It’s not easy being the new kid. Just ask Lilly Ghalichi, the latest addition to Bravo’s Shahs of Sunset, who’s already collecting haters after just three episodes. And her biggest hater, of course, comes in the form of M.J., who isn’t exactly afraid to speak out against her fly/fancy lifestyle. We asked Lilly to swing by HollywoodLife.com‘s NYC offices to discuss her relationship with M.J. over a spot of mustaches.

“I really tried to reach out to her,” Lilly said through her tiny mustache. “I wanted to form a friendship. Reza had told me how important she was to his life, and Reza’s important to my life, so I wanted to make her important to me. But as everyone saw, she is not interested in being my friend.”

Naturally, I suggested they could bury the hatchet by letting M.J. model some of Lilly’s bikinis.

“No disrespect,” she began. “There’s a lot of great things M.J. is, but a bikini model definitely is not one of them.”

Reza & M.J.’s Sex Shocker:

I also wanted to give Lilly an opportunity to respond to arguably the biggest (aka the grossest) revelation of the Dec. 16 episode: that Reza and M.J. have had sex, not once, but twice!

“I’m definitely grossed out,” she admitted. “The mental picture of a gay man having sex with M.J. is a little disturbing.”

And after much speculation, we decided it’s entirely possibly that Reza left his trademark suit on for at least one of the forbidden encounters.

“He’s so fabulous, he probably wears his Hermes pocket square and his Gucci loafers,” she said. “That’s the only way to get it on.”

WATCH: Lilly Ghalichi of ‘Shahs of Sunset’ Talks Reza & MJ Having Sex

Watch my interview with Lilly below, then weigh in with your thoughts: Do you side with Lilly or M.J.?

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