‘Vampire Diaries’ Recap: Elena Tells Stefan How She Feels About Damon

Thu, January 17, 2013 9:29pm EDT by 83 Comments
Vampire Diaries Season 4 Episode 10
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sasha

Posted at 8:57 PM on January 8, 2014  

Ummm you guys do kno that ian somerhalder and nina dobrev dated in real life(delena)…..not paul wesley and her…delena in real life was epic and he is a totally different person in real life(damon)just saying

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Sasha

Posted at 3:20 AM on January 5, 2014  

I really don’t understand what all of you are talking about,sure Elena left Stefan but Stefan never pushed her like she pushed him,he tried to keep her safe he didn’t want her to mess up in life.That is his mistake,everyone one of you inside are happy for Damon and Elena but y’all are so caught up with the “betrayal” that u don’t see how Damon pushes her and cares so much about her that he wouldn’t care who he put in danger, I mean wouldn’t you want to know someone you love would do that for you, and secondly Stefan may be hurt but inside he also knows this is what she may need someone there to push her during these rough times.I know this is so late but come on you guys don’t you see she’s just like Katherine but better, she loves them both and they both have greatly equal good qualities and maybe it won’t be team Damon for long and it will go back to Stefan, but she needs them both.Sorry for the long message.I just love this show and I can understand why she’s stuck.I’m sorry I have to say this but I’m team Damon he’s deliciously hott, and he would do anything for her even risking her hating him……come on you guys you have to admit that’s love.

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bob

Posted at 12:21 AM on September 25, 2013  

Stupid the way they wrote it. Damon backstabs his brother who continues to save his life every week by stealing his girl and elena is now a whore. In the end though she ends up with stefan so all you damon fans can suck it. Its in the books

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kayla

Posted at 8:20 PM on April 21, 2013  

-stelena always

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dale

Posted at 12:07 AM on March 22, 2013  

TNobody didn’t no that there a sired bond exit in the vampirsm and elena is basing her feelings of the sired bond she don’t have a choice cause she’s sired to damon but in the end nobody no if she will return to her human self if she don’t then we can say its not a sired bond.

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brandy

Posted at 1:08 AM on March 8, 2013  

At first I loved Elena and her love/courage to be w/Stefan, his love for her was beyond real and true throughout all his sacrifices for her is just beyond me. So I did not like her ending choice to be with damon. But whatever her choice right lol. Sense she screwed him now too it’d be Bella Stupid for Stefan and her to get back together. The thought is just gross. Caroline is my fav, she stayed true to Tyler even tho. She heard he supposedly got with the wolf girl. Elena should take pointers lol.

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eric

Posted at 8:08 PM on January 29, 2013  

If Elena say her feeling for Demon is real then she is ungreatful to Stafan

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Jess

Posted at 3:12 PM on January 29, 2013  

unless this show is going to end after this season, i think it’s safe to say that she will be with stefan again. i also think they will prolong the search for the cure, to give delena fans some love. ALSO, doesnt anyone else find it strange that her feelings for damon heightened but her feelings for stefan went away? that part always bothered me, and i think we will find out why soon.

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lora

Posted at 6:49 AM on January 29, 2013  

gosh good ppl!what is it about the catch phrase “Damon met her first”? it’s about who she falls in love with!!! Now i am a complete delena fan but i won’t use that as an excuse.i am glad she is with damon now but i will not say that stefan is bad,this or that. i like stefan too but i just prefer Damon.both brothers have their wrongs.i have been waiting to see elena with damon but the way it happened kinda upset me a little.and since its still a triangle,i am sure that Elena might run back to Stefan,unfortunatly. they will surely make Damon mess up and Stefan,how idiotic of him,will take her back.

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suzette

Posted at 8:53 AM on January 28, 2013  

Im confused, I thought that when you become a vampire, all things hightened. how come only elena’s love for damon did, how about her love for Stefan? Does that mean that Elena’s been hiding her true feelings since season 1? if this is not just the sire bond im boycotting this series!! I dont get it.

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suzette

Posted at 8:46 AM on January 28, 2013  

This episode broke my heart. I didn’t sleep peacefully thinking of the hurt that Elena inflicted on Stefan. Paul is a very good actor, my heart went out for him because of his expression. Wonder how he did it, make it look real…

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Kal

Posted at 7:23 AM on January 27, 2013  

WTF!!!Elena have to be & will be with Stefan.I will tell you that she will be jelous.

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JAY MAGMA

Posted at 10:59 AM on January 25, 2013  

elena falling for damon could be as a result of the sire bond, anything contrary to that and I will consider her a real b*tch

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Jess

Posted at 3:09 PM on January 29, 2013  

amen sister. i totally agree

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Delena

Posted at 8:28 PM on January 24, 2013  

DELENA <3

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Ak

Posted at 2:29 PM on January 22, 2013  

Both Elena&Damon are jerks.but stefan is fantastic.

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DE-MEANT-2B

Posted at 9:01 AM on January 23, 2013  

WHAT A JUVENILE REMARK!! YOU MUST BE 12!!!

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lola

Posted at 4:18 PM on January 21, 2013  

@CRYSTALMARIE
Please don’t call ppl stupid, its just a tv show just like u mentioned and that’s not even worth fighting over #rolling eyes# ppl think she’s a slut,so what?it’s not like they’re talking about u or something for u to call them stupid and ask them to shut up already.

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katie

Posted at 8:54 AM on January 20, 2013  

Oh come on! All you saying its ridiculous for Elena to go from Stefan to Damon, get over yourselves!! This is a tv show and not a fantasy in your F’n head. Don’t get uptight because they don’t do or say what you want them to or because it doesn’t go the way you thought it up in your head! In real life things like this happen all the time, so don’t tell me you haven’t had feelings for one person and as you’re growing apart from them fall for someone else who has been there for you! So what it happens to be his brother. And no, she is not a slut because of it. There a other characters on the show that fit under the slut catagory much better than Elena!! Elena did not go from guy to guy to guy, she was in love with one person, they grew apart and she fell for someone who was there for her. That is not a slut people!!

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Kikuchan

Posted at 10:23 PM on January 20, 2013  

Yes she is! So are you saying you would love in love with your siblings other half and the sleep with them! I don’t know where you come from n
But that is nasty and betrayal! Damon should have never fell in love with Elena in the first place! Wow shady

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TehD

Posted at 10:26 PM on January 20, 2013  

Way to slut-shame a confused, lost teenager whose parents, adopted parents, aunt, and mentor are all dead. So she changes her mind and it makes her a slut? Do you even hear yourself? This isn’t Twilight, where the alleged love triangle is a sham, so go fantasize yourself into something else.

 
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katie

Posted at 8:35 AM on January 21, 2013  

wow you sound like you are talking about sleeping with you sibling, which is not at all what i said. But No she is not a slut. Like TheD said she changed her mind, and she only changed her mind after stefan left her, lied to her…etc. Damon was her go to. She fell in love with him because he cared and was there for her. She didn’t just change her mind because she needed a new guy all of a sudden, now that would be a slut.

 
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katie

Posted at 8:37 AM on January 21, 2013  

my comment was to kikuchan, and i meant what TehD said about elena changing her mind

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H

Posted at 2:44 PM on January 19, 2013  

If you have watched since season 1, everything has been building to this. Stefan and Elena were good; he helped her through a rough patch after her parents died, but in the end of almost every adventure, Damon was there to save both or one of them. He was constantly putting his feelings aside. Stefan was compelled to be a ripper again, but when he was freed, he still kept away from Elena. All the while, Damon was a friend. Remember that it was Elena who kissed him outside the hotel before she became a vampire. Damon didn’t take it that far either and told her to make a choice. When she made her pathetic decision, based on “meeting Stefan first”, Damon could have easily corrected her logic, but he loves his brother too and accepted it. Damon always get the crap. Can we give the poor guy a chance at love? Elena has not jumped from one guy to the other. Remember that she had not been with Stefan since before he was compelled to bea ripper. And for all you pro Stefan people out there, don’t forget that it was he who killed his own father and forced his brother to turn.

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lovelygirl

Posted at 6:22 AM on January 29, 2013  

OMG!!! Finally someone who told it how it is!!! I like you have watched this show since day one, and you are right it has been building to this and Damon has always been the one who had to put his emotions to the side. In the beginning he did not want this life and Stefan selfishly made him turn because he did not want to be alone, and again Damon had to learn to live with everything his brother did, including taking the heart of the woman that he currently loved from him, and again years later when Stefan took Elena after Damon met her first. To be honest Stefan has a lot of bad to him, not that either of them walk the straight and narrow, Damon himself said that he liked to walk on the edge but that Stefan did not know how to not fall over it. In the end though it’s just a story people.

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Brandi

Posted at 12:31 PM on January 19, 2013  

I swear am I the only one who is truly disgusted by Elena and Damon. I’m sorry but I’m with Caroline, Elena and Stefan are supposed to be “epic” if you re watch the show from season 1 you can see that Damon was never supposed to be with Elena. He has tried to kill practically everyone she loves and most of her friends problems started with him.
In season one he shows up and mentions that he wants to meet Elena, then 3 seasons later they show that he met her first?! Hello…..did they forget the story line? I didn’t.
Anyway, I wanted Elena to be a vampire so bad and now it’s ruined. She is turning into a tramp. The reason Stefan wants the cure at least partially is because a few seasons ago Elena told Stefan she NEVER wanted to be a vampire! He continued to love her anyway and he saved her freakin life multiple times!! Remember when they thought Stefan and Damon were going to die? She called Damon to sat goodbye and was on her way back to Stefan when Matt went off the bridge. She said and I quote “It’s you Stefan, it’s always been you” But now she’s madly i love with Damon???
What’s with super buff Jeremy? hahaha

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Kikuchan

Posted at 10:25 PM on January 20, 2013  

Nope! I am disgusted wiTh Elena and Damon and there are more than half of the viewers who agree with you! What goes around comes around! Damon and Elena will get burned for what they did

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Cindy

Posted at 4:35 PM on January 24, 2013  

I agree Brandi! I thought Elena and Stefan were meant to be. They were the soul mates! For Elena to be with Damon she had to become a different person than she’s been from season 1! They kinda explained that with the “sire bond” but NOW we’re supposed to believe that she is really and truly more compatible with “kill first ask questions later” Damon?! Um… no.

I love Damon and his smoldering good looks and tortured self. But this is just WRONG! It’s out of character and is creating all kinds of plot holes. I’m sad to say it but this storyline has hurt the integrity of the show. It’s like the writers have awkwardly tried to come up with a way to throw the Elena/Damon fans a bone, but ruined the heart of the story in the process…

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ken

Posted at 10:12 AM on January 19, 2013  

Honest Damon is being a jerk to his brother. He doesn’t have a SB excuse for not being up front w/ Stef ,about Elena. They did spend the entire day together (brother bonding) on Burbon Street and the ride home the day after he slept w/Elena. Where was the talk? The next day at the cabin he lied about where Elena was and about telling her about the SB. Then it’s send Elena home and hide out at the cabin for a week training the guy whose neck he broke. Cell phone seems to work fine if it’s Elena. Then Elena’s call on the porch she tell him Stef knows, Damon’s responce “how’d he take it”
Really Damon WTF.
Face it Damon doesn’t have the balls to talk to the brother he’s supposed to care so much about! So he know’s how much Stef is hurting, and just how long will he wiggle around talk. My bet is only when Stef hunts him up. No excuse Damon!!!!!

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K

Posted at 9:56 PM on January 19, 2013  

OMG :) thank you! My fave line “How’d he take it”…like how do you THINK he took it -_-… I just think the worst it that they started the season with Stelena and suddenly BAM it’s all about Damon? LIke if they really were planning that from the start… then START with Damon and continue with him…now it just feels rushed and unreal and makes Elena look really bad. Which is the worst thing ever, since she is the main character whom we are supposed to like and root for! Basically season 4 is like a new show because they are bsing all over season 1-3 esp season finale! But w.e, maybe it is a SB… which is also lame because then they are bsing all over Damon… -_- they shouldn’t have done any of this…

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DE-MEANT-2B

Posted at 12:22 PM on January 21, 2013  

YOU ARE SERIOUSLY CALLING DELENA RUSHED WHEN STELENA FELL IN LOVE AND SLEPT TOGETHER BY S1 EPISODE 10. WE ARE IN S4 NOW AND IT FINALLY LED TO THIS. ANY DELENA FAN WOULD DISPUTE THIS RIDICULOUS “RUSHED” COMMENT. IF YOU DIDN’T SEE THIS EVENTUALLY COMING FROM A MILE AWAY..WELL THEN YOU DID THAT TO YOURSELF!!

 
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hell no

Posted at 5:32 AM on January 19, 2013  

Elena she is a slut.she loves Stephen but slept with Damon.she is nuts she only deserves cock from both of them and to be left by both of them .Stephen should find someone else for love he is looking for like april

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CRYSTALMARIE

Posted at 4:06 PM on January 21, 2013  

YOU PEOPLE CALLING HER A SLUT ARE DEEPLY STUPID!!! SHE IS NOT A SLUT SHE FELL IN LOVE WITH DAMON AFTER STEFAN DECIDED HE DIDN’T LIKE HER AS A VAMPIRE. DAMON LOVES HER EITHER WAY AND HAS PROVED THAT AND ALWAYS PUT HIS FEELINGS ASIDE SO THAT STUPID SELFISH STEFAN COULD BE HAPPY. ELENA MADE A SMART DECISION WHY BE WITH SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T LOVE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE? SHE IS HAPPY WITH DAMON AND HE DESERVES THAT SO EVERYBODY SHUT THE HELL UP ALREADY!!! I BET THERE ARE ALOT OF YOU WHO HAVE FALLING FOR SOMEONE AFTER BREAKING UP WITH SOMEONE SHORTLY AFTER SO IM SURE YOUR NOT ALL INNOCENT. PLUS IT’S A TV SHOW THAT IS THE STORYLINE THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO PLAY SO DEAL WITH IT.

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Jessica

Posted at 3:14 PM on January 29, 2013  

calm down, crazy. everyone has the right to say what they want about the show and its characters.

 
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tayler

Posted at 8:13 PM on April 11, 2013  

Damon does not love her either way other wise he wouldn’t give up on the cure for her

 
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❤Jan17th2013❤ (@_TVDCastleLover)

Posted at 4:50 AM on January 28, 2013  

you are not a tvd fan lol

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