Posted Tue, September 14, 2010 4:40pm EST

EXCLUSIVE! Before Kate’s Solo Vacation With Her Bodyguard, She Went On 6 Other Trips With Him & Lied To Jon About It!

Posted Tue, September 14, 2010 4:40pm EST

BFFs, Kate has been traveling all summer long with her bodyguard Steve Neild, but what’s most shocking of all, is that she allegedly doesn’t tell Jon where she’s taking the kids when they go with her!

Do you think it’s odd that mom-of-eight Kate Gosselin is now finishing up a four-day vacation in sunny Cabo San Lucas, Mexico with her hunky, ever-present bodyguard Steve Neild?

The silver-haired bodyguard and newly buff beach blonde have had to refute rumors of an affair and accusations by her ex-husband Jon Gosselin, of cheating, and yet they are spending more time than ever in extremely close proximity. The pair were spotted relaxing in Mexico with Kate in a cleavage- baring halter top and short shorts, just days after she accused ex-Jon of creating a lousy environment for their eight children during his visitation times with them.

Unprovoked, Kate went on Live with Regis & Kelly on Sept. 10, and said she waits by the phone for her children to call, so she can pick them up from their visits to their dad’s house. She also claimed that she’s always at home … unless traveling for work. Well, an inside source tells HollywoodLife.com that Kate left on her cosy trip, sans kids, with Steve, later that very same day, after throwing mud at Jon.

Their trip concludes a summer in which it appears that Steve and Kate took 7 trips together — some with the children and some without, including a trip to Bald Head Island, N.C., where they were spotted on the beach in bathing suits sitting alone with their legs touching, and taking strolls together at sunset.

But Kate tells PEOPLE that the rumors of her relationship with Steve are “absurd” and she’s “completely alone.”

All together, the pair took 7 trips between the end of May and early Sept., and were together during 10 out of the 16 weeks. Furthermore, Steve has clearly been taking on many of the responsibilities that used to be shouldered by Kate’s ex-husband Jon, including the landscaping in front of Kate’s house, carrying the kids, accompanying Kate to the grocery store, and escorting her down the red carpet at the Emmys.

Steve’s “duties” with Kate apparently leave him little time to see his own wife, Gina Neild, who lives three hours away from Kate in Potomac, Md.

Here’s the thing: Kate has claimed in the past that Steve’s wife Gina is one of her best friends, but Gina’s been MIA since being photographed at Kate’s Reading, Pa., home July 4. Kate also claims she needs a bodyguard because she’s pursued by several paparazzi at any given time. But HollywoodLife.com has been to Kate’s home in Reading, and we can tell you there’s only one main photographer that follows Kate around.

What’s even more shocking is that Kate allegedly lies to Jon about where she’s going. A source tells us there are times when Jon has no idea where Kate has taken the kids!

“When she went to Bald Head Island with Steve, she told Jon she was going to the Outer Banks,” our source tells us. “She doesn’t tell Jon where she’s going.”

We spoke to a child and family psychologist who reveals that this lying and sneaking around is incredibly harmful to the eight Gosselin children.

“In Kate’s mind, she feels she doesn’t need to tell [Jon] where they are because it’s her time with the kids, but I can bet she would expect him to tell her,” Dr. Jeff Gardere says. “It puts a real barrier between mom and dad, and the kids become uncomfortable. It makes for a divided family. This is bad; it causes division in the minds of the children.”

But Steve, who is never photographed wearing a wedding ring, has a family of his own, which he rarely gets to spend time with. In fact, body language experts have been telling us for over a month that there’s serious sexual tension between Kate and Steve! So we did some more digging, and we discovered just how much time Kate and Steve have really been spending together.

Here’s the timeline that shows Steve spending the entire summer with Kate!

  1. May 23: They were spotted in LA for Dancing with the Stars committments, for several days.
  2. June 8: Steve accompanied Kate to New York City for her television appearances
  3. June 14: Steve assisted landscapers at Kate’s home in Reading, Pa.
  4. July 7: Kate and Steve were spotted jogging together in NYC’s Central Park.
  5. July 23: Steve followed Kate to Alaska to film Kate’s new show Kate Plus 8.
  6. Aug. 3: Kate and Steve shared a limo to NYC for more appearances.
  7. Aug. 14: The two spent a week on Bald Head Island, N.C., with the kids to film Kate Plus 8.
  8. Aug. 20: They took a trip to Quakertown, Pa.
  9. Aug. 30: Steve was by Kate’s side for her big Emmys opening performance in Los Angeles.
  10. Sept. 12: The two were spotted alone together in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico, without the kids.

What do you think, BFFs? Are Kate and the bodyguard just good friends or something more?

— Bonnie Fuller & Chloe Melas

Click For Pics of Kate’s Evolving Hairstyles!

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Sue

Posted at 1:47 AM on September 15, 2010  

Nah…I don’t think they’re having an affair, but I do think that both Kate and TLC are pretty good at keeping everyone breathlessly wondering if there is an affair going on! And that helps the ratings, most likely! I really do think there probably is a legitimate place for some type of security, considering the nutcase who stormed the Discovery Channel studios a few weeks ago and took employees hostage. He specifically mentioned Kate and her family, and who knows what other threats have been made against Kate by other nuts out there. Just sayin’…..

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Barbara

Posted at 9:52 AM on September 15, 2010  

So how come the kids don’t have a bodyguard? You’re right about there being a lot of nuts out there, but I would think the kids are in greater danger from kidnappers, pedophiles and violent offenders than Kate ever is.

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LEVI

Posted at 11:08 PM on September 14, 2010  

Keep digging…you won’t believe what else you will fing about this lying Ho…there is sooooooo much more =)

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LEVI

Posted at 10:51 PM on September 14, 2010  

Very Good Hollywood life..ya scored an A+…ya doing some digging and finally realizing that this woman is scheming and lying and has been getting away with it for a long time. You got one thing wrong, his wife has not been seen since Thanksgiving…no pics whatsoever at the house or with her cheating husband. Me thinks things are finally unfolding here for Lying Gosselin..what about her frolicking along Mexico with her Booby Guard? Me smell a rat and its name is Katie Irene Gosselin

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Jackson

Posted at 8:15 PM on September 14, 2010  

Is steve wearing Jons’ clothes? Polo shirt and baggy shorts. Steve is starting to look sloppy…maybe time to trade him in for another model.

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LEVI

Posted at 11:09 PM on September 14, 2010  

Gosselin dresses him…she likes him naked though

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Jenna-na-na

Posted at 6:48 PM on September 14, 2010  

A limo is so lame. Kate is lame-r. And Steve is a dick for cheating on his wife, and Kate is a homewrecker.

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lukebandit

Posted at 6:19 PM on September 14, 2010  

maybe due to all the stress and pressure, maybe steve could not perform for kate last night or early this morning due to temporary impotence!

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Told you so!

Posted at 6:05 PM on September 14, 2010  

Gina Neild was not photographed at the Gosselin Orphanage on July 4th. Only Steve and his son were. Trying to recall, but the last photos of Gina may have been around Easter or prior.

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lukebandit

Posted at 6:17 PM on September 14, 2010  

yes, Gina was NOT at the July 4th party at kates. just steve and his sons. the last time gina was photographed was when gina, steve and kate were all dressed up and getting into the divider limo Kate requires a divider limo to go out. that has been what last summer?
kate is despicable!

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LEVI

Posted at 10:52 PM on September 14, 2010  

nope, Thanksgiving

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Daisy

Posted at 6:03 PM on September 14, 2010  

Gina was not at the July 4th party at Kate’s. Only his 2 boys and one of the boy’s girl friend. I don’t think Gina was at the house since Easter.

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Told you so!

Posted at 6:07 PM on September 14, 2010  

Wow. Simultaneously posted same thing, ha ha!

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Ome Omy

Posted at 7:36 PM on September 14, 2010  

Nope, last time Gina was at Kate’s was last Thanksgiving. She wasn’t there Easter, pretty sure.

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galey

Posted at 5:16 PM on September 14, 2010  

Kate looks like she just lost her best friend in this pic and that top is not at all becoming. Him on the other hand, yum, yum…wonder what his wife thinks of this or are they even still together??

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magdalana

Posted at 4:43 PM on September 14, 2010  

I highly doubt it!!! he is very dashing and suave.. She just looks plain mean!! And for godsake she has 8 kids!!! I don’t tink soooo.

I would date him though!

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Carol

Posted at 9:00 PM on September 14, 2010  

Oh for God’s sake, he’s getting laid and she thinks she’s hot. What a laugh! I think ol Stevie is seeing $$$$ when he looks as that beached whale. And that’s it, no romance at all. Only in Khates mind, what little there is left of it.

This bitch needs to take a long walk off of a short pier. She’s such a fame whore.

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