Karrueche, you have every reason to be deeply hurt and immensely furious with Chris after being blindsided by the news that he as a 9-month-old baby girl. But don’t stoop to publicly dissing his situation on Instagram anymore — stay above the fray.
Karrueche Tran: Jealous Of Chris Brown’s Baby Girl
No one can blame you for being wounded to the core that Chris cheated on you and then kept the birth of his baby daughter a secret. No woman would want to find out online that her man had a baby.
But that doesn’t mean that you should take to social media yourself to diss Chris and his innocent daughter.
You posted a picture of an adorable baby girl on Instagram on March 8 and said, “I want to eat her up!! (don’t come w the bullshit on this pic.. She’s my niece).”
Now, I realize that you’re talking back to haters, but in light of Chris’ situation and the fact that the world knows that you are apoplectic with him, there’s only one reason for you to have posted a photo of a baby right now. That’s to try and needle him publicly by mocking his sensitive situation.
Karrueche, we’ve heard through a source close to you that you feel like “Chris ripped [your] f*cking heart out,” and that you feel so betrayed because “that was supposed to be [your] baby, not Nia [Amey]’s.” You always thought that “when Chris came around and was mature and ready to begin a family, it would be with [you],” explained the source.
Karrueche Tran: You Need To Let Chris Brown Support His Child
But Karrueche, 26, despite your hurt, you have to realize that the most important human being in this whole situation is baby Royalty, not you. She’s the most innocent victim here. She can’t help that she’s a love child and that her very existence is like a dagger to your heart. She’s just a baby.
And when you mock Chris with a baby photo on Instagram, it’s like you’re dissing Royalty herself and also dissing Chris’ efforts to do the right thing by his daughter.
To his credit, Chris is not publicly denying that he has a child. And from what we’re hearing at HollywoodLife.com from all our sources, he has already started supporting her and has every intention of caring for her and being an involved father.
“He didn’t mean for this to happen” but “in no way whatsoever is he saying his child is a mistake,” explained the source. But “he’s not going to be an absent father and not take care of his kid. He’s got a mountain of money and he will support his child, no doubt.”
Chris wants to be a hands-on dad, according to another insider close to your ex. “He wants to have a lot of parental control and 50/50 custody… he wants to be able to change her diapers, rock her to sleep and kiss her goodnight. He’s ready to take on his responsibility. He wants her to know him and his family and he wants to be present.”
Karrueche Tran: Don’t Diss Chris Brown’s Daughter
Karrueche, as angry as you are, you need to be the bigger person now. No, Chris didn’t do right by you. He shouldn’t have cheated and he shouldn’t have kept such an enormous secret from you.
But from what we hear, he kept Royalty a secret because he didn’t want you to end your relationship with him. He gambled that he could keep his baby news out of the public eye until he could find the right time and place to tell you — whenever that might have been.
Yes, we know that there would never have been a “right” time.
“He knew that would have the potential to end their relationship for good… he chose not to tell her so that he could continue enjoying her and the great, loving relationship they had,” another insider told us.
Karrueche, it’s not a lot of consolation but Chris, 25, didn’t want to spill the beans to you because he so feared losing you. It’s not that he didn’t value your relationship. Karrueche, there may be a time when you and Chris reconcile — who knows?
But in any case, in the meantime, you need to keep your anger and frustration to yourself and close circle of friends and family. Don’t in any way demean yourself by stepping off the high road.
Do you agree, HollywoodLifers? Should Karrueche stay away from publicly mocking Chris and his baby girl? Let me know.
— Bonnie Fuller