Selena, who do you really think will be there for you next year or the year after that? Justin has never been a rock you can rely on. You shouldn’t lose your besties over a boyfriend.
Selena Gomez Losing Taylor Swift & Demi Lovato: Don’t Choose Justin Over Them
Selena, no matter how much you think that Justin is “the love of your life,” according to a source close to you, he doesn’t treat you that way. Just because he’s finally back in your arms after a two-month whirlwind tour of other women, doesn’t mean that your relationship will last this time.
And now, almost two years into the roller coaster stage of your romance, you’ve exhausted the patience of the friends who have always held you dearest.
First of all, there’s your closest friend, Taylor Swift, 24. She already cut your friendship off once, after giving you an ultimatum to choose between herself and Justin. Not long after you chose Justin that time, he was hooking up with your now ex-friend Kylie Jenner — burn!
Now, just days after you and Taylor had a super fun girls’ night on Aug. 9 — the same evening that Justin was at Kylie’s 17th birthday party — you’ve let Taylor down again. You’ve done that by reuniting with Justin. You two had a PDA-filled movie date on Aug. 11, and then went to a Bible study group together on Aug. 13. To say that Taylor is fed up is an understatement.
“Taylor basically has her hands in the air and is ready to throw in the towel on any type of friendship with Selena,” a source reveals exclusively to HollywoodLife.com.
Now Selena, Taylor actually feels that she is and has always been acting in your best interests. She just thinks Justin is so bad for you. In Taylor’s eyes, Justin disrespects and tortures you emotionally. She feels your pain when he parties and hooks up with Chantel Jeffries, Yovanna Ventura, Playboy Playmate Alyssa Arce, and Kylie Jenner.
“Selena and Justin together are poison in her eyes and she is sick of Selena telling her one thing and then going back to Justin,” according to our source.
Honestly, Selena, can you blame her? Taylor has tried to be there for you and has been your shoulder to cry on, but it’s hard for her to stand by you when you run back to Justin every time.
Selena Gomez: You Can’t Afford To Lose Your Longtime Besties
Then there’s your longtime Disney bestie, Demi Lovato. You were totally there for her when she had to go through rehab. But even Demi, who was so grateful for your support, has now had it with your Bieber obsession.
She actually admitted to host Andy Cohen on Watch What Happens Live on Aug. 14 that she really doesn’t care about being your friend anymore. When she was asked why she unfollowed you on Twitter, she didn’t mince words: “I think it’s just one of those things where people change and people grow apart.”
Hmm, Selena. You really can’t afford to keep losing old friends like Demi and Taylor. They don’t grow on trees. And no matter how thrilled you are to be Justin’s “girl,” that will be little comfort when he dumps you again.
I know you love Justin. But he’s just 20 and you’re 22. He’s not ready to settle down. And as long as he’s not ready, his wandering eye and lust will return. In another two months, when he’s off partying with other cuties, who will be there for you?
HollywoodLifers — should Selena work harder to keep Taylor and Demi as friends or should she just focus on Justin? Let me know.
— Bonnie Fuller