Farrah, you need to pull back the reins on your relationship with your boyfriend Simon. You can NOT keep bringing up marriage, because he clearly isn’t ready. It hasn’t even been a year since you two started dating, marriage shouldn’t be on the table right now.
Farrah Abraham, 23, you are still very young and you have a lot to learn. Just because you have a daughter Sophia Laurent Abraham, 6, doesn’t mean you’re ready for marriage. Especially a marriage to a guy whom you haven’t even been dating a year. Simon Saran seems ready to run for the hills, and fast!
Farrah Stop Telling Simon You Want To Get Engaged Or You’re Done
Farrah, you’ve made it VERY clear in the last few episodes of Teen Mom OG that you have a very short timeline when it comes to your relationship with your boyfriend Simon. You’ve repeatedly said you will only wait a year to get engaged. That’s way too fast!
You make him feel very uncomfortable when you bring up marriage. By the time the finale rolled around, you had only been dating Simon for only four months. Not only is it a short time period, but you two don’t even live together or even in the same state for all that matter.
Farrah, you stated on the finale episode that you won’t live with Simon unless you’re married. That’s a very, very bad idea. Not only because that may be a long time from now, but because you truly don’t know if you can marry someone if you don’t first live with them. That’s the time when you really find out if you are meant for one another.
Not to mention your situation is different, you already have a child. Simon and you need to live together first before you even think about walking down the isle. He would need time to adjust to not just you, but also living with Sophia. He wouldn’t just be marrying you, he would be Sophia’s stepfather, which is a whole different level of commitment.
At one point during the finale you continued to make him feel pressured when you asked him where does he think your relationship is going. When he tries to avoid it, because he doesn’t want to put false hope in your head, you responded by saying: “I’m not waiting two years to get engaged to you. That’s for ugly girls, babe.” Ouch. You know you’re on TV right Farrah? There are plenty of women out there who don’t get engaged within a year, and that by no means has anything to do with how attractive they are.
You really need to take a step back and think about everything. If you keep pressuring Simon, he’s going to up and leave. No guy wants to be told a timeline on when they should propose. You’re literally shoving a schedule down his throat.
Farrah: Don’t Pressuee Simon To Bond With Sophia
You also made him feel very uncomfortable in the finale episode when it came to your daughter Sophia. He was too afraid to say back off, but it was very obvious he wanted to run and hide. At one point you must have sensed his tension and you asked Simon, “Babe, do you feel like I’m pushing you too much to be with Soph?” To which he just shakes his head no. But clearly, you backed him into a corner. And it didn’t stop there.
Sophia then said, “I feel like he’s tricking me!” Wait, what does that even mean? You followed up with, “Yeah he’s all nice then he’s whiney.” That’s not cool Farrah. You are already asking too much from Simon. He responded with, “Yeah, well I have my crazy moments, so…”
I don’t think he was being crazy. At that point he was very overwhelmed and needed a break. He is young and was thrust into a situation where he had to deal with a little girl whom he had never met before and was continuously being forced to bond with.
A relationship between Simon and Sophia will take time. She’s young and very immature and this is new territory for Simon. Give it time. You need to give this whole relationship time and not force anything or else you will wind up disappointed when it doesn’t work out.
HollywoodLifers — do you think Simon’s relationship with Sophia is being forced? Should Farrah let it come naturally? Let us know your thoughts below!
— Brittany King