Jay Z — if numerous reports and rumors are true and your marriage with Beyonce is in deep, deep doo-doo, then you need to change your ways to save your relationship.
Jay Z and Beyonce — you are the only two people in the world who really know what is going on in your marriage. While reports and rumors have swirled that your union is on its last legs, allegedly because of Jay Z’s controlling ways and/or his roaming eye, you two are really the only pair who know if and why your marital situation has become intolerable.
Can Jay Z Save Marriage With Beyonce? — You Need To Do Whatever It Takes
But if there is in fact fire where there’s been a lot of smoke, then you two have a lot of work to do.
At HollywoodLife.com, a source has told us that there’s tension between you at concert dates and that you barely speak between sets. You’re staying at separate hotels during the tour, according to Page Six, which has also reported that you, Beyonce, have been shopping for a separate $20 million NYC apartment for yourself and daughter Blue Ivy, 2.
Beyonce, you’ve been sending out mixed messages about your marriage. On one hand, you’re Instagramming photos of yourself wearing a Mrs. Carter T-shirt, but on the other hand, you’re rapping on your new single “Flawless” about “sh*t go down … When it’s a billion dollars on an elevator.” You’ve also changed your song lyrics multiple times to hint that Jay Z may be stepping out.
The original lyrics to your song “Resentment” were: “I’ll always remember feeling like I was no good … Like I couldn’t do it for you like your mistress could.” Then you changed the words to: “I’ll always remember feeling like I was no good … Like I couldn’t do it for you like that wack b*tch could.”
Well, Jay Z, if there is any truth to the rumors that you haven’t been totally loyal to Beyonce or that you’re controlling, then you know you must change if you want to keep your wife. Jay, no woman wants to share her husband’s affections with another woman — and no woman should have to.
You and Beyonce made vows to each other when you married, and those vows almost always include, “forsaking all others.” I’m sure that when Beyonce married you, she fully expected that she would be your one and only. Now, I’m not saying that the rumors are true, but if she feels like she doesn’t have your full attention, as a wife should, then you need to fix that.
Beyonce and Blue Ivy need to be your top, top priorities — bar none. No one else, and no business matter, should be more important to you than your family. You and Beyonce already have close to a billion dollars in the bank, according to reports. How much more money do you need?
You’ve already achieved artistic world domination, so if it’s business deals, and the time they consume, that are driving a wedge between you, then you need to change that too.
I know it’s been said many times, but your bank account is not going to love and comfort you at the end of your life — your wife and your loved ones will.
Beyonce & Jay Z: You Have So Much In Common
Jay Z, you must realize that Beyonce is a very special lady who has a huge amount in common with you, aside from your daughter. There’s your mutual passion for music and other artistic endeavors, plus, you both have a deep interest in charitable causes. You can’t share all that with a business partner, and is there really another woman in the world who is going to be such a perfect match?
Now, if the rumors are true about your allegedly “controlling” ways then, again, you will have to change and compromise. Beyonce is your wife, but she is also very much her own woman, with her own ideas and creative impulses. If there is a control issue, you two need to talk and set up agreed-upon boundaries.
Your advice and wisdom is no doubt of great importance to her, but Beyonce also needs to be able to make her own decisions. No matter how incredibly successful and talented you are, Jay Z, you still need to let go of your grip if your wife finds it too tight. Even if you are 44 and she is 32 and less life-experienced, she needs to be able, if necessary, to make her own mistakes.
Jay Z and Beyonce — a marriage is a very precious partnership. Leaving one can never be taken lightly, especially when there is a little one involved. If there’s any truth to any of the recent reports, then forget about your brand. Forget about your billions. Forget about your entourages and your fans.
Instead, focus on the two of you and on Blue Ivy. And Jay Z, do whatever it takes — not just roses and vacations — to face the problems that you may have and then work them out!
Do you agree, HollywoodLifers? Should Jay Z change and compromise, if necessary, to save his marriage to Beyonce? Let me know.
— Bonnie Fuller
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