Beyonce, if it’s true that Jay Z cheated on you — which your new album, ‘Lemonade’, seems to imply — then you are one forgiving woman. But Jay Z, be warned: your wife should not tolerate anything less than total faithfulness in the future.
Beyonce, you certainly sound like a woman scorned in multiple songs on your new masterpiece album, Lemonade. And if Jay Z was the man who caused you the intense heartbreak that you’re singing about, then he needs to be counting his lucky stars that you didn’t toss him to the curb for good and move on. And listen here Beyonce, you don’t ever need to go through any romantic betrayal again. You aren’t just one of the world’s most talented, brilliant and beautiful stars; you are a wonderful woman and mother.
No woman should have a partner who is unappreciative and dishonest. You clearly know all about this. You sing about a woman hurt by a cheater on Lemonade. For those of you who haven’t heard all of Beyonce’s very revealing lyrics on the album, here are a few:
From the tune “Pray You Catch Me”:
“You can taste the dishonesty / It’s on your breath as you pass it off so cavalier.”
From “Hold Up”:
“Can’t you see there’s no other man above you / What a wicked way to treat the girl that loves you.”
From “Don’t Hurt Yourself”:
“Who the f*ck do you think I am? You ain’t married to no average b*tch, boy.”
“I smell that fragrance on your Louis V, boy”
“He only want me when I’m not on there / He better call Becky with the good hair.”
From “Love Drought”:
“I’ve always been committed, I’ve been focused / I always paid attention, been devoted, tell me what did I do wrong?”
And from “Daddy Lessons”:
“My daddy warned me about men like you / He said, “Baby girl, he’s playing you.”
Whoa! These are all intense lyrics, Beyonce. And no, you are no “average b*tch”, not that any woman should be cheated on. But these lyrics reflect what must have been your complete bewilderment when you learned that your husband could possibly have stepped out on you with another woman. And Jay Z, if you did cheat on Beyonce, that is 100% a “wicked way to treat the girl who loves you”! Especially when Beyonce makes it clear that she has “always been committed”.
Rumor has it, Jay Z, that you had a too-close friendship with fashion designer Rachel Roy, 42. And that’s why Bey’s loyal sis Solange attacked you in an elevator after the Met Ball in NYC on May 5, 2014. If that’s the case, or you got too close to any woman, then Beyonce, 34, deserves full credit for being willing to work out the marriage issues that you two experienced. And you, Jay Z, also get kudos for doing your part to allegedly pull your marriage back from the brink.
After throwing off her wedding ring in one scene in Lemonade, Beyonce affectionately shows Jay Z ,46, playing with Blue Ivy at the Super Bowl, and Jay is also shown kissing her feet. I fervently hope that in real life, Jay Z is also kissing Beyonce’s feet, whether or not he cheated. He should be so grateful to be married to the ‘Queen’.
Now, marriages — celebrity and non-celebrity — do survive cheating, at a far higher rate than you would expect. Seventy-six per cent of marriages survived an affair in a study by the late San Diego researcher Peggy Vaughan, who ran the website Dearpeggy.com. Apparently 20% of men and 14% of women have extramarital affairs, according to research conducted by the University of Chicago. Psychologists say that couples are able to survive the heartbreak of an affair if both members are willing to work very hard and to be honest about the problems in their relationship and the shortcomings in themselves.
While it’s hard to see that Beyonce could have any shortcomings, she needs to be applauded for her commitment to her family even if Jay cheated. But Jay Z, if you betrayed Bey, then you have had your one chance. It can’t happen again. It would be too cruel to your wife and little daughter. No man should ever repeat adultery, even if he managed to receive forgiveness for a first time. And Beyonce, don’t give Jay any second chances if he hasn’t been true. You should be done and done!
Do you agree, Hollywoodlifers? If Jay Z has cheated on Beyonce, is he done with his chances? Let me know.