Posted Thu, May 27, 2010 7:18pm EDT

Hollywood’s Tamed V Untamed Women! Who Will Keep Their Men HOT For Them ALWAYS!

Posted Thu, May 27, 2010 7:18pm EDT

Why did Brad really leave Jen for Angie? Why is Seal head over heels year after year for Heidi Klum? Why does Madonna have Jesus, 22, in her thrall? And how’s Gwen Stefani kept Gavin Rossdale happily monogamous?

I’ll let you into a secret… these women create the impression in male brains that they are “untameable.”

No matter how long their men are involved with or married to them, there are certain women that have effectively cheat- proofed their relationships through the sheer force of their personalities. And it has nothing to do with having a perfect body, botoxing themselves or putting off having kids to save their figures.

Here’s the secret of seeming “untameable,” and keeping their men on their toes: “men like to be surprised; they like novelty,” explains Kate White, editor-in-chief of Cosmopolitan. “There’s research that shows that novelty actually releases dopamine in the brain and it’s a high. The more you surprise a guy, the more it helps to create a sense of euphoria.”

So how does this relate to a long term relationship? The Brad/Angelina/Jen triangle is a perfect example. Kate points out that Jen appears to be a creature of habit. “Her life is filled with working out, eating the same chickpea salad for lunch everyday  and she repeatedly going to the same place to vacation – Cabo, in Mexico. In contrast, Angie is like novelty run a muck. She’s adventurous — she adopted a baby on her own, she’s going to Third World countries on humanitarian missions, she’s taking wildly different film roles, she’s moody,” Kate says. “Brad’s head must be spinning. He never knows what’s coming next. He must be a wreck sometimes, but it’s fascinating.”

Kate believes that what guys are secretly saying in their hearts is : surprise me!

Celebrity relationship expert, Cooper Lawrence, author of The Cult of Celebrity agrees that a woman does not want to seem “tamed,” if her intent is to ensure her man won’t cheat. “All the research of the last 50 years reveals that about 40% of men cheat. Keeping a man on his toes, keeps him interested!”

Christina Aguilera apparently understands this well. She’s totally into surprising her husband, Jordan Bratman. “I like to play doctor. I got Jordan a doctors’ outfit with a doctors’ bag full of sex toys. I wore the naughty nurse’s costume, of course,” she said. She also admitted that Sunday’s are ‘naked days’ in her house — “we do everything naked. We cook naked.”

Heidi Klum also knows how to inject surprise into her relationship  with hubby Seal. “She packs for me with beautiful notes in my luggage that I discover… we try to do date night once a week and we have vacations where we leave the kids,” Seal reveals.

But being an untamable woman isn’t just about sex — it’s also about having confidence and a zest for life, that keeps men intrigued. “You need to exude power and authority,” believes Cooper. “The fact that a woman CHOSE you, is a turn on for a guy.”

“I’ve always heard that certain celebrity women are incredibly needy or have baggage from previous relationships and guys really get tired quickly of having to reassure women,” Kate White points out. “Neediness, wears thin quickly. I think that’s why A-Rod likes Cameron Diaz — she’s so independent.”

So if you want your man to see you as untameable, avoid falling into the Jen” tamed trap” — the same routine, same hair style, same weight issues. Instead take a page from Angelina’s playbook, advises Whitney Casey, relationship expert and author of The Man Plan. “Novelty and diversity and being confident and multidimensional is key. Change your looks up the way Angie changes herself in roles from Tomb Raider to The Tourist. Let you hair get unruly, change your perfume, pack your bags and take your man to a hotel for the night,” she suggests.

Every time your man is surprised by your unpredictability, he realizes he can’t EVER tame you!

Now click to see which stars are tamed v untamed!

–Bonnie Fuller

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jhon

Posted at 7:31 PM on September 20, 2011  

I like the picture’s

but, some words are hard to read!!!!!

seeing eye to eye, making cents . is important….

hello everybody.. out there….
sick………..

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lolanyc

Posted at 9:37 AM on May 28, 2010  

yeah this site is SOOO ANTI WOMAN! Why the hell should women change it up and surprise the MAN?? Did u ever stop to think that men should surprise the woman>? Who wants to be a slut like angie? Shes run through a ton of men! Just cuz shes with brad a few yrs doesnt make her a role model. How do we know brad didnt cheat on her???? He just isnt dumb enough to get caught!!! U honestly think BRAD PITT doesnt want other women.. yeah right. Ever here for ever beautiful woman theres a man tired of screwing her?> I doubt her adopting kids and country hoping keeps him interested, AND STOP Jen bashing!!! How the hell do u know what she does?? She married Brad Pitt. Thats a big deal~! Lets not forget she got him to say I do. Just cuz it didnt last doesnt take away from the fact she got him. I like perez hiltons site better. All u talk about is cheating men and why the woman is to blame.. Your an angie lover.. and ugh Im always so sick after I read this site.

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karen

Posted at 9:04 AM on May 29, 2010  

HONEY YOU NEED TO CALM DOWN.

This site is hardly Angie friendly.. Read it and you will see Bonnie is all about your precious Jenny poo. And I see you are screaming the Jenny Poo anthem.. Brad Pitt married her. But don’t forget he divorced her too, and never had children with her, which is a life long bond. I am amazed that you people think Angie brings children home on the sly. Brad and she speak the same language regarding family. They both want lots of kids. Brad travels because he likes it too. Never did it with Aniston because she only loves going to Mexico. And Brad didn’t cheat. But don’t forget that Aniston wanted him to “get Angie out of his system” and come back to her.. BRAD Said NO he could not do that. hmmm. if you are going to live in Aniston’s as*.. you may want to research the neighborhood a bit more.

Brad fell in love with Angelina and she with him. He and Aniston have been over more then 5 years.. and you HENS can’t get over it.. Suck it up and let Brad Pitt go. The man has the life he wants with the woman he wants. Sorry it is not Jennifer Aniston. OH and Brad Pitt is the father of “those adopted kids”..His choice..His children..Grow up and get your own man then you won’t have to feel so bad for Aniston.. Remember there have been SEVERAL men after Brad. WHY are you all still focused on him. HE is her EX husband. NOT the last man to have been with her..

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claud

Posted at 9:35 PM on May 27, 2010  

this website has to be the most anti woman, annoying thing in the world. i like the pictures of celebrities, but jesus christ. i should pretend to be untameable or some such crap to make men like me? is there more crap i have to do to make men like me? please… let me diet obsessively, get my hair done and blah blah blah not to mention alter my personality for a man so he’ll frakking like me. i mean… fine… you’re some kind of lunatic globe trotter who looks good in any hairdo… that’s who you are. you won the lottery! but god forbid you should like a salad and want to eat it, and have food issues… i mean, how do you pretend not to like a frickin salad you like? i can’t even eat the salad i want now? you people are INSANE.

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whteve

Posted at 12:54 AM on May 28, 2010  

I so agree with you.

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Posted at 1:54 AM on May 28, 2010  

there is nothing more to add than your comment Bonnie how old are you???

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Victória Bieber

Posted at 7:32 PM on May 27, 2010  

tensooo

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