Ashley Hebert, How Could You Let Ben Flajnik Propose On 'The Bachelorette'?

Wed, August 3, 2011 5:36pm EST by 21 Comments
Ashley Hebert, How Could You Let Ben Flajnik Propose On 'The Bachelorette'?

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Posted at 3:26 AM on August 12, 2011  

Ashley is a idiot, everyone knows it. She whined and cried the entire show. When guys did stupid things she would fall in love with them. That’s why she liked Bentley and J.P. I don’t dislike J.P. they are just weird together. J.P. isn’t really into her, maybe for short term. You could tell that every time he talked about his feelings for her he had a stupid grin on his face like he was lying through his teeth. There was never a real moment between them. Ashley had a crush on JP because she knew that in “real life” a guy like J.P. would never go for her. He would think that she was too weird, immature and annoying. In real life J.P. probably wouldn’t have even called her after their first date. So do I think that this is going to last…Heck No! don’t waste my time hollywood!!!

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Diane

Posted at 2:09 AM on August 6, 2011  

On the after the proposal show, Ben asked Ashley when did she realize that he was not the one. Also, he asked if he could have done something different or better? She did not directly answer those questions. In fact, she replied that she thought he was the one for a long time. I think he felt “used” by her in that she would tease him in the mud and in his boudoir, only to be left with a boatride in a dinghy on the open sea. I thought that departure was demeaning and disgraceful. He at least deserved a proper
seaplane ride!
I now view Ashley as a selfish little girl who wantd her engagement dream to become a reality whatever the cost of who got hurt.
Ben deserves so much better! He will one day settle down with the “right” person who will love and honor him unconditionally.
On the contrary, Ashley may be left at the altar by her
ladies man JP.

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Michelle

Posted at 5:26 PM on August 5, 2011  

I am so glad that Ashley picked J.P. they look so cute together..I’m sad that Ashley led Ben on since she knew what it was like to be screwed around thanx to Bentley.

Just a quick note Lesley (the article girl), when you said “You guys are an adorable couple”..they are not GUYS, last time I checked Ashley was female, please don’t be gender biased.

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Elizabeth

Posted at 12:51 PM on August 5, 2011  

“leading him on”?? It’s the set up of the show. Each gets a last chance date and then they each come down to see her, ready to propose. It’s how the show works! Why is everyone acting like Ben’s the first guy to be “led on”?? They’re required to date all those people and then cut a certain number each week. If you don’t like the format, don’t watch the show, but don’t criticize her.

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Jill Flynn

Posted at 7:33 PM on August 4, 2011  

Ashley was cruel and just feeding her own ego by leading Ben on. She obviously knew she would be rejecting him before the proposal and should have done the decent thing and spared him hurt and humiliation by clueing him in at least the night before if not prior to him heading down the stairs.

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kitty

Posted at 11:52 AM on August 4, 2011  

He probably felt confident because the player was rolling around in his bed with him 12 hours before – and talking dirty to him at the mud bath…………………..she is shallow and selfish.

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Kitty

Posted at 11:50 AM on August 4, 2011  

Ashely totally pulled a “Bentley” – she was very selfish and tacky how she handled the whole Ben issue. I am glad that she picked JP because I feel like Ben was WAY TOO MUCH MAN for her. Her and JP are both whiney and fit throwers. Ben will probably look back on the episodes and actually feel thankful in the end that she chose JP. She was actually a good player just like Bentley – the player got played.

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JPolino

Posted at 3:36 AM on August 4, 2011  

I watched the entire season 7 of the Bachelorette & the question is at what point did Ashley decide to accept JP’s proposal because the night before the proposal she was in fact getting down heavy laying in bed with Ben F and all over him…I mean heavy kissing tongue and all (the night before?) Plus on her fantasy date with Ben F in narration, Ashley says “I am falling In Love with Ben!” WTF! I think Ashley needs a Shrink, this girl has some issues! I don’t really care about what happens to her & JP & it sucks that Ben had to get hurt, but I am very happy he did not end up with Ashley. Ben deserves a much better woman then Ashley… She’s a player! I’m not going to wish her & JP well because what she did was morally wrong on all points! Plus, what kind of person deliberately crushes a good man like Ben, then turns around and screams how happy in love she is with another man? How do you do that?? Frankly, I don’t go for the “oh, we are in love” thing… On record there is only 1 bachelorette to make it and that is Trista Rehn & Ryan Sutter! And there is a reason for that … date 25 people at one time & expect to find the “real deal”.. It may be Reality TV, but it’s hardly reality and the record speaks for itself!
As for Ashley “What goes around, comes around” JP has already openly admitted in a video on EW.com (words out his mouth) that his reason for coming on the show was to win and beat the guys and that he was ‘ego’ driven, but then he fell in love.. I don’t care if JP fell in love or not, his initial intentions were bad and that shows this man’s character! A Leopard doesn’t change their spots, if this man can have bad intentions once, he’ll do it again, it shows that he’s capable of it.. give it time, when the cameras totally stop rolling and the media hype is down, I bet JP does a “Bentley” on her and splits! Plus to comment to “defensive” comment below; THERE IS NO defense for what Ashley did to BEN! Ben should have never been at the final Rose Ceremony! Ashley should have done the same thing that Ali did when Ali went to Chris Lampton the day before the final Rose Ceremony and told Chris then she wasn’t going to accept his proposal and Ali didn’t think it was fair to have Chris get down on one knee & propose.. Ali did the human thing and thought of the other guy! Ashley did NOT! There is no defense for what she did… Morally, she was WRONG!

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Posted at 1:23 AM on August 4, 2011  

In Ashley’s defense when Ben first came to the platform, she started to say something that could ultimately have led to the break-up speech; but he rudely interrupted her and began the proposal speech. He also was so cocky and confident he never even thought that Ashley might break-up with him, he clearly wasn’t prepared for heartbreak, like J.P was. I think Ashley and J.P are a great couple and I really think it will last between the two of them; I see sincere love between them and they share the same love that Ali and Roberto have.

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Elizabeth

Posted at 12:55 PM on August 5, 2011  

I absolutely agree with everything you said. And he was definitely really cocky if he didn’t notice the look on her face when she first tried to speak to him. It wasn’t a look of joy or excitement, and I think that was pretty obvious.

I don’t like all the haters the poor girl has had to deal with. She’s happy now, Ben’s moved on, let’s just be happy that Ashley and JP are together!

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Marianne Bernard

Posted at 10:43 PM on August 3, 2011  

I am in utter shock & disbelief, to quote Ben, to watch this lack of sensitivity on Ashley’s part towards Ben by letting him propose only to dump him. But you know, Ben really impresses me with his articulateness. I think he is very good with words, especially in this unfortunate situation. Which is why I really like Ben. I don’t see what the fuss is with JP. JP is always uptight, uncomfortable in front of the camera and have to struggle with what to say. I don’t think this is the end of Ben & Ashley’s love story.

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Sandra Mussey

Posted at 7:07 PM on August 3, 2011  

I was shocked and devastated the way Ashley allowed Ben to propose. He should never have been put through that humiliation in front of millions of people. I was so sad and depressed yesterday thinking of how unkind that whole scene played out, so I wasn’t even happy when JP proposed. JP is great and I’m glad Ashley has found love. But you don’t let two men think you’re in love with them to the point of proposal. If Ashley knew she was going to choose JP then I think Ben should have been sensitively told before the show got so far as two proposals. I was very upset thinking how confident, excited and vulnerable Ben was coming to that proposal moment. Something about that whole scene felt hugely lacking in empathy. If Ashley really cared about Ben, she should have never put him through that shock and disappointment in public. She encouraged Ben to such a degree, I was amazed to hear that all of a sudden she knows she’s in love with JP. Even when she was talking to her family she was confused about whom to choose. I don’t know, it all felt sort of lame, and shabby and sad. I am a licensed wedding officiant, and that scene was just not right. I was heart broken right along with Ben. He didn’t need to be treated that way after all he’d gone through to open his heart after his father’s death had shut him down. Anyway, it’s good to voice this because I was very troubled yesterday thinking about Ben being so terribly blindsided. No woman should make a man feel like a fool in such a way. Ben is such a sweet, relaxed, deep person. How is he ever going to fully open his heart again after this?

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Cristina

Posted at 2:25 AM on August 4, 2011  

I absolutely agree! After Bently ripped Ashely’s heart out, (which I find incredulous that she felt that way in such a short period of time!), I would have thought that she would have known better than to be so intimate with Ben, and basically lead him on just like Bently did to her! Never, Never! should she have let him get down on one knee!
I also felt disgust that during the After The Rose ceremony she was all over JP, knowing full well Ben was there!…calling JP “baby”, kissing on him. I wish she would have shown some restraint and would have been sensitive to Ben’s feelings. Ben was a complete gentleman, and even gave Ashley positive remarks, which i don’t feel she deserved.

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Hannah

Posted at 12:58 PM on August 5, 2011  

Are you kidding me?? The After the Final Rose ceremony is months afterward, and she’s happy. She’s not allowed to show affection for her fiance, their first time in public?? The ATFR couples always do that, it’s not like it was anything new. And they have a right to do so. The audience wants to see a happy couple. And how weird would it have looked to JP if she refused to kiss him cause Ben was there?? You think after all the emotions JP must go through watching the show, that Ash wants to further jeopardize her relationship for something like that? You’re being so unrealistic.

People are being way overly critical, especially this comment.

 
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Glen B

Posted at 1:59 PM on October 21, 2011  

Ashley is even more cruel than we thought. She according to Ryan froze the guys out after turning from Bentley to JP. JP had the first date after bentley left. She led Ryan on again and again NEVER giving him a date. She gives three guys a second date before he gets a first date.

Then the date takes place in a holy place so no PDA’s allowed.
Between the producers and Ashley they set JP up to be the good guy even though he was so jealous from the get go. Then she dismisses Ryan after saying he is the complete package. Her reason is she has a relationship further along with the other guys. No Duh you gave them two dates before ryan had one.

Her behvior towards Ames going to the hospital and Ben C being eliminated were very bad. Her worst was letting ben F propose. Now it comes out she new before the HTD that she was 95% sure she was picking JP. What an underhanded dig at Ben. So she basically led him on the whole time and put on a front for his family and had him meet her family, had a FS date and LCD only to let the guy you are not choosing propose.

I really like Ashley but her behavior during this show was atrocious. If a guy did what she did the women of America would be furious.

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