Poor Khloe Kardashian! Turns out her ex James Harden was cheating on her. Does this sound like a broken record or what? HollywoodLife.com reached out to top relationship experts to find out the signs of cheaters and how to find true love. Read here for all the EXCLUSIVE details!
On the recent episode of Kocktails With Khloe, the reality star revealed the shocking news that James Harden, 26, cheated on her! We couldn’t help wonder why this keeps happening to Khloe Kardashian,31, so HollywoodLife.com spoke to the best love experts in town to find out how to protect ourselves from would be cheaters!
Jenn Zucher and Lori Zaslow, founders of Project Soulmate, offer us some signs to look for when dating a probable cheater. Watch out if your guy all of sudden becomes unavailable, sneaky and disinterested in sex! “Hiding his phone, changing his passcode on anything and everything. Constantly deleting texts. Being obscure with plans. All of a sudden caring about what he looks like, more than usual.” These all warning signs that your man is possibly cheating.
Also be on the look out for any guilt-ridden gestures, says sex therapist Dr. Carole Lieberman. “First he’s irritated and angry, and then extra sweet, but it comes out as phony. This alternating back and forth without you doing anything to provoke it is a typical sign.”
We have to ask—why is Khloe continually attracting these types of men into her life? Relationship expert Christy Whitman explains The Keeping Up With The Kardashian star’s poor choices stem from her childhood. “Everything we attract into our lives comes from our beliefs and programming. Khloe’s mom cheated on her dad. Seeds are planted and it becomes a possibility of it happening to her, especially if she identified with her dad over her mom. Then she has a relationship and then when it happens once, another belief and therefore expectation is created. It is a self-fulfilling prophecy.” So sad!
Christy goes on to explain that Khloe will continue to attract men like this until she creates a new vision for herself. “We attract from the vibrations we give out plain and simple. Focus on what you want, rather than on what you don’t want. Remember you get what you focus on, even if it’s not what you want. Be mindful. It’s called the Law of Attraction!”
Los Angeles based therapist Elana Harriman of Playa Vista Wellness agrees that Khloe has some inner work to do before she jumps into a new relationship. “She needs to look within herself. Unconsciously, she doesn’t believe that she is lovable so she keeps choosing men that will support her theory. She might benefit from taking some time to herself to heal from unresolved traumas. Only then she can stop choosing to get into relationships that are doomed.”
What do YOU think HollywoodLifers, should Khloe get some professional advice before she gets into another relationship? Tell us what YOU think!