Chris Brown — it’s absolutely time to make a major change in your life. You can’t keep getting into trouble with the law. No matter what the outcome of the new charges — find yourself a good shrink!
Chris Brown — your latest arrest and jail time should be the final wake-up call you need to sign yourself up for a top therapist and get to the bottom of your issues which are making you self destructive.
Chris Brown: You Need To Straighten Your Life Out
You are a young, extremely talented and artistic singer and dancer, and you’ve done some wonderful charity work. So why, why, why can’t you keep yourself out of trouble with the law?
You were arrested on Oct. 27 at 4:25 a.m. for allegedly assaulting Isaac Adams Parker, 20, outside The Park at Fourteenth nightclub in Washington D.C. Fortunately, the charges have now been reduced to misdemeanor assault on Oct 28 despite the claim from the alleged victim that you broke his nose. He claimed that you punched him as he tried to step into a photo you were taking with two female fans. He also accused you of yelling a gay slur at him.
Now Chris, I know that you have a different side to the story. You pled not guilty to the charges and argued that Parker tried to board your tour bus and that you felt threatened.You didn’t throw a punch, a source close to you has told Hollywoodlife.com.
Well, we certainly hope that is true and that you didn’t, in fact, punch Isaac. Nevertheless, there was some kind of scuffle and Parker was treated for a “fractured nasal bone.” The question is, why would you even get even close to involved in any kind of confrontation, altercation, scuffle, assault, pushing incident, etc. — even if it was a bodyguard who got physical and not you?
Why wouldn’t you, stay away or even run away from ANY hint of trouble ?
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Chris Brown: You’re Still Dealing With The Consequences Of Your Past Altercations
Chris, you are still on probation for your assault on Rihanna in February of 2009. That means that anything deemed a violation of that probation — such as, ahem, getting arrested again — could instantly land you back in jail, even if you ultimately aren’t found guilty. And if you are found guilty on this new misdemeanor assault charge, you could serve additional time simply because you are still on probation in California.
Chris — you are well aware of why you need to be a law-abiding citizen. Is the fact that you have repeatedly found yourself in the midst of problematic situations just a series of bad coincidences?
Did you really have to get involved in even a verbal confrontation with Frank Ocean in the parking lot of a music studio on Jan. 27? Frank claimed you physically attacked him, however, your team told Hollywoodlife.com that absolutely nothing physical happened and the Los Angeles police never filed charges.
But honestly, couldn’t you have encountered Frank Ocean in a parking lot and NOT said a word to him beyond a simple “hello”? Couldn’t you have done nothing, so as NOT to be misconstrued?
Why, oh, why did you stay in a situation that was getting dangerous for you? There are millions of other clubs in NYC that you could have moved on to instead of staying and ending up in a headline-making all-out melee between your and Drake’s entourages.
Chris, you need to stay out of repeated episodes with the police and courts, so you can just focus on your music and art.
But even though you can afford a top, lawyer, Mark Geragos — who has represented you in court and has no doubt given you great legal counsel — it doesn’t seem like you have taken his advice fully to heart. I’m sure he’s told you to keep your head down and stay away from trouble. You can afford a driver, for example, so why not use one? If you had, you would never have been involved in a hit-and-run, like you were earlier this year.Even though, those charges were ultimately dropped- you don’t need to go through that.
Chris Brown: You Need To Change Your Approach To Life
So Chris, as you now fight these new charges, you have to ask yourself why your life keeps turning out this way. You have to accept responsibility for why you landed in jail for more than a day and a half, and may be now facing more time behind bars. Maybe it’s time to stay away from nightclubs as much as possible. Maybe you need extra bodyguards. I know, it might be a drag to be young and want to have fun and party and not be able to, but it’s still better than going to jail.
You’ve talked about the terrible issues you dealt with as a child. You had an abusive stepfather who physically abused your mother and terrified you. That is an awful situation to have grown up in, and it goes a long way towards explaining why you yourself resorted to physical violence towards Rihanna.
You had a terrible, negative role model with your stepfather. He terrorized you when he was supposed to protect you. Of course you’d be angry after having been subjected to such a traumatic childhood.
However, you have also had potential access for many years to the best professional help in the world. You can afford an excellent psychiatrist who’s trained in helping people with your background and issues. The proper professional can help you overcome your deep-seated fear and anger. Plus, working with an excellent therapist can really enable you to become a happier and more secure person who can make better choices for himself.
Chris, you don’t have to live this kinjd of life any longer. You should be able to fully express your talent and creativity without repeatedly running into negative situations. You have so many fans who look up to you, and you yourself love to mentor younger people.
Now it’s time to mentor yourself. Once you get out of jail, make your next phone call to a shrink who can help you start down a totally positive path — no matter what the legal consequences from this past weekend’s very unfortunate incident.
What do you think, Hollywoodlifers? Should Chris get more professional help so he no longer gets into situations that mean trouble for him? Let me know.
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— Bonnie Fuller