Selena Gomez — you may feel hurt and angry that your on-and-off love Justin Bieber is hooking up with Kourtney Kardashian, but forget about them. Focus on new man, Niall Horan.
Selena Gomez, it’s time to put Justin Bieber and Kourtney Kardashian in your rearview mirror and move on. There’s nothing you can do to make either Justin, 21, or Kourtney, 36, stop seeing each other if they want to. Both are single, uncommitted adults. And no matter how much it feels like another betrayal by Justin, you technically have nothing to complain about. After all, even though he romantically serenaded you with the heart-tugging song, “My Girl”, then kissed and hugged you at the Montage Hotel on Nov. 20, he never made an exclusive commitment to you.
You two had been seeing each other on and off for months, but Justin has never wanted to take that next step, so you can’t freak out on either him or Kourtney, as much as you may want to. That doesn’t mean that it still doesn’t feel like a kick in the stomach to find out that Justin has been having hot nights with Kourtney even when he was serenading you. To hear more about Kourtney and Justin, head over to iTunes and download the latest HollywoodLife podcast for free!
Nevertheless, you have to try hard not to let it upset you or eat away at your self-esteem. You are in the best place you’ve ever been right now. You just released your most visually stunning and riveting music video ever — “Hands to Myself”. Your album, Revival, is your most artistically developed CD and is selling like hotcakes. You have never looked more beautiful, and you have a new man, Niall Horan, who worships the ground you walk on (and he isn’t afraid of commitment like a certain JB).
Selena, you’ve just got to focus on all the fabulous positives in your life and not on the Biebs heartbreak. So instead of going on the “warpath” against Kourtney, as one report has suggested, enjoy all the fantastic successes in your life now. You are developing a relationship with One Direction hunk Niall, 22, and he’s a very different man than Justin. Your best friend, Taylor Swift, sure knows that. “He will treat Selena like a princess and totally commit to her, unlike Justin,” an insider told Hollywoodlife.com exclusively, explaining how Taylor feels about him. “Niall is the whole package. He’s handsome, smart, funny, successful and has a heart of gold to match Selena’s big heart,” adds the insider.
He also has been crushing on you for at least a year, Selena, another source told Hollywoodlife.com. He must be thrilled that he’s finally getting his chance to get close to you. He already invited you to an emotionally monumental event — One Direction’s last performance before the band started their hiatus for at least a year. You flew to London to be there for him, and you two were photographed PDAing and partying after the band’s performance on Dec 14, on the UK X Factor.
So, Selena, 23, this is all so good. Even if you can’t help feeling shocked and disappointed by the Kourtney/Justin affair, you can’t let it derail you. Instead, just be thankful that all the work you put into taking your career to the next level is paying off. And that you now have a man that appreciates you like crazy. Enjoy it and be excited about how 2016 will be your best year ever!
Do you agree, Hollywoodlifers? Let me know.