Kanye, I know you’re one of the world’s top rappers, but you know what’s even more important than recording a new album? Preparing for your first baby!
Kanye West, Go Home To Kim
You have a history of leaving L.A. to record. Your last solo album, My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy, was recorded in Hawaii.
But guess what, Kanye. You are denying yourself an experience that is even more profound than the creation of an album.
That would be the creation of your first baby.
While you are reportedly working with Daft Punk, Chief Keef and more, your girlfriend Kim is growing your baby.
She’s uttered not one public word of complaint about having to experience her pregnancy without you, the love of her life. But there’s no doubt that she’s missing you big time. It’s hard for a woman to go through her pregnancy without a loving and supportive partner, especially as she gets into her final trimester, and she feels more uncomfortable by the day and night.
Pregnancy is an exciting and wonderful time for a woman, but there are also lots of aches and pains. Kim could really use your hands to lovingly massage her sore back and to just help her in and out of bed and chairs, and up and down stairs.
Kanye, You’re Missing Out By Being Away
Plus Kanye, you are missing the most exciting part of the growth and development of your baby: feeling your little one through Kim’s stomach, as it rolls around and kicks.
Every pregnant woman is exhilarated by feeling her baby move inside her; it’s the coolest. But dads-to-be love being able to feel their baby, too! It’s one of the most important bonding moments for a dad and his baby. You will fall in love with your baby as you feel it move and grow inside of Kim. And you’re not allowing yourself to have that experience.
Fatherhood Starts Now
I know you plan to be at Kim’s side during the birth of your baby, but there are so many special moments along the way that you will regret missing. Don’t you want to be there with Kim while she gets sonograms of your baby? You’d be able to see your baby as it grows inside her womb.
Then there’s the fun pillow talk about your baby that you’re missing out on. You know, the time when you discuss baby names and your hopes and dreams for your baby — the time when you just imagine together what your baby will be like.
Also, have you and Kim had a chance to discuss what type of nanny or baby nurse you want to hire, if you’re hiring anyone at all to help?
Kanye, in other words, being a dad doesn’t start at the birth. It’s being there by Kim’s side throughout her pregnancy, sharing the joys and stresses of that experience.
Can’t you relocate recording your album to L.A. for your own and Kim’s sake?
Even though Kim is being very cool and understanding about you being away, I bet she’d love to have you home with her!
Do YOU agree, HollywoodLifers? Should Kanye be with Kim during her pregnancy, instead of thousands of miles away? Let me know!
— BONNIE FULLER