Selena Gomez continues to run back into Justin Bieber’s arms time and time again after he leaves her heartbroken and devastated. Why would a smart, beautiful and successful girl let a boy do this to her? Experts tell HollywoodLife.com EXCLUSIVELY why Selena allows Justin treat her like a doormat.
Just a few weeks after reuniting with on-and-off-again love Justin Bieber, Selena Gomez is once again heartbroken after Justin has been hanging out with his maybe ex-girlfriend Chantel. Experts are weighing in on this unhealthy roller coaster romance.
Selena Gomez & Justin Bieber Relationship: She’s Letting Him Treat Her Horribly!
Oh, Selena. Justin’s acting out just to hurt you — you deserve more than that! Dr. Cooper Lawrence, a relationship expert, explains that Selena might let Justin treat her poorly because she doesn’t believe she deserves anything better.
“Maybe she has a guilt of being so successful,” Dr. Lawrence explains. “You feel that you’re not worthy of all the wonderful things that happen to you. So you take it out by dating someone who’s not that good to you.”
It could also be because Selena simply doesn’t have a lot of self-confidence. Some girls “feel badly about themselves, so surround themselves with people to reinforce the way they feel about themselves,” Dr. Lawrence says.
Dr. Gilda Carle, a relationship expert to the stars, explains that Selena could be allowing the happiness she SOMETIMES feels with Justin make up for his horrible moments. “She’s getting some positive pleasure out of it. When he DOES come around, she thinks, ‘Wasn’t I foolish?’ So anytime he comes back, she wants to say everyone’s wrong. He does come back!” Dr. Carle explains.
She may also be letting Justin treat her poorly because she can’t see her life without him. “If she’s living for a guy, she has all her values lopsided. She must learn to live for herself,” Dr. Carle says.
Whatever the reason — we just want to see Selena happy again soon!
Justin Bieber: Stop Ditching Selena Gomez For Your Past Hookups!
We gotta admit — we’re totally confused why Justin’s flaunting his hangouts with models just weeks after reuniting with Sel. We get it, Justin! You’re hot, you’re rich and you’re famous — and tons of girls want you. But if you want to be single and hook up with other girls, then please don’t drag Selena along for the drama! Girls deserve so more than that from their boyfriends.
Why do YOU think Selena keeps going back to Justin (even after he treats her badly), HollywoodLifers? Let us know!
— Megan Ross