Rob Kardashian and Blac Chyna, it’s time for both of you to grow up, stop fighting privately and publicly, and put the needs of your new baby girl, Dream, first.
Blac Chyna and Rob Kardashian, you have had a tumultuous year-long relationship, seemingly capped off by Blac taking Dream and moving out of Rob’s home on Dec.17. Now, it’s time for the two of you to stop airing your dirty laundry in public — which both of you did endlessly this past weekend, and instead, privately get some very serious couples counseling.
You two are now the parents of one-month-old daughter, Dream, and as well, Blac, is mom to four-year-old King Cairo. These babies deserve to live in a stable environment. They need to have a chance to grow up as secure individuals, with the best possible future. It doesn’t help either child to have their parents publicly at war. Just consider what went down this past Saturday evening.
First, Rob, you took to Snapchat to break the news that Blac had moved out of the new house that you had just bought for your family. You gave your fans a tour of the empty rooms left behind — Dream’s nursery stripped of all her furniture and King Cairo’s empty bedroom as well. “My baby girl is 1 month old and Chyna took her and left this beautiful home that I just bought for us,” you sadly reported. “Right before Christmas. Someone I have given my all to. I gave everything I owned for her.”
Rob confessed that “I have never been this heartbroken in my life. I don’t mind being so open or if anyone thinks I’m being weak but I don’t play when it comes to family and Chyna was my family and I thought we were getting married.”
This glum turn of events was sad enough for Rob and for Dream, but the situation got a whole lot worse when Blac Chyna allegedly took to Instagram shortly after to slam Rob as being “mentally ill” and verbally abusive. “Rob is mentally ill and refuses to seek help. He self-medicates which makes it worse.” She allegedly accused him of being “an absolute lunatic then cover[ing] it up with gifts. I was verbally abused every other day. I was still there with nothing but high hopes for us.”
Blac then claimed that Rob started calling “me all types of bitches and hoes. AND I NEVER, NOT ONCE CHEATED ON ROB! EVER!”
There are some very serious accusations, if they are in fact from Blac. There has been some question about Blac’s Instagram messages after she announced earlier Saturday that her official Instagram had been hacked. This new message appeared on her new Instagram.
In any case, what’s very clear is that Rob and Blac’s relationship is on dismal ground and that’s bad news for baby Dream . Rob and Blac, you’ve been engaged but have never set a wedding date. You’ve publicly split before and you only just officially moved in together a couple of weeks ago.
Rob, you’ve battled demons including depression for years, and if it’s true that you’ve refused to get proper medical and psychological treatment, then you’re hurting not only yourself, but also your beloved little daughter, and your supposed “love,” Blac.
Blac, on your end, using the world as your stage to attack Rob, is doing nothing productive for your daughter or Rob. It’s just making your relationship worse. You two need to find a couple’s counselor that you both like and trust pronto, and then commit to weekly or twice weekly sessions, in which you can hash out your differences.
Even if you ultimately decide that you don’t love each other enough to stay together, or aren’t compatible enough, you still need to learn to get along without mudslinging for the sake of Dream. Her needs have to come first.
Rob, if you need counseling and medical attention yourself to break free of depression and anxiety, then get it. Stop wallowing and whining, and start working on making yourself into a person that you, yourself, like.You need to become the man that can teach your daughter values and self-respect, and the man who can make Dream always feel loved and secure.
Blac and Rob, you may actually enjoy the drama you create, but your daughter sure won’t. Dream deserves more from you than a public slugfest.
Do you agree, HollywoodLifers? Do Rob and Blac need to put their daughter’s needs first and take their issues off Instagram? Let us know!