Posted Fri, August 27, 2010 6:26pm EDT

Bonnie Says: Lindsay — Wearing A See-Thru Top To See Your Probation Officer Is Self Destructive & A Cry For Help!

Posted Fri, August 27, 2010 6:26pm EDT

Are you fed up with Lindsay?

Has she worn out every ounce of sympathy you have? Well, here’s why wearing a sheer top with no bra and visible nipples, should actually make you very concerned for La Lohan.

I too rolled my eyes when I saw this new photo taken today Aug. 27 of freshly released -from- rehab Lindsay, entering a Santa Monica courthouse, to meet with her probation officer, according to TMZ.com. Lohan is on probation at least until the end of Nov. while she attends court-ordered psychotherapy and behavioral therapy.

Showing up for a first meeting with your probation officer would seem to require a certain level of decorum — not gold -studded short denim shorts, visible nipples and a plaid shirt. “If I were her attorney I’d tell her to dress differently — in a classic skirt and blouse — for example,” says Sheila Forman, an LA attorney -at- law and clinical psychologist. “When you dress like that, you’re conveying the message that it doesn’t matter what the probation officer thinks… I’m going to act the way I want and do what I please”, points out LA-based criminal defense attorney, Steve Cron.  Lindsay has taken disrespect to a whole new level – remember the FU nails she wore to her court hearing?

“She’s trying to say ‘up yours’ to the probation officer. It’s very confrontational and defiant,” agrees Rebecca Roy, a licensed psychologist in Beverly Hills, who specializes in treating members of the entertainment industry.

“It’s also very destructive. She’s undermining her legal efforts to show herself in the best light,” points out Forman.  ” At some point down the road, her lawyer is going to be asking the probation officer  what he or she thinks; if she has an attitude or not,” says Steve Cron. “Her sentence can’t be lengthened, but she’ll be asking for probation to be shortened or certain conditions to be lifted and the judge is going to ask the probation officer what he or she thinks…. if the report says anything about her having an attitude or an unwillingness to comply, her probation won’t be lifted.”

Lindsay’s self-destructive ‘defiance‘ is breathtaking, don’t you agree?  Doesn’t it seem to be clear that she’s learned nothing from her 14 days in jail and 22 days in rehab?

Nothing about humility or acceptance that she has a problem. Why else would she be such an exhibitionist both in front of her probation officer (probably a male) and in front of the paparazzi she complains about?

The thing is that mental health experts actually look at this photo and are concerned about the depths of Lindsay’s problems. “Her behavior doesn’t make a lot of sense to most people but it’s saying “I’m really in trouble,” explains Rebecca Roy. “She’s not just a spoiled brat, which is what she seems like. Underneath it all, is a girl in a lot of trouble. She’s a very fragile, frightened girl, who deserves compassion.”

“What’s behind all of Lindsay’s behavior is the fact that she’s an addict and even though she’s improved after being in jail and rehab and being taken off all the prescription medications she was taking , she still needs to address the underlying problems that made her an addict,” believes Beverly Hills psychiatrist Dr. Carole Lieberman, author of the upcoming book, Bad Girls: Why Men Love Them and How Good Girls Can Learn Their Secrets. ” What’s driving her addiction is an emptiness inside from not getting enough love and attention from her parents. She doesn’t feel lovable for herself  so she wears a see thru top so she can get attention for being hot!”

I can see that. Why else would Lindsay do something that seems so inexplicably dumb? Why else would she also have self-destructively missed court dates and alcohol education classes, leading to her own imprisonment. So why have four trips to some of the best rehab centers in the country had had no lasting positive affect on Lindsay? “There’s a lot of deep, complicated issues to be dealt with,” believes Roy. “She may have a personality disorder that requires long-term treatment.

So girlfriends — as tired as you are by the 24-year-old’s antics, consider the experts who believe, she’s using outrageous behavior to cover up how scared and alone she actually feels.

Try and look past her exposed breasts and send Lindsay some sympathy. Lets hope that sometime soon she gets the help she desperately needs.

–Bonnie Fuller

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Dick

Posted at 4:26 PM on August 29, 2010  

Bury her and get on to the real world…

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Eric

Posted at 2:05 PM on August 29, 2010  

She can’t have that bad a problem if she still looks so healthy. Does anyone know where else she was going that day? Do you really think she has time to go change for her probation officer? You need some more facts before you criticize. When people have so many negative comments it is a cray that they are bitter and jealous.

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sara

Posted at 10:28 AM on September 1, 2010  

let’s explore the “if she had other plans before and didn’t have time to change” theory for a minute…

where do you spend hours without a bra on??

she knew what time her appointment was at…that’s like going to work in your lingerie and saying you shouldn’t be punished because “oh, i didn’t have time to change before work!” my 5 year old knows that he has to be at school at 8:00, so he must wake up at 7:30.

if you have a meeting, an appointment, something, allot time to make yourself appropriate??

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Kenneth W Treuter

Posted at 11:29 AM on August 29, 2010  

Speaks volumes about liberals and elitists who used there millions to foist upon the Constitutional American Republic the amorality and degradation which defines all dimlibbers (be they dim-witted Dems, liberals, so-called moderates, and socialistic/commie leaning progressives) and which is personified in the individual BO stench of liberalism and his OBAMANATION UPON THE NATION, INC.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010, can’t get here so enough so decent, true, patriotic, godly Americans can vote and begin the dismantling of the OBAMANATION and return the Republic to its foundational roots.

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Eric

Posted at 1:59 PM on August 29, 2010  

You are kind of a dork, I bet no one wants to have sex with you, that is why you are so bitter.

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Kenneth W Treuter

Posted at 4:09 PM on August 29, 2010  

Sorry for the typos. Of course “there” should have been their. “…can’t get here so enough…” should have been “…can’t get here soon enough…”

Just goes to show you that I too, like all others, have flaws, even if mine are so small it requires a powerful microscope to detect them. ;-)

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Bobby

Posted at 12:43 PM on August 30, 2010  

Kenneth…you are one grade A pig…Why don’t you take a page from your Lord Jesus Christ’s book (you know the one they call the Bible) and try treating people with a little more class. You’ve shown everyone here what despicable filth you represent, tea bagging ball boy. Go away now and get a job! Stop living off our hard-working Americans handouts, and if you don’t like the nation, don’t let the door hit you on the way out. Grade A tool, Kenny boy.

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Leanna

Posted at 3:59 PM on August 28, 2010  

Attention Hollywood Life: Please read: (This is long, but it has some very strong points, and I’m in awe of Miss Roy’s articles and comments!!!!) I consider her your choice to utilize her to be excellent, and you’ve gained a lot of new readers from my production offices because of it!!!! —- I agree with the entertainment psychologist, Rebecca Roy on so many levels. (Does she have a column with you?) —— I feel guilty because I’ve been one to judge Lindsey (even being an Entertainment Industry Production Manager) — and unfortunately at times, I too have been known to say she’s a brat who got fame and stardom and took it for granted, and Miss Roy changed my attitude immediately when I read this article. Because, truthfully people act out. Especially youth who have been through what this girl has. She needs help – there has to be a deeper problem, and she really is a girl in trouble, who needs more help. I hope she is not in danger of something much worse, I don’t want to see her wind up as a fatality like so many of out young stars out there. – Couldn’t someone try to send Lindsey to Miss Roy since she specializes in treating Entertainment Industry Professionals??? If this therapist would take her on, and encourage her and help her – or have room in her practice to work with her. It could save her life?) — It just Seems to me that she could potentially help this kid and maybe get through to her. I’m so passionate about this topic, I’ve attended far too many memorial services for industry professionals under the age of 30, and it’s just not fair to them or their fans. —- I’m an avid Hollywood Life fan, and I just want to say that I really enjoy the articles and comments that the Entertainment Industry Therapist, Rebecca Roy talks about. I’d like to hear more from her about the issues that the stars have. She seems to come from not only a clinical place, but one that normal people can understand – instead of all that psycho-babble jargon. HollywoodLife, do you have other articles with Dr. Roy? I’ve seen the ones on Mel Gibson, This one and Shiloh…and would love to read more on her expert comments, because I too work in the Entertainment Industry, and I feel like there is finally a professional therapist out there who can talk about the biz pros with knowledge, compassion and understanding, who could actually HELP and do some good instead of HARM. I think I’m a new fan of Miss Roy – are you going to be publishing her regularly? Awesome job finding her! She rocks the biz!

I will now give Lindsey a break in my thoughts towards her. She needs some empathy. Not sympathy or babying, but she needs some understanding and intense care before something happens to her. Lindsey if you are reading this, or any of your friends, agents, managers or the like, PLEASE GET HELP – and even maybe try to contact this Industry Therapist, and see if she can help. She sounds like she might understand you, and like a really compassionate therapist. I may just go see her myself…and send half of my office to her. ;) Production is a stressful place to work, and we all need a little bit of help in dealing with that stress before it gets the best of us.

Thanks!

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Boo Hearne Carroll

Posted at 2:30 PM on August 28, 2010  

Without photos like this and celebs like Lindsay, you wouldn’t have a website or a living! Right?

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Tiff

Posted at 12:37 PM on August 28, 2010  

I agree with Bonnie. Lindsay is showing she is still in the rebel phase which tells me she’s hasn’t learned a thing. When your own mom goes on national TV just to say the judge was wrong it just allows Lindsay to blame the court system instead of taking responsibility. When you know the pap’s are following you everywhere, why would you not wear a bra? Very tacky! Show some pride in yourself, Lilo!

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Sugar

Posted at 10:26 AM on August 28, 2010  

Yes, let,s show her some sympathy and give her some privacy to work through her issues. Stop posting stories about her and she won’t also have to deal with being publicly humiliated by her behavior.

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Posted at 7:53 AM on August 28, 2010  

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mabul

Posted at 6:58 PM on August 27, 2010  

Oh Bonnie, you are the greatest troll on the internet.

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