Posted Mon, March 14, 2011 10:00pm EDT

Bonnie Says: Miley's Partying Hard, Justin's Flipping The Finger, Selena Looks Miserable — Their Parents Must Give Them a Break!

Posted Mon, March 14, 2011 10:00pm EDT

How far will Miley, Justin, Selena and Taylor Momsen have to go before a parental figure intervenes?

Will they have to have a total meltdown — a la Demi Lovato or Britney Spears – before their parents realize that every kid, and they are still kids, needs a timeout. And I’m not talking about a punishment timeout.I’m talking about a break from a punishing work schedule that would exhaust a mature adult, let alone a teenager with a very skewed upbringing and outlook.

Just take a look at the new photos of Miley Cyrus stumbling into LA’s Chateau Marmont Hotel on March 12 at 1 am. She was barely able to stand up on her own — and why was she out til 3am at 18? How many high-school seniors would be out partying their brains out till 3? Especially if they had just been caught bong-smoking salvia?

Justin Bieber, normally so polite and gracious to his fans and press, finally flipped his lid, and the bird, at a paparazzo on his 17th birthday on March 1, after having dinner with girlfriend Selena Gomez.

Could anyone really blame him for getting stressed out? The kid has been working practically nonstop since being discovered at age 12. Besides touring the world with concerts, he’s performed at the Grammys, the MTV Music Awards, on Saturday Night Live, The Today Show, GMA, appeared on dozens of talk shows, given countless interviews AND then last week he was practically held hostage in his Liverpool hotel as thousands of his fans stormed his hotel.

Who wouldn’t be burned out by this workload? He’s a kid, not a machine.

Then there’s Selena — another good girl who’s usually all smiles in public. The poor thing looked miserable and worn out at LAX airport on the way to NYC to promote her latest single, “Who Says.”

She also, in a highly uncharacteristic move, gave the finger to photographers and fans after having dinner with boyfriend Justin on his B-day.

But then she’s been on a concert tour promoting her album, A Year Without Rain. Selena has also filmed her fourth season of Wizards of Waverly Place and has filmed the movie Monte Carlo with Leighton Meester. And she’s just 18. . . and she’s had death threats from Bieber fans.

Who can blame these kids from cracking?

Miley hosted SNL last week, and over the past year she’s been filming the movies So Undercover and LOL. And she’s been in the middle of her parent’s very public divorce, with her father criticizing her publicly in a GQ magazine article.

Listen, shrinks say it’s really tough to be a child star and Miley’s, Justin’s and Selena’s parents need to be super-protective — not pushing them.

“Parents want their kids to become stars and do what they can to make that happen,” says Beverly Hills psychiatrist Dr. Carole Lieberman. “But the child can no longer be a child and no longer is able to feel as though he/she is loved for herself.”

Being a child star can “lead to a lot of depression and anxiety. It can harm the relationship with the parents who are pushing the child too hard,” warns Dr. Jenn Berman, a marriage, family and child therapist in LA, and author of The A to Z Guide to Raising Happy, Confident Kids.

Got that parental figures?

Stop treating Miley, Justin, and Selena like workhorses and give them some time to relax and just be regular teens.

Click for photo’s of Miley stumbling out of Chateau Marmont

Click to see Justin Bieber give paparazzi the finger!

Click to see Miley smoking salvia!

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thamires

Posted at 3:15 PM on June 25, 2011  

I hate Hollyodlife and Bonnie!

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jai

Posted at 4:14 AM on March 18, 2011  

“why was she out til 3am at 18? How many high-school seniors would be out partying their brains out till 3? Especially if they had just been caught bong-smoking salvia?”

hahaaha you sound so foolish and niave!!!! omg. im 18. and in college. 18? 3 am? really? we have 16 year olds out partying at that time. get a better excuse. 18 is an adult. thank you. where im at you get curfew charges 17 and UNDER.

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Ashley

Posted at 6:09 PM on March 17, 2011  

Does Miley like Justin is that why Selena is mad and going ham?

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jai

Posted at 4:15 AM on March 18, 2011  

i was thinking miley liked justin too…

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maddy

Posted at 2:44 PM on March 17, 2011  

All teen stars need at least a break everyday not only for bed but during the day and at least be a normal kid like others.

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oceanneizamarie

Posted at 9:20 AM on March 17, 2011  

all kids need a break and if you give them to much they tend to over load so just give selena,justin and miley a break

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lauren pickle

Posted at 10:21 PM on March 16, 2011  

most of those pictures of miley are either really old and 3 of them are from her who owns my heart music video, so i dont think they count and justin only did that because the paps arent leaving him alone and are pretty much staking his every move like jade said with selena .. if the paps would lay off i bet some celebs would act differently.. poor celebs … :-/

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jade

Posted at 8:25 PM on March 16, 2011  

Of course selena would look miserable stupid paparazzi stalking her every move.

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lulili

Posted at 5:59 PM on March 16, 2011  

kkkkkkk…eu não enterder nada kkk… é sim sou brasileira + entendi q num sei mesmos e vou fazer um corso de ingles pessoal upiiiiiiiiiiiiii…

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Ashley

Posted at 6:10 PM on March 17, 2011  

what the h**** did you just say?

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Diana

Posted at 2:56 PM on March 16, 2011  

This article is so stupid. A lot of teenagers party and stay out till all hours of the morning. It has nothing to do with being a celebrity and everything to do with sowing your wild oats.

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amy

Posted at 5:26 AM on March 16, 2011  

Jess simms walton

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amy

Posted at 5:25 AM on March 16, 2011  

HI

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Ashley

Posted at 6:11 PM on March 17, 2011  

If you want to just say hi just text somebody ok Amy.

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marimadness

Posted at 4:26 AM on March 16, 2011  

selena flipped the bird? I thought it was only justin….man these kids work hard (mileys always been screwed up, so dont blame it on her parents divorce its just an excuse.for making idiotic decisions) justins always been a brat and idt selena flipped the bird…poor thing must be tired i cant even imagine how i would feel doing all of the things they do and i crack easily. Hopet hey find vacation time bieber fans need to stop being mean, get a life, grow up and get off their parents computers and go back to making macaroni art. soo mean sorry if i offended anybody but seriously stop hating someone for dating someone you long for. Its very immature. peace love and rockets! Mari

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Ashley

Posted at 6:14 PM on March 17, 2011  

I ain’t know hater you is a hater and a b***** ok so don’t go around saying people are haters i am sorry but you was getting on my nerves!

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goooba

Posted at 2:44 AM on March 16, 2011  

yeah.. mileys a slut and yes so is taylor momsen

but dont you dare tell us that you believe that justin bieber and selena gomez need guidence, they are doing the right things.
open your eyes!

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cece

Posted at 12:48 AM on March 16, 2011  

OF CORSE MILEY IS JUST BEING A IDOT JUSTIN IS DOING FOR NO RESON SELENA I DONT CARE 4 WHY THROW THEIR LIVES AWAY THEY HAVE THINGS ALMOST ALL OF US WANT AND THEY R SMOKING POT FLIPPING FINGERS AND CRYING OVER NOTHING WOW!!!!!!!!!!1

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Violet

Posted at 7:16 PM on March 15, 2011  

And may I add, this site is just desperate so they make of anything out of everything to keep the site alive. Don’t bother. This site’s already DEAD. kbye.

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Ashley

Posted at 6:16 PM on March 17, 2011  

If it so desprate then why are you on it dummy. So shut up you are a b***** and a bimbo ok you need to get a life and watch what you say, cause i will get ghetto and im black and 11 years old.

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Ashley

Posted at 6:19 PM on March 17, 2011  

you need yo shut you are a b****** and a bimbo so shut up cause i will go ghetto oh and im 11 years old.

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Violet

Posted at 7:13 PM on March 15, 2011  

Bonnie, I just might shoot myself. First of all their parents don’t decide when they get a break unless they’re their managers and it’s up to THEM to take a break or not.Second, Justin got mad at the papz and do you have any proof of Miley ‘Partying Hard’ or did you hear Selena say herself that ‘she’s sad’.You’re the one that’s sad. You and your website.

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Jordon

Posted at 3:42 PM on March 15, 2011  

I agree… Ur saying justins giving the finger cuz hes getting bugged by the photographers… And your over reacting!! And this site is not fun to even read anymore!! You also used a few of those photos more than once!

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Again?

Posted at 10:47 AM on March 15, 2011  

Ok, Bonnie. Miley Cyrus IS NOT STILL A KID- she’s 18. Miley is not a high school senior- she GRADUATED from high school LAST YEAR. She doesn’t even live with her parents anymore- she has her own place, her own career, and her own car. She’s a college-aged young adult. She can stay out as late as she pleases. And just because there’s a picture of her on the phone while holding on to a friend doesn’t mean she was drunk or partying hard.

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Alli

Posted at 8:44 PM on March 14, 2011  

so basically, your article is rubbish. they’re acting like normal teens. idk what teens you know, but the ones that i know party all night long when they get the chance. they flip people off, whether it be a joke to a friend or annoy someone. i don’t think any of these stars are doing anything wrong… and beyond that, for selena and miley at least, their parents can’t do anything about it.

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Aubrey

Posted at 7:43 PM on March 14, 2011  

One minute, you’re bowing at their feet, and the next, you’re bashing them..

Jeez, HL, it’s getting old. This used to be a good site, but now, the vast majority of stories are blown way out of the water.

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Aoibhin

Posted at 6:12 PM on March 14, 2011  

Ok seriously what is wrong with this website? Would just leave them alone

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EzzyFranky

Posted at 5:56 PM on March 14, 2011  

What is wrong with this website? You’re always overreacting! It’s not even half as bad as you write here.

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