Everyone has noticed that Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston are moving SUPER quickly as a couple, and HollywoodLife.com has spoken to relationship experts who tell us that Tay needs time to heal from Calvin Harris. See why Swiddleston’s relationship may be in danger if they don’t slow down!
Taylor Swift, 26, and Tom Hiddleston, 35, are speeding along, but it was only recently that Tay split from Calvin Harris, 32, and she hasn’t really taken the time to process the breakup. Project Soulmate founders Lori Zaslow and Jenn Zucher spoke to HollywoodLife.com EXCLUSIVELY about how Swiddleston needs to take it down a notch if they don’t want to doom their relationship!
Lori and Jenn tell us that Taylor is moving way too quickly with Tom. “Being fresh out of a relationship with Calvin, she needs to take some time to heal from her past relationship before she can have a successful relationship with Tom,” they say. That definitely makes sense!
Lori and Jenn’s advice to Taylor is to “take some time to focus on herself and spending time with her family/friends and things that she likes to do”, because going from relationship to relationship can have a negative effect. “She needs to make sure she doesn’t lose herself from not spending time being single. She also could be reflecting any issues or insecurities that she had in her past relationship with Calvin onto her new relationship with Tom since she didn’t take the time to heal from her past relationship,” they add. So true!
Lori and Jenn observe that Swiddleston meeting each other’s parents and taking European vacations together at such an early stage might hurt them in the long run. “A relationship is supposed to happen in stages, which allows it to progress over time. If you start off very strong in the beginning and go through all of the exciting and significant stages of a relationship in the beginning, then you don’t have has much to look forward to when it comes to progressing as a couple,” they say. That means Tay Tay and Tom Tom might benefit from cooling off a little and giving each other space!
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