Justin — you have got to stop making promises to Selena that you have no intention of keeping. If you really want to get her back and keep her, you need to be completely honest about the commitment you CAN make.
Justin Bieber: You’re Too Young To Marry Selena Gomez
Justin — what are you thinking? Apparently you finally wooed Selena Gomez back about 6 weeks ago, after your last split, by telling her that you were ready to put a ring on her finger, an insider told HollywoodLife.com exclusively.
‘When they got back together he told her that he was already ring shopping, it’s one of the reasons that she agreed to take him back,” explains the source.
I get it Justin — you were desperate to get your little honey bee back, and you felt like you had to make a BIG gesture to win her heart again.
But it’s your own fault that you got yourself into that situation in the first place.
After all, if you hadn’t repeatedly flirted and more, with other girls like Kendall Jenner, Kylie Jenner, Chantel Jeffries and Yovanna Ventura, you wouldn’t have made Selena so insecure in the first place.
After all you’ve put her through, Selena didn’t feel comfortable getting back together without a major and serious commitment from you.
“Selena wants that security, she is ready to take that next step with (Justin) and he promised her that he was too, but he was just leading her on,” explains the source.
Justin — that’s the last thing you should be doing with Selena. It’s unfair and she’s too vulnerable. She truly loves you and wanted to believe that this time, you were actually serious about your intentions.
The truth is that at 20, you are too young to get engaged. Most 20 year-old guys — famous or not — are not mature enough to commit to marriage.
Selena, at 22, isn’t ready either, even if she thinks she is. And on top of your young ages, you’re both under too much career and fame pressure to be ready for a wedding.
Plus, you haven’t had a stable enough relationship to tie the knot. You two haven’t been able to stay together for longer than six weeks in the past two years, without a major heartrending breakup. How can you two possibly make it in a marriage?
Justin, you have to find a way of winning Selena back without making promises that you have no intention of keeping. And yes, we hear at HollywoodLife.com that no, you are not planning to propose.
Your best bet Justin is honesty. You have to lay your real feelings on the line with Selena. You are clearly crazy about her and want to be her boyfriend, but you simply aren’t ready to get married.
Justin: Make A Real Commitment To Selena
What you can promise is something that she wants very much — your fidelity.
In other words — no hooking up or even flirting with other girls. Just stop that Justin. If you want Selena back in your arms, you must promise her that.
She clearly wants “love that’s never ending.” That’s what she said in the Instagram photo that she posted with her “Papa” (her grandfather).
In other words Justin — she wants to have your committed unconditional love. But that doesn’t have to mean marriage.
I bet Selena would be happy settling for a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship that was simply secure. Your job is to give her that now, without putting a ring on it!
Justin — if you can make that promise — a commitment to loyalty and fidelity, then do it. But stop promising to marry Selena when you’re simply not ready. It only creates more heartbreak for both of you.
Do you agree HollywoodLifers? Should Justin stop promising to put an engagement ring on Selena’s finger? Let me know.
— Bonnie Fuller
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