Dating Someone

OLDER

IS IT RIGHT FOR YOU?

Thinking of getting romantic with someone from an older generation? Relationship expert April Masini has some advice to know if it’s right for you.

Dating someone older means you’ve got someone who knows the world better than you do, and that can be comforting, exciting, and stimulating.

TIP 1: KEEP AN OPEN MIND

Someone older can be more advanced in a career and have had more time to amass finances, and that means they have resources to share and to lavish on you.

TIP 2: PREPARE TO BE SPOILED

Younger people face a stigma that they’re only dating older people for money or power. As people get to know you as a couple, they may become more open minded.

TIP 3: DEVELOP TOUGH SKIN

Since your age isn’t something you have in common; you may have fewer interests in common. Try to learn more about their favorite things. 

TIP 4:  CREATE “BRIDGE GAPS”

The older person might not be as “energetic” as you or be aware of the “latest trends.” They also may be more concerned with retirement and health issues. 

TIP 5: PREPARE FOR DIFFERENT PRORITES

Ultimately, you may have a lot to face when dating someone much older, but at the end of the day, it’s your decision based on what you find comfortable in your dating life!