Researchers have found scientific proof why men who have just become fathers are more faithful!

Scientists have discovered fatherhood reduces testosterone levels in men by as much as A HALF. The hormone drop makes new dads less interested in sex and more interested in looking after their wife and babies! Does this ring true?

More than 600 men in their 20s were studied over a five year period. During that time, a third had children and the researchers watched their testosterone levels plummet as they faced up to parenthood.

The more hands-on the dad was, the more his hormone levels fell!

Testosterone is, of course, known as the ‘sex hormone.’ It makes men more aggressive and more sexually motivated.

What would you do if you found out your man was cheating while you were — gasp! — still living together? We didn’t know it before, but we know it now: when Jennifer Aniston discovered then-husband Brad Pitt‘s infidelity with his Mr. & Mrs Smith co-star Angelina Jolie, she kicked him out! So how did this all shake down, and should you pull a Jen?

Although these events are ancient history (Brad and Jen officially broke up back in January of 2005), a new Hollywood insider book is about to come up telling the ‘truth’ of how the golden couple’s divorce went down. Confidential: The Life of Secret Agent Turned Hollywood Tycoon Arnon Milchan is the story according to Arnon Milchan, who watched Brangelina become one, , the New York Post reports.

“Milchan introduced Pitt to Jolie and immediately sensed that there was a spark between them,” the book reads. “A passionate romance ensued, with one slight problem . . . Pitt was married to [Aniston] . . . when Aniston kicked Pitt out of the house, all hell broke loose.

“When I heard that Brad left home . . . I offered that he stay at my house in Malibu. He drove to the set . . . on a motorcycle, and he wore a wrap-around helmet with a tinted visor so no one could recognize him,” Arnon adds.

All these years, Jennifer Aniston has been seen as the victim, as weak-willed and pathetic. Are you feeling differently about her now? It takes a very strong woman to throw the love of her life out of her life.

If your guy is cheating while you’re living together he clearly has no respect for you. Respect, loyalty and honesty are the three most important things in any relationship, and can’t survive without them. Who cares if Angelina was a saucy temptress, or one of the most beautiful women in the world? Brad should have kept it in his pants until he ended his marriage with Jen. Cheating is NOT OK.

Even if Brad did not, I have a new respect for Jen. Some women take pity when they hear their men have been unfaithful and let them live in the same house, despite knowing the relationship is well and truly over. She had the strength to say goodbye. So should you.

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If you’re sure a woman is trying to take your guy, do you say something or keep your mouth shut and suffer?

Although in Hollywood terms (which are a bit like dog years), it’s ancient history by now, we’re all still fascinated by the love triangle that is comprised of Brad Pitt, Angelina Jolie and Jennifer Aniston. The trifecta recently got even more interesting: according to a new report, Jen actually fought to save her relationship and confronted Angelina! Is this something you should ever try at home?

Star magazine claims that the mild-mannered former Friends star made an uncharacteristically bold move by phoning up ‘the other woman’ and admonishing her for ‘befriending’ a married man. “She told Angelina to stay the hell away from her husband,” a source says, adding that Jen warned Angie that what she was doing with Brad was “inappropriate.”

Angelina reportedly denied that anything untoward was going on.

Whether or not Jen actually had the guts to confront the man-eating Angelina is still up for debate, but should you ever pull sucha  move?

Although you might think this makes me a bit weak, I wouldn’t advise it. Even if your guy is cheating, it’s going to make you look like a crazy person for calling up his mistress and demanding she stop seeing your boyfriend. Guess what? She isn’t going to. She already knows what she’s doing is wrong, and is doing it anyway. However, if you believe she genuinely didn’t know about you — perhaps he was lying to her, too — then you should absolutely say something, and a phone call would be the best way. Don’t leave a paper trail, and don’t leave phone messages, either.

If the above story is true, what did Jen have to gain by telling Angelina to stay away? A woman like Angie eats women like Jen for breakfast. If she wanted Brad, she was having Brad, her then Mr. & Mrs. Smith co-star. There was no way she couldn’t have known he was married, either, as photos of the golden couple were splashed across the front of every magazine from People to Time as the celebrity wedding of the century.

If you only think he’s cheating, don’t say anything. Wait for the evidence to mount, and then when you know, confront him. The other woman isn’t the person you love, or who you trust. You should be talking to the person who’s betraying you, not the one who has no personal investment in you, and, thus, doesn’t care about your feelings. Blame the guy who’s breaking your heart.

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Not ‘cool’ Jen. How could you cause someone else the pain that you once went through?

Is Jennifer Aniston just as much of a man thief as her arch-nemesis Angelina Jolie? New reports indicate that she stole new BF Justin Theroux from his longtime girlfriend Heidi Bivens — which is exactly what Angie did back in 2005 by snagging Jen’s then-husband Brad Pitt. If the rumors are true, shame on you, Ms. Aniston!

Jen finally went public with her Wanderlust co-star at a MTV Movie Awards afterparty in early June, causing a public outcry when the world realized her virtually unknown new man already had a girlfriend.

“Heidi and Justin have been together for 14 years,” a rep for Bivens told the Page Six. “They met when she was 20 years old and he 24, and yes, she just moved out of their home last weekend. She has no comment.” Ouch!

A source close to Justin’s ex added, “Heidi is heartbroken. She was completely blindsided. She and Justin had been together for years, they had a home. Then he met Jennifer and everything changed. At first he claimed he and Jen were friends.”

However, a friend of Justin’s swears up and down that things were over between he and Heidi before his love affair with Jen heated up. Whatever the case, the time in between relationships definitely raises eyebrows.

When Angelina began dating Brad, her Mr. & Mrs. Smith co-star, immediately after he and Jen announced their divorce, eyebrows were also raised. Jen, who is notoriously reticent about sharing her feelings with the media, dubbed Angie’s move “not cool.” So how could she possibly do this to someone else?

When you’ve been cheated on, you’re at your lowest. You find it impossible to believe that someone you loved so much could betray you so badly.

I’m baffled that Jen, quite possibly the world’s most famously cheated-on spouse, could inflict this pain on someone else. Even if Justin and Heidi were over, the ink had barely dried on the death of their relationship. They should have waited before dating. She should have made sure it was really over.

Jen needs to remember that when a guy cheats — or when a guy who’s been dating the same woman for 14 years and that callously starts dating someone else the second he has a shot at upgrading — he’ll do it again. That old adage is relevant for a reason: Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Jen, you’re being a fool.

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Should Huma Abedin stay with her risque photo-sending husband or walk away from their marriage?

Rep. Andrew Weiner has been leading a secret double life. By day he is a proper, law-abiding Congressman of New York. But at night, he lets his kinky side out to play, using the Internet to sent strangers risque photos of himself. Now that his exhibitionist side has been outed, should his wife, Human Abedin, stick faithfully by his side?

Yesterday, the House Democrat admitted to sending improper photos to random women on the ‘net; there were six separate incidents in three years. But he wasn’t just flashing and running, oh no. Weiner was getting ‘involved’ with these women online. Although it is assumed he hadn’t actually met any of them in person, he is definitely emotionally cheating on his beautiful wife by contacting said women over and over again.

The Congressman got caught when Meagan Broussard, a 26-year-old nurse from Texas, decided to come forward with her story after being sent a flurry of increasingly sexual photos over Twitter — including one of Weiner’s weiner, so to speak.

We know he’s got exhibitionist problems, and likes women to be impressed with his body and power. But should his wife stick around waiting for him to change?

Andrew Weiner definitely has issues, and he definitely needs psychological help. He needs to see a therapist and find out what makes him not only crave but actually need the sexual attention of strangers (it might have something to do with his past self, a former geek. He still hasn’t completely grown out of that insecurity).

It could be worse — he could have been physically cheating on Huma. As it is, sending naked photos of yourself online is weird and kinky, but not 100% detrimental to the marriage if you don’t intend to do something about it or take it any further. Huma should demand her husband get help, and if she loves him, I wouldn’t blame her for staying by his side.

After all, as Meagan Broussard told ABC News,”He’s got issues, just like everybody else.”

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Is it cool for these two exes to keep in contact — even if if he new love, Angelina Jolie, is against it?

Their marriage may not have ended amicably, but if Brad Pitt and ex-wife Jennifer Aniston are still allegedly involved in each other’s lives, to the chagrin of B.P.’s baby mama/life partner, Angelina Jolie. Should you, like Jen, keep in touch with an ex-love or should you keep your distance?

In Touch Weekly claims that when Jen’s beloved dog Norman died, Brad phoned her to offer his condolences on May 18 and the two began reminiscing. Brad gave his former love advice on her upcoming move to NYC and “ told Jen how much his mom misses her.”

The magazine adds that Angie would be “livid” if she knew her man was having secret talks with his ex. “He may have more passion with Angelina, but he had more fun with Jen,” the source says. “He misses that.”

Ouch. Jen’s in a bit of a bind here. On one hand, she very much loved Brad, and he was a massive part of her life. Sometimes it’s hard to let go. On the other hand, their marriage did not end amicably, especially as the word on the street is that he actually left her for Angie. So what’s a girl to do?

Jennifer’s situation is a slightly unique situation. The world waits, watching to see how this trifecta will react when they come in contact at any given moment. She has to be polite in public. However, she shouldn’t be in close contact with a man that might have hurt her so badly.

I think remaining in contact with your ex is a very bad idea if he hurt you or you can’t seem to get over him. You’re holding on to something when you should be letting go, which prevents you from moving on. Plus, not that you really care (especially in Jen’s case) but it’s disrespectful to his new girlfriend to be engaging in anything she doesn’t know about behind her back.

Sorry Jen, but the next time Brad calls, don’t pick up. Let him send a card instead. It’s time to focus on other men – like new guy Justin Theroux, perhaps?

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A shocking new report claims Arnie spent thousands of dollars on a flamboyant birthday party for mistress Mildred Baena’s teenage niece, back in 2000.

Did Arnold Schwarzenegger consider Mildred Baena a ‘second spouse’ and lavish and support her financially – like Sister Wives star Kody Brown and his FOUR wives?

TMZ reports the whole Schwarzenegger clan attended the traditional ‘Quinceanara’ 15^th birthday party he threw for Mildred’s niece, including his four kids with Maria Shriver!

The unnamed birthday girl’s mom is Mildred’s sister Mirian, who also worked in the Terminator star’s household.

Arnie, 63, picked up the entire check, and even gave a speech, telling guests he wanted to “take care” of the Baena family. Can you believe his nerve? Letting Maria, 55, and their children rub shoulders with Mildred, 50, and their love child!

As more possible mistresses emerge, the comparison with Kody — who has 16 kids and one on the way with his four wives — could become even more appropriate. Arnie may even end up rivaling Tiger Woods in the infidelity stakes!

– Ian Garland

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Arnold Schwarzenegger dropped a bombshell today, confessing to the world he fathered a love child with a member of his household staff more than a decade ago!

Maria Shriver has already walked out on her husband — but we’ve yet to discover if their four children plan to stick by their dad.

Son Patrick, 17 and daughter Katherine, 21, have both tweeted their love for their family, but Patrick’s changed his last name on Twitter from Schwarzenegger to Shriver — his mom’s maiden name.

It’s a terrible situation for Katherine, Christina, 18, Patrick, and Christopher, 13, to find themselves in, and it’ll take some time for it all to sink in.

How would you feel if it was your family? Could you forgive and forget a family member’s betrayal?

– Ian Garland