Is It A No-No To Hang Out With Your Ex When You Have A New BF Like Selena Gomez Does?

Mon, April 11, 2011 11:43am EST by 11 Comments

Selena is dating Justin Bieber…but still spends time with Nick Jonas. Is this a relationship faux pas?

Selena Gomez is walking on the wild side and treading on some dangerous territory these days. The 18-year-old starlet freely admits that she hangs out with ex-boyfriend Nick Jonas although she’s currently dating someone else – none other than pint-sized pop star Justin Bieber! Is this something YOU should try at home?

“I try to be a good person and a good friend to people,” the brunette beauty tells BOP magazine. “That’s something that’s very important to me. Nick is a very good friend. He’s a lovely guy, we’re good friends and I enjoy his company!’”

I don’t know how the Biebster feels about Selena’s close and personal relationship with her past, but, knowing how territorial guys can get, I can’t imagine he’s particularly happy about it. Should Selena try to be sparing his feelings and avoiding contact with Nick, or is she in the right?

Simply stated, if your new guy has an issue with you seeing an ex, you probably shouldn’t go out of your way to spend time with your former lover. Some contact is OK – a few casual text messages or an occasional phone call – but if you were in love with him and he makes your new BF feel insecure, then make contact minimal. He’s an ex for a reason, after all, and you don’t want to jeopardize a new relationship.

However, you should probably think about why you’re spending all this time with an ex, if you ARE doing so. I’m with Selena and prefer to be friends with exes (unless they cheated or treated you badly, of course) but if you’re spending as much time with your past guy as your are with your present one, then Houston, your relationship might have a problem. Just saying…


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Posted at 1:16 PM on June 27, 2011  

Why you fighting over this people,hehehe,why dont you read justin interview with seventeen magazine and you will get the answer that jb is not in love with selena gomez.she is using his popularity and gorgeous is 1 thing but talents is everything!!!!!peace!!!

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Posted at 2:42 PM on April 16, 2011  

I love selena :* :* :* she is very very lovely girl..mphua :*

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Posted at 11:45 AM on April 13, 2011  

they already split. selena dumb justin for that stupid cory monteith!

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Posted at 8:51 PM on April 11, 2011  

well justin bieber and selena gomez have broken up!!!!!
selena broke up with him because he was texting his ex jasmine v. a lot and she got jealous!!!! u can google it its all over the internet and i think its in OK mag.

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Posted at 5:20 PM on April 12, 2011  

Actually it was National Enquirer – if you read the entire article (vs. selectively) it debunks the entire story as just what it is an unfounded rumor. But don’t worry though – he will eventually leave Selena so he can be w/ you.

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Posted at 8:29 PM on April 12, 2011  

This comment is “haha”. Amused to read comments that state false rumors as stern 100% facts (esp. when w/in the article it actually says its false). Tabloids=hard hitting journalism? All you read over internet=true/facts? Eeks.

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Posted at 2:47 AM on April 14, 2011  

it is a false rumour without any proof so rether not belive it it a made up story

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Posted at 7:14 PM on April 11, 2011  

Well Justin still hangs out with one of his ex girlfriends. Caitlin and him are still really good friends so i dont think its a bad thing, then again that relationship was when he was 14…so…idk…

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Posted at 2:02 PM on April 11, 2011  

Justin Bieber always cries “He loves all girls” and the guys loving Selena Gomez!
What is the problem?

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Posted at 1:26 PM on April 11, 2011  

i don’t think that they hang out selena is busy girl and she don’t have time for him anyways she is good girl and she knows what to do love her

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Posted at 12:17 PM on April 11, 2011  

shes confused

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