Is Selena Gomez turning away men? If her friends try setting her up with them, then probably! Get the EXCLUSIVE details on why Selena refuses to have her friends play matchmaker!
Selena Gomez is single and ready to mingle…unless her friends are involved! Although the 23-year-old “Same Old Love” singer loves her friends, she doesn’t want them mingling in her love life. But Sel, why do the work finding a man when your friends will do it for you?
“They always try to set her up, tell her great things about herself, they continue to try to pick her spirits up but it is often very difficult to change her mind,” a source revealed to HollywoodLife.com EXCLUSIVELY. “The problem is Selena already has her mind made up, will listen to her friends and not take their advice. It is a constant circle.”
So it sounds like Selena will always take in what her friends have to say, but she won’t actually utilize anything they tell her — or let them find men for her! If she wants any chance of fully moving on from Justin Bieber, though, Selena might want to rethink her stubbornness. In fact, he’s apparently a huge part of the problem!
After the rollercoaster relationship that Selena and Justin had for years, another source told us that Sel is apprehensive about trying anything new because she believes it will fail just like Jelena did. She has evidently even told her friends that she’s afraid she’ll be single forever because of her fear. And considering she doesn’t take their advice, they’re starting to believe it!
But let’s be realistic here. Selena is only 23 years old, so she has plenty of time to find the perfect guy. She will have to let her guard down a little if she does want to date again, but hopefully her pals’ advice will eventually resonate with her. Plus, watching bestie Taylor Swift be in such an amazing relationship with Calvin Harris has to be great inspiration — with or without listening to any advice Tay may have to offer!
As a matter of fact, a guy like Calvin is what Selena is looking for: Successful with an edge. She has already expressed her desire to date older guys, too. Hey Sel, you don’t have to listen to all of your friends…but if Calvin is similar to what you’re looking for, maybe you should just see what kind of guy T-Swift could find you! It can’t hurt to take a chance, right?
Do you think Selena should let her friends set her up with guys, HollywoodLifers? Is there someone you would like to see her date? Tell us below!