First Jesse slammed his sex life with Sandra — now he claims he made a ‘big mistake’ when tying the knot with ‘America’s Sweetheart.’

Does Jesse James, 42, just enjoy saying things that make us dislike him even more? The former Monster Garage star and tatted up motorcycle enthusiast reportedly called his second ex-wife (yup, he’s had three) Janine Lindemulder, just two weeks into his 2005 marriage to Sandra Bullock and dropped a bombshell! And no, we’re not talking about his mistress Michelle “Bombshell” McGee.

“Only two weeks after he married Sandra he phoned me and said: ‘I believe I really made a big mistake.’ I told him to calm down and just be a good husband but he started cheating on Sandra,” Janine tells RadarOnline.com. “While they were married he would also send sexy images of me with the word ‘Yum’ attached to them but we never had sex while they were together.”

Jesse clearly likes to speak without thinking first. Just recently he went on Howard Stern‘s Sirius satellite show and totally dissed his sex life with Sandra when asked who he’d rather sleep with: Sandra or Kat.

“That’s one’s an easy no-brainer,” Jesse tells Howard. “100 percent! She’s a vixen, man. I love her. The way she gets in my head and makes me feel. It’s a mental thing — just connected on a whole different level.”

Janine goes on to reveal that when she married Jesse in 2002, he sent her a sexually explicit text message … but it wasn’t for her.

“It was just the same pattern with me too,” Janine says. “Only two weeks after we were married he wrongly sent me a text that was supposed to be for another woman that read: How’s your Pu***.”

Classy. Well let’s see if the grass really is greener for Jesse’s fourth marriage to Kat Von D. But we know one thing, Sandra doesn’t need this crap and we hope she doesn’t think twice about you!

— Chloe Melas

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Sandra Bullock sat down with Today Show host Matt Lauer for a heart-to-heart interview. The new mom revealed that even though she appears to be “Miss Congeniality” it’s in your best interest NOT to cross her!

Sandra Bullock makes it clear that she won’t tolerate betrayal in her interview with Matt Lauer that aired Aug. 31 on the Today Show. “I will take them down,” the new mom of baby Louis, 7 months, reveals during her chat with Matt.

She explains that Louis’ adoption, which began four years ago, was kept secret by “good people with integrity.”

“Human beings exist that have integrity that know how to keep their mouth shut. That know the bigger picture, that don’t sell out their friends,” Sandra says. “I was blessed with the same friends I’ve had since before things got really special for me and blessed in life. And when things get bad, they’re still the same friends. And –you know, it — everything passes. It all passes. But they just, you know, they know if they screw up they’re not coming on the next vacation. I’m not going to babysit their kids. I will cut them. I will take them down.”

Yikes! But if you’d been betrayed as publicly as Sandra was earlier this year when her husband Jesse James‘ indiscretions with heavily tattooed Michelle “Bombshell” McGee came to light, you might feel the same way too. Adding to her fierce demeanor — her new son, who has brought out Sandra’s protective instincts.

Sandra calls Louis, who was born in New Orleans, her “little Cajun Cookie,” and admits that she didn’t think she’d end up with a son when she began the adoption process.

“Everything works out the way the universe wants it to work out,” she says in the interview which airs tomorrow morning.”We don’t have any boys in our family. Boy, is everyone really happy about that. So, he’s like the crown prince. You know, it’s nothing but girls in our family … It was just the hierarchy that needed to be broken.”

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Quick note Jesse: people who do not have a racist bone in their body generally avoid taking photos in Nazi garb!

Jesse James‘ Nightline interview finally aired last night and the serial cheater claimed he did not have “a racist bone” in his body – just minutes before calling his Nazi photo “funny!”

“I don’t have a racist bone in my body,” claimed Jesse. He then went on to say he “didn’t care what color” baby Louis was. Any points that may have earned him with the audience was quickly lost with the statement he made a few minutes later.

“I don’t even remember taking the photo,” he claims. “But I can tell by the look of my face that it was a joke. That was funny then, for like a minute. Looking at it in the context of my life now, it’s not funny.” How can you not remember taking a photo wearing Nazi garb Jesse! Was this a frequent occurrence for you and your friends?

So let’s break this down. Jesse, who cheated on his wife with white supremacist and human coloring book Michelle ‘Bombshell’ McGee AND took some photos in Nazi garb claims he is in no way racist. There is kind of a major disconnect here buddy.

Jesse also told interviewer Vicki Mabrey he was doing the interview to DISPEL racist rumors! Maybe it’s just a lack of knowledge in the world history department because the one point the interview did manage to drive home is that Jesse is one dense fella.

Jesse then took some more time to whine about the perfect life he ruined and fawn over wife Sandra Bullock. Following the adoption of Louis Bardo Bullock Jesse says: “I found a new trust for her, like I knew she wasn’t going to leave, and our relationship blossomed.” You knew she wasn’t going to leave so you continued to carry on affairs with multiple women?

We can’t tell if you are a horrible person or complete idiot Jesse, but we hope you are done talking.

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Watch Jesse James on Nightline tonight and you too will get it — here’s why!

Jesse James LOOKS like a big, scary toughguy in pictures. He probably looks scary in person with his giant pecs and arm tattoos. He LOOKS like a guy who could be up to all manner of NO GOOD — including sleazy sex sessions with strippers and porn stars.

HOWEVER, here’s the BIG however — when Jesse opens his mouth and starts to talk, he has this normal, nerdy, even nebishy everyday guy voice. He SOUNDS like a sweet, young guy-next-door who wouldn’t hurt a fly, let alone break the heart of America’s sweetheart, Sandra Bullock.

Let me also emphasize that he sounds young! Younger than his age of 41.

This is not the voice of a man demanding oral sex from employees or snarling dirty commands to Michelle “Bombshell” McGee.

I can totally understand why Sandra would have believed her “bad boy” was really just a big misunderstood teddy bear. Once he talks, he seems totally non-threatening! Even cute!

Now I believe that because Jesse sounded like such a nerd growing up — who probably couldn’t land any girl — he overcompensated with the body building, the tattoos and the big motorcycles.

Once he got a reputation, he suddenly had access to women and the horny bad boy went for easy prey — strippers and porn stars.

I bet he never thought he could EVER get a girl like Sandra, but she was a softy who saw and liked the nerd inside his bad boy exterior. He figured that out and played her and the situation for all it was worth!

Watch this video of Jesse talking!

Do you agree?

–Bonnie Fuller

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Sandra Bullock finally talks about Jesse James’ cheating ways and Nazi photos … and she takes the high road, giving Jesse support in his recovery!

Part of what was so shocking about Michelle “Bombshell” McGee‘s claims that she had an affair with Sandra Bullock‘s husband Jesse James was that they two shared an interest in Neo-Nazism.

Sandra confesses to People magazine that the photo of him wearing a Nazi cap “shocked me and made me sad.”  The actress, who has openly discussed her values of acceptance and tolerance, added, “This is not the man I married. This was stupid, this was ignorant. Racism, anti-Semitism, sexism, homophobia, anything Nazi and a boatload of other things have no place in my life. And the man I married felt the same. This I hope Jesse will address one day, but that is not the wold I live in or have ever lived in and have any tolerance for.”

She also says of Jesse’s cheating, “I had no idea about anything until the day when I got the call. Never in a million years did I foresee something like this happening. I wish it hadn’t, and it still doesn’t seem real.”

Sandra, who has filed for divorce from her cheating husband, describes her relationship with Jesse as, “A different one. A bittersweet one. One of new understanding. One of forgiveness. One of support for his recovery. One that changed my life.” Well, we know who is taking the high road in this instance … and we’ve gotta’ say, we’re not surprised! Baby Louis is is so lucky to have a great mom like Sandra!

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Sandra Bullock has suffered so much heartache and public humiliation because of her husband’s multiple affairs – so what’s stopping her from signing her divorce papers on the dotted line?

Sandra Bullock knows she’s going to leave her philandering husband, Jesse James. Now that five of his fifteen mistresses have come forward, how could she not? So why hasn’t the Oscar winner filed for divorce already? The answer: Sandy wants to cut an amicable deal BEFORE filing any legal paperwork.

“She wants to tie up lose ends with Jesse so the divorce is as quick and painless as possible. She wants to makes sure when they divorce he won’t discuss their relationship publicly,” a source tells RadarOnline.

Sandra, 45, has flown under the radar since Jesse’s first mistress, Michelle ‘Bombshell’ McGee, exposed his infidelity on March 17. And despite the fact that more and more women have come forward to reveal their affairs with the 40-year-old West Coast Choppers owner, he’s still trying to save his marriage, even going so far as to check into sex rehab March 31.
Although Jesse isn’t ready to call it quits, his wife has had enough, and will sign her marriage away as soon as “everything is lined up perfectly, so it doesn’t get messy.”

To think that this scandal could get even messier is horrifying. Poor Sandra! We hope that she can sort out the details of her divorce soon and start moving on ASAP!

– Allison McNamara

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You knew Jesse James was a dog — but did you know he was THIS bad? New reports say he’s been with 15 mistresses!

Tiger Woods — your fellow cheater, Jesse James, may have as many notches in his extra-marital bedpost as you do! RadarOnline.com reports “there are as many as 15 Jesse James mistresses in total.” Poor Sandra Bullock! Could Jesse really have been with as many women as Tiger has?

And get this! “Some of the mistresses have been [paid] to stay quiet,” Radar reports.  “Although it’s unclear who is silencing them.” So far, the public is aware of only five of Jesse’s mistresses — Michelle “Bombshell” McGee, Brigitte Daguerre, Devon James, Merilee Gerth, and one who has not yet been named.

Hopefully, Sandra won’t have to live through the pain of ALL them coming out, one by one, the way Elin Nordegren had to. Sandra is holding off on divorcing Jesse until all these “loose ends” are cleaned up and put away, and until she is sure Jesse and the mistresses will not speak publicly about her.

“Jesse made his bed and he has to lie in it,” a source tells Radar. “But that doesn’t mean that Sandra has to.”

At last! We’re so glad you’ve come out of hiding to tell the world the TRUTH, Sandy!

Sandra Bullock is finally talking for the first time since news of husband Jesse James’ multiple affairs broke on March 17 – and she’s coming out with both fists blazing to deny the existence that she and her cheating husband have a sex tape!

“There is no sex tape,” the 45-year-old actress told People in a statement April 6. “There never has been one and there never will be one.”

We were wondering when the Oscar-winner was going to come out of hiding! She’s been in virtual seclusion since In Touch Weekly broke the story that Jesse, 40, was cheating with stripper Michelle ‘Bombshell’ McGee.

But now that she’s speaking – and accepting visitors (pal George Lopez dropped by her West Hollywood home on April 5 for a second time) can we hope that Sandra is emerging from her seclusion?

We certainly hope so! Like we keep saying, Sandra has NOTHING to be ashamed of!

– Laura Schreffler

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3. EXCLUSIVE! Jesse James’ Alleged Mistress #3 Tells Us: ‘He Shouldn’t Have Had an Affair With Me!’
4. BREAKING! SANDRA LEAVES HOME! But Sandy, You Don’t Need To Hide Your Face! You Did Nothing Wrong!
5. Jesse James Rehab: Does He Have a Prayer of Winning Back Sandra? He Better Not!