Justin — just when it seemed that you were ready to make a grand romantic gesture to win back the love of your life — Selena Gomez — you changed your mind and flew to New York City. Justin, you should have gone for it!
Justin Bieber: You Had The Chance To Surprise Selena
You were desperate just to see her face to face. You felt like if you could just see her, you two could work your situation out, a source close to you told HollywoodLife.com.
“Selena is the only thing he can think about. He’s trying to change. he’s not seeing any other girls, he’s not partying,” a source close to you told us.
It’s great Justin that you’ve stopped playing the bad boy card, and instead are focusing on your spiritual growth. Trying to be a better man for yourself, as well as Selena, is a wonderful thing that will benefit you forever.
But, when you changed your mind about going to the AMAs or at least staying nearby, and instead boarded a plane for NYC, you missed a big opportunity to mend your relationship.
Selena hasn’t forgotten you. She still thinks about you ’24/7′, another source told HollywoodLife.com.
But she also has constant pressure from best friend Taylor Swift and from family members, to stay away from you.
Justin — the way that you’ve treated Selena in the past has not exactly earned you any fans on her team.
That’s why you needed to make a big, surprising romantic move to melt her heart.
Showing up at the AMAs — as shocking and risky as it would have been, could have been the winning move.
However, we hear that you were convinced by team Bieber members to skip the AMAs, because they were convinced you could look foolish.
Instead, you went to NYC to spend time with your favorite pastor, Carl Lenz. “He’s been reminded to spread the gospel rather than dwell in the trappings of Hollywood,” a source explained to HollywoodLife.com.
Justin: You Should Write Selena Love Letters
That’s fantastic, Justin. We’re so glad that you are growing spiritually. And this is also something which Selena would appreciate very much. So we get that maybe showing up unexpectedly at the AMAs might be too much of a public surprise, but you still could have romantically swept her off her feet.
Why not a huge bouquet of roses delivered backstage to Selena after she finished her performance? You could definitely have cut through red tape and arranged that.
Now, moving forward, how about a special and very personal gift delivered to her every day until she relents and sees you?
Jeez Justin — how about writing her love letters? Or, you’re a musician – write her a song that expresses your feelings. Record it and send it just to her.
Or course, you could just go to her house and serenade her outside until she opens the door.
Some of these are old fashioned tactics, but they have proven effective over time. Selena needs to be wooed back into your relationship. Recognize, that you’ve hurt her so many times that you have to work hard to get back into her good graces.
But you CAN do it, if you’re sincere and persistent. The only thing is — once you have her back — don’t blow it again!
After all this, I can guarantee, you won’t get another chance. HollywoodLifers — do you agree that Selena should start to make major romantic moves to win Selena back? Let me know.
— Bonnie Fuller
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