Kourtney Kardashian, it’s totally understandable why you’d ‘feel’ betrayed by younger lover Justin Bieber after he seemingly dissed your fling in a radio interview. But here’s why you really shouldn’t let yourself feel distraught.
Kourtney Kardashian, repeat after us: Justin Bieber is only 21 and you are 36. Kourtney, he’s just a kid. You can’t actually have seriously thought that he could give you a loving, longterm commitment . Even a longterm commitment to continue to have a fun, no-strings-attached fling, like the one that you two had been enjoying for a couple of months. Kourtney, Justin is college-age. But he’s also, a mega music star with tens of thousands of girls and women throwing themselves at him.
In other words, he’s a kid in a candy store, and why shouldn’t he be at this point in his very busy, successful and complicated life? You really can’t hold it against him that he enjoyed being with you, and according to our Hollywoodlife.com sources, he’d still like to be with you again. While we can see that it would hurt when he chose to take another gal pal Hailey Baldwin away with him on a Christmas vacation, he didn’t have any obligation to tell you about his plans. You two weren’t in any kind of committed relationship.
You also can’t be totally surprised by his comments about you during his Bert Show interview, in which he said, “I’m being used, man…what can I say?”, clearly implying that you were using him to exact revenge on Scott Disick. First of all, from Justin’s point of view, he was joking, according to the show host, Bert Weiss: “Honestly, I’m not sure he was 100% with us on this one. Body language and words didn’t match, LOL.” Justin also did slip in a compliment about you: “No, no, but for real, she’s great,” he told Bert.
You see, from Justin’s perspective, he was complimenting you, Kourtney. Still, we hear that you are “shocked”, “hurt” and feel “completely stabbed in the back” by his public disclosure, according to an insider who also told Hollywoodlife.com exclusively that you wanted a “major explanation and apology“. Well, Kourtney, Justin absolutely owed you a conversation. You were involved, even if it was only a friends with benefits relationship. We do hear that he has called to apologize and personally tell you that his words came out in an out-of-context way.
We actually hear at Hollywoodlife.com that Justin is enthusiastic about continuing your relationship, despite his growing closeness to Hailey Baldwin. He thinks you’re “mature and sexy” – so “smoking hot” that he was surprised that you did get involved with him — he thought you were “out of his league”, another insider told Hollywoodlife.com. He has every intention of continuing to spend time with you.
The question is, do you want to continue to be involved with him, knowing that your relationship will never be more than friends having fun with one another? In any case, don’t be too upset with Justin. You made the decision to get romantic with him. You’re more mature than he is, and you knew the risks. Don’t be angry with him for being 21.
Do you agree, Hollywoodlifers? Let me know.