris son totalmente diferentes Justin jamas trato mal a selena esa puta si tanto le molesta qe justin hgaa eso que se vaya ya! pero a la mierda La odio .l.

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jelena forever

Posted at 7:51 PM on December 21, 2012  

STFU YOU GUYS LOVE LIFE SUCKS DONT RUIN OTHERS

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Arianna

Posted at 9:36 PM on December 21, 2012  

That’s just crazy. Like OMG!!!!!!! Rihanna where’s your taste at.

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annbarb

Posted at 12:59 PM on December 23, 2012  

Rihanna can handle her situration and so can selena please!

 
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annbarb

Posted at 5:55 PM on December 23, 2012  

ARIANNA, LOVE ME SOME RIHANNA BECAUSE SHE STRONG WHEN COME GETTING WHAT SHE NEED IN THIS LIFE, AND FAR AS HER LOVE LIFE SHE’LL LEARN FROM THAT TOO! REMEMBER SHE’S A SUPER STAR, PEACE

 
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annbarb

Posted at 1:21 AM on December 24, 2012  

CHRIS BROWN IS ALL THAT AND A BAG OF CHIPS PLEASE GO RIHANNA ,GET YOUR MAN! QUIT LETTING THE TABLOID DICTATE YOUR LIVES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 
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