Taylor Swift — we hear that you’re distancing yourself from Selena now that she’s back with Justin again for the umpteenth time. But Taylor, if you’re a real friend, then stand by Selena no matter what.
Taylor Swift, don’t put a pin in your friendship with long-time BFF, Selena Gomez once more, because she’s back in the arms of Justin Bieber. We know how disappointed you must feel, because you can’t stand Justin, and you dislike his relationship with Selena even more.
Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez Friendship Over Again?:Don’t Dump Selena
We’ve learned at HollywoodLife.com from inside sources, that you think that Selena’s romance with Justin is “toxic” and you don’t want to be her shoulder to cry on any longer.
You were so fed up with Selena’s Justin addiction that you already gave her an ultimatum, choose Justin or me, several months ago, and that did not go well. Selena was offended by your demand and she not surprisingly, chose her man over you.
Happily, you two finally reconnected before the big Met Gala in NYC on May 5, and had a blast hanging out there together. But now that Jelena reunited once more over the weekend of July 7th in Canada, you’re once again determined to be done with your bestie.
Listen, Taylor, we understand your frustration at Selena’s bad, bad boy choice. You must have hit the roof over her decision, after all of Justin’s brazen womanizing and the release of his offensive N-word videos. How could Selena go back for more hurt?
It seems crazy. But when people are in love, they do nutty things. They are not logical. And it’s not possible to talk them into seeing reason. You’ve been there before yourself.
But Taylor, you don’t have to approve of Selena’s love choice to still be her friend. You are NOT the one dating Justin Bieber — she is. Lots of people don’t love their friends’ spouses or boyfriends, but they don’t abandon their friends. Being a true friend means you ARE there for the tough times. Life has many ups and downs, and you don’t ditch out when a friend is in a down period.
Taylor: Be There For Selena No Matter What
It’s so hard in Hollywood to find a real friend who doesn’t just love you for your fame and power. You don’t want to give up on someone like Selena who cares about the true you.
You’ve said it yourself about your Selena friendship in an interview with E! News on May 9: “Both of us have kind of stuck it out and hung in there through all the different changes we’ve gone through. It’s been the longest (friendship) I think either of us have had really… longevity is something you really can find very precious and rare in friendships.”
Yes, Taylor, your friendship with Selena is a rare and precious thing, which you need to cherish. Don’t let Selena’s “toxic” choice of Justin ruin your friendship. You don’t have to listen to every agonized word she may want to tell you about him, but still be there for her. Keep having all of the talks you have about your careers, family, health, and more. Keep the doors open!
One day Selena will either be happily married to Justin, or done with him for absolutely good. You want to be there for her, no matter what happens, just as she should be there for you, despite what life and love brings your way.
What do you think, HollywoodLifers — should Taylor dump Selena again over Justin? Let me know!
— Bonnie Fuller
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