Kourtney Kardashian, you need to put your foot down with the father of your soon-to-be three children. He needs to stop partying, man up and be a father and a responsible partner — or else.
Kourtney Kardashian: Give Scott Disick An Ultimatum, For Your Family’s Sake
Meanwhile, you’ve been frustrated and fighting with Scott Disick, 31, who’s been bored to tears while stuck in the Hamptons, and has been looking for any excuse to head into New York City.
His misbehavior reached epic proportions with potentially deadly results when he went wild on his 31st birthday weekend, while you were back in LA for North West‘s first birthday party.
After hosting a bash at 1 Oak in Southhampton and drinking for hours, Scott swallowed an entire bottle of sleeping pills and ended up in the hospital because he was worried — for good reason — that he might have overdosed.
Kourtney, you have enough children to babysit without having to worry about Scott. You’ve been involved with Scott for over eight years and for all of that time, you’ve had major issues with him, and he’s had major substance abuse issues.
You’ve been angry with Scott for his inability to build a career independent of filming Kardashian TV shows. And you’ve been furious about his spending habits and lack of consistent commitment to parenting the kids.
It’s no wonder that you have had little interest in your sexual relationship with Scott or even in literally sleeping with him.
I’m not a shrink, but I’d bet that there’s a lot of repressed and not so repressed anger that’s cutting into your desire to be intimate with Scott.
On KKTH, you sometimes seem like a Debbie Downer who doesn’t have a good word to say about Scott or to Scott. But in reality, any woman who has been trying to make a relationship and family work for years, with a partner with partying issues, would completely understand your behavior.
You’re at the end of your rope. Raising children is hard when you are alone, and the only responsible parent. And having a good income doesn’t make it emotionally easier.
At least you can afford help, but no employee can take the place of an involved, dependable father.
You confessed, “If he can’t get it together, what is the other option?”
You also told Scott that you weren’t okay with him partying to the point that he “barfs” all night. What woman would be?
And let’s not forget that on the premiere of KKTH, you were so fed up with Scott after another night of clubbing that you hired security to keep him out of the house and yelled at him from the balcony: “I want to be alone with the kids forever. Go find a sloppy drunk girlfriend.”
Kourtney Kardashian: You Need To Tell Scott Disick To Get Help
Kourtney, yelling at Scott from a balcony or telling your sis that you may leave Scott after you give birth to your third child, isn’t going to change Scott or save your family.
If you want to really try to improve your toxic relationship with Scott and change his behavior, then you’re going to have to give him a ultimatum.
Kourtney, you need to tell him to get to rehab or else. And then, to get couples counseling or else. He must get his partying issues under control. He needs to stop — that’s the bottom line.
He needs to make his partner — you — and his three children his top priority and not see family time as boring. Once Scott has his substance issues under control, you must insist on couples counseling, and you must give it your all as well.
You have so much anger pent up after all these years — you’re going to need to express it and let go of it. You will have to make changes too.
But to get the ball rolling, Kourtney, you must issue your ultimatum, and you can’t back down. Scott needs to change, or your toxic relationship truly must end — for your sake and the sake of your kids.
HollywoodLifers, do you agree that Kourtney needs to give Scott an ultimatum to save their family? Let me know.
— Bonnie Fuller
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