Lamar Odom — what were you thinking when you ambushed ex-wife Khloe Kardashian at an L.A. SoulCycle? If you want to win your ex-wife back, that’s the absolutely wrong way to do it.
Lamar Odom, if you love Khloe Kardashian and want to convince her to re-marry, then you can’t ever surprise her at 6:45 AM when she’s trying to go to a SoulCycle class. You terrified Khloe on Aug. 12 when you ambushed her as she tried to walk into her spin class, and you started screaming at her. You were insisting that she talk to you, according to an eyewitness who spoke to TMZ. Then when you touched her arm, she screamed: “Get off of me, get off of me!” then added, “How did you know I was here?”
Lamar, only you and Khloe truly know what’s gone down between you since your divorce was finalized on July 17, over a year since Khloe filed divorce papers. We do know that divorcing you was an agonizing decision for Khloe, who just recently told Women’s Health magazine: “I love Lamar to death. He is the love of my life. We had a fantastic marriage.” She also shared with Complex magazine: “Lamar is genuinely one of the best people I have ever met…I think Lamar’s always gonna be that person [for me] but that’s what made it so special. Even if I had it for five years or whatever, it was the best ever and I’m grateful I did.”
Now, you may not be happy with Khloe’s decision to finally end your 4-year marriage and move on with her life, but stalking and terrifying her is not in any way the right tactic to try and win her back. First of all, you have to take responsibility for ruining your relationship. It was you, Lamar, who cheated and allegedly had substance abuse issues. It was you who had to demonstrate to Khloe that you had totally cleaned up your act and were ready to be a loving, committed mate. Khloe sure gave you plenty of time to do that.
Now, it’s not fair for you to be upset that she’s seeing NBA star James Harden, 25, and taking him to family functions like Kylie Jenner‘s 18th birthday party on Aug. 9. At HollywoodLife.com, an insider tells us that one of the reasons you decided to publicly confront her at SoulCycle is that you still feel “very connected to the Kardashians and seeing another man replace [you] is killing [you] softly.” The source also says that you were trying again to save your marriage.
Lamar Odom: You’re Going To Have To Work Hard To Win Khloe Back
Well, Lamar, 35, you can’t save a marriage that’s over. You’re divorced. And even if you miss your “queen” and went out to find her, according to the source, that was the wrong way to do it. Surprising and frightening Khloe was the wrong, wrong, wrong move. If you’re truly serious about wooing back your ex-wife, you need to prove that your life is in order, you’re on the straight and narrow and that you’ll never cheat again.
You need to beg her for a second chance and work hard to convince her to go to relationship therapy with you, so you can start working on all the issues you two had. And you need to woo her again. That means inviting her out on dates, bringing flowers, and calling and texting just to check on her. She clearly has finally made the decision to move on and build a new life without you, so it’s going to be hard, hard work.
You may need to accept that at this point, Khloe, 31, may not be open anymore to a reconciliation. You may have to rebuild your life without her. What you absolutely can’t do is follow and surprise her. That’s scary and disrespectful.
Do you agree, HollywoodLifers? Was Lamar totally out of line when he ambushed her today? Let me know.
— Bonnie Fuller
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