Karrueche — you need to face the fact that Chris isn’t ready to be the boyfriend of your dreams. No matter how much you may still love him, you can’t make him ready for a commitment that he just can’t give.
Karrueche Tran, you’re in love with a man, Chris Brown, who’s simply not ready to settle down. It’s time to either lower your expectations of what Chris can give you emotionally, or move on and look for love in other places.
Karrueche Tran’s Relationship With Chris Brown: It’s Time To Forget About Him
Karrueche, I know that you’ve invested three years, on and off, in your relationship with Chris, and that you’ve been through multiple ups and downs together. But you have to remember that Chris is ONLY 25, and in guy years, that’s really more like 18. He’s still a baby.
He also just got out of jail after four long, torturous months, and before that he was in rehab. Plus, he’s still facing a trial for assault charges stemming from the alleged fight that he and his bodyguard were involved in, in Washington, D.C. in October, 2013.
Karrueche, Chris clearly has a lot on his mind. And settling down into a longterm, committed relationship with you simply isn’t his priority right now.
That’s understandable. He is first and foremost focused on rebuilding his career, and as part of that, finishing the tracks for his upcoming X album, which is due to be released Sept. 16.
And Karrueche, you know how important it is for Chris to have this album be a hit. He is going to have to publicize it like crazy, and that means lots of promotional performances and a concert tour. His career, quite frankly, should be his priority, along with getting treatment for his alleged mental health issues and alleged addictions.
Chris is immensely musically and artistically talented and at 25, he needs to get himself on a positive path to express his talents through his career. He also MUST continue to work on his anger management issues and their root causes. He can’t keep ruining his life or potentially hurting others, like he did with Rihanna. Those things need to be his priority — not making a serious commitment to you.
Karrueche Tran: Chris Brown Isn’t Ready To Commit To You
Karrueche, that may sound harsh to you, especially after you’ve worked so hard to be a supportive girlfriend and friend to Chris — but it is the reality.
At 26, you’re a little older and definitely more mature than Chris. Plus, as far as I know, you aren’t suffering from growing up in a dysfunctional home like Chris did, with a physically abusive stepfather who battered his mother.
Chris’ huge celebrity status, combined with that history of dysfunction, really makes it impossible for him to take the next step to a serious commitment with you.
He simply isn’t ready to start living together and to think about “we” versus “me,” an inside source tells HollywoodLife.com exclusively. Chris “wants his space,” the insider explains, and he doesn’t think that moving in together now is a “good idea.”
“Chris thinks Karrueche deserves the world and he will be forever grateful to her for standing by him when he was at the lowest point in his life … but he’s not sure if he’s able to give her what she wants,” explains our HollywoodLife.com source.
So you see, Karrueche, it’s not that Chris doesn’t respect you or care about you — he does. He’s just being honest about his ability to make a more serious commitment. He wants to spend time with you, Karrueche, but on his less intense terms, explains the insider.
“She could have the world from Chris if she didn’t ask for too much and just went with the flow like in the beginning. That’s when it was all perfect. When she didn’t ask to tie him down,” says our source.
So there you have it, Karrueche. Chris wants you, and that’s why he’s been Instagramming that you’re his “only crush.” But he feels the walls closing in when you start talking about moving in together.
That means you’re back to the two choices I laid out before. Either accept a status quo, much more laid-back relationship or cut the cord and look for a longterm love with a man who can commit.
So HollywoodLifers, should Karrueche dump Chris for good or settle for a less serious relationship with him? Let me know.
— Bonnie Fuller
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