Khloe, your decision to divorce Lamar Odom had to be unbelievably hard — you still love the man. But no woman, least of all a strong woman like yourself, can live in a marriage where your husband plies you with lies.
Khloe Kardashian, deciding to throw in the towel on a marriage is never easy, and in this case, it’s especially difficult, because you’ve never stopped loving Lamar Odom. You fell madly in love with Lamar in Aug. 2009 and you were married within a month. Despite dealing with Lamar’s alleged drug issues for almost two years, you’ve never stopped trying to save Lamar and your marriage, but sadly, nothing has worked.
Khloe Kardashian To Divorce Lamar Odom — Marriage Was A Lie
Now HollywoodLife.com has learned that it was Lamar’s relentless lying that finally made you realize that there was no hope for you two as a couple.
“Khloe was fed up with Lamar not telling the truth in couples’ therapy. The therapist made it clear that the only way their marriage could be saved was if both Khloe and Lamar were 100% honest during their sessions,” a friend of the couple told HollywoodLife.com exclusively. But, “what Khloe is so outraged about is [Lamar’s] unwillingness to take responsibility and his complete unwillingness to tell the truth.”
Apparently Lamar wouldn’t even discuss the video which he made while allegedly drunk and in which he rapped about cheating.
Khloe, our HollywoodLife.com source tells us that you kept giving Lamar chance after chance and that if Lamar had just been willing discuss his and your issues honestly, that you would have stayed in the marriage.
But he wasn’t willing. And he refused to take responsibility for his problems, says the source.
Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom’s
Only after all your intensive efforts and living apart for months did you reluctantly decide to pull the plug. Most women would not have been able to keep it together like you have.
Despite asking Lamar to move out, having him “disappear” for days, having him refuse to enter rehab, having him be arrested for a DUI — despite all this, you were still prepared to stay in your marriage. It was only when you realized that he refused to be truthful with you that you were forced to admit that you couldn’t live any longer in a marriage that was a lie.
“Their therapist encouraged Khloe to file for divorce if Lamar wasn’t going to at least meet her halfway,” reveals the source.
Khloe — you’ve made the right decision. You shouldn’t have to live in a marriage that’s a lie.
A husband and wife are supposed to be true partners and best friends. They’re supposed to be honest with each other, confide in each other and hold no secrets. They’re also supposed to support each other. On all these counts, Lamar was failing you, Khloe.
You took your vows seriously, but Lamar did not.
Your mom encouraged you to file for divorce because she knows you want to be a mom, another source told HollywoodLife.com. You want “to have kids and you know that Lamar is not physically or emotionally healthy enough to be a father.”
Your mom is right, Khloe. You’re 29, and you can’t put your most important dream of all — to have a family — on hold indefinitely.
Even though your heart must be breaking, it’s time to stop living in a marriage that’s a lie. Don’t you agree, HollywoodLifers? Let me know.
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