Posted Fri, June 10, 2011 9:07am EDT

Bonnie Says! The Real Reason Anthony Weiner Cheated On His Wife, Huma Abedin!

Posted Fri, June 10, 2011 9:07am EDT

Being gorgeous like Sandra Bullock, Jen Aniston or Elin Nordegren doesn’t protect you from a cheater. Here’s why men cheat!

Congressman/sexter Anthony Weiner‘s beautiful wife Huma Abedin is the latest high profile woman to be stunned to learn that her husband had a shocking sexual double life.

It seems that like Sandra Bullock, who publicly thanked her then-husband, Jesse James, at awards shows for his love, and Maria Shriver, who defended husband, Arnold Schwarzenegger, against cheating accusations when he ran for governor — Huma didn’t suspect a thing.

So why do men cheat on the world’s most beautiful women? And often with women, far less attractive and accomplished than their wives?

“It has nothing to do with one’s look. One’s look will not deter a man who is going to cheat, asserts psychotherapist Dr. Robi Ludwig, author of Til Death Do Us Part. “Cheating for the man is about excitement, building up their ego, enjoying the chase and just plain mixing things up!

These men who are in powerful positions now, like Congressman Anthony Weiner or Arnold Schwarzenegger may still feel powerless or small inside — like how they felt growing up,” explains psychiatrist Dr. Carole Lieberman, author of Bad Girls: Why Men Love Them & How Good Girls Can Learn Their Secrets.

“These guys are still driven to prove that they are big men, and they can do that by conquering women, as well as conquering other status symbols. So no matter how beautiful the woman, it’s not enough. Once they’ve conquered the woman by marrying her, the satisfaction goes away.”

Now these guys may also be so impressed by their own power and celebrity that they feel “entitled” to cheat. “They feel they’ve earned it,” explains Cooper Lawrence, relationship expert for The Scott & Todd Show on WPLJ. “They also now have access to women the never had before.”

And finally, in the case are some of these shocking cheaters, like Jesse James and perhaps Anthony Weiner — they cheat because deep down they are so insecure they can’t believe they actually “landed” the wife they have. They can’t believe she actually loved them. So they decide like Jesse James that their wives must be faking their feelings. And that entitles them to cheat.

Jesse implied in an interview with TV host Piers Morgan that Sandra Bullock was just acting in her acceptance speeches when she praised him. “She said that same speech at four different award shows … ” said James. “What does she do for living.”

Maybe Anthony Weiner didn’t think HE was worthy of totally impressive Huma.

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guest

Posted at 1:46 PM on July 31, 2013  

If you withhold sex, you will be cheated on and your marriage will fail. Women who use sex as a weapon fail to realize this. It doesn’t matter how pretty or successful she is. No sex = relationship suicide.

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Andy Shep

Posted at 1:23 AM on October 30, 2011  

I don’t care how beautiful a woman is, if she withholds sex because you didn’t clean the bathroom or help her stupid brother with something then the next time you see her in a sexy neglige all you will be thinking about is the bathroom and her stupid brother. The new girl doesn’t have the baggage. I bet you Arnold’s maid never manipulated the crap out of him for her favors.

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Lime

Posted at 6:52 PM on June 15, 2011  

So much analytical horse manure. Men “cheat” because we like sex and are not tied to a one forever notion. We do not “cheat” when we decide that even though we can, we won”t, not for some psychobabble or moralistic swill, but because we said so. Stop making it something it ain’t. Monogamy is your idea. I keep faith with you because I said I would and putting pain in your life isn’t who I am here to be. Now do me like you are all those women I will never get.

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Steve

Posted at 4:06 PM on June 15, 2011  

Jesse implied “She said that same speech at four different award shows … ” said James. “What does she do for living.”
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What the Hell does he want? Sandra has talent, looks, and money? As for brains – let’s just say, she finally used them when she dumped this dirtbag!

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HoneyB

Posted at 11:32 AM on June 14, 2011  

Whether she’s ugly or beautiful isn’t the point — nobody forced him to marry the woman. He shouldn’t have married her if he wasn’t going to keep it in his pants. She’s about as smart as him for not LEAVING. instead of standing by him (prego too!) just like all those other political wives aka stepford wives.

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No

Posted at 5:29 PM on June 13, 2011  

The wife’s certainly no looker…neither is he, but she’s one ugly Arab woman…

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dori

Posted at 12:48 AM on June 13, 2011  

The wife is butt ugly, why would anybody write that she was beautiful? Her eyes are crossed and her nose is big. Maybe he was so confused because why else would a Jew marry a muslim?

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mario

Posted at 12:36 PM on June 12, 2011  

Maybe Weiner was just not getting laid enough. You can be married to a real beauty but if you are not getting laid enough then you are just like all the other guys ogling her and not getting anything. His wife was off roaming the world with Clinton’s wife while Weiner was home dealing with lack of sex.

The guy was frustrated and the Internet was a less unfaithful way of satisfying himself., Why is it any more complicated than that.

I once knew a guy who married a real beauty by anybody’s estimate. He told me the only time he got laid was on Saturday morning. so for the rest of the week he was just like every other guy ogling her at work and when they saw her on the street.

Maybe Weiner’s wife is frigid or won’t give him oral or whatever. She could be a real pruss!

Poor Weiner may have found out too late.

What good is it to be married to the most beautiful woman in the world if she is not available for sex when you want it.

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bigg man

Posted at 6:51 PM on June 12, 2011  

I agree with the above comment. I would bet you that most men cheat because their wives want give it to them like they want it, bottom line. Men want oral sex and they want to manipulate their mate in lots of different ways in sexual positions. It makes us feel powerful and it strokes our ego. Women will have oral sex with you when you are dating them but stops years into the marriage. Ladies take it from a man, if you sex your man right and stroke his ego sexually and drain the drug ( Testosterone ) out of him before he leaves the house he want have anything for the mistress, and after awile, if he’s cheating, he will stop, because he is getting it at home. This is coming from the Heart ladies. We men have to have sex to complete us, if we don’t we will have wet dreams,masturbate to much on porn sites,or even have sex with dolls when you are not home,and start doing deviant things that could have embarrasing consequences to the family. We have to get it out, Thats how GOD made us, Ladies don’t be in denial about this and take care of your husbands if you want him to, do anything for you and not cheat on you. With us it’s all about getting sex the way we want it, thats why we married in the 1st place. We thought we would or could have sex anytime we wanted it,but that just doesen’t happen because women are trying to wash clothes, clean the house, and take care of the kids, so don’t get me wrong, we men have to help out so our ladies want be so exausted, that they don’t feel like having sex. In two working parents house holds, sex has to be planned and carried out on that planned date, no matter what or men will get frustrated and withdraw smile, take care of the kids and cheat.

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star

Posted at 1:11 AM on June 13, 2011  

I’m having a very hard time comprehending why weiner’s wife is getting blamed for his unhealthy habits. weiner should of remain single if he knew he couldn’t handle life as a married man. he didn’t even reach a year. i don’t even know why these man get married in the first place. all they seem to know how to do is hurt the woman they take as there wives. THEY ARE DESPICABLE!!!!!

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surerh

Posted at 9:26 AM on June 12, 2011  

i want to chat

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