Jordin, I know this sounds cliché, but it’s absolutely true and you must keep this mantra in mind: There are other fish in the sea besides Jason Derulo. You’ll find a better man for yourself after this split.
Jordin Sparks & Jason Derulo Split: We Know You’ll Find A Truer Love
You two appeared hot and heavy and totally tight, with no hint of trouble until just a couple of weeks ago.
But sadly, news of your breakup leaked on Sept. 25, and then Jason publicly confirmed that your relationship was over when he told Minneapolis radio station KDWB that “everything is cool, man. It’s not a bad situation, it’s not one of those kinds of things.”
Well, it may not have been a bad situation for him, because a source previously revealed to HollywoodLife.com EXCLUSIVELY that it was Jason who initiated the split! And from our point of view, it was for reasons that must have been pretty disappointing to you, Jordin.
Jason, our source says, was concerned that his own recent huge success created tension in your romance, because in his mind his career was now at a much higher level than yours!
“Jason keeps making hit song after hit song. He keeps making money hand over fist and that was a big strain on the relationship between the two and the main reason he didn’t marry her and the reason they broke up. If he married her and they fell out of love, he would take a huge financial hit,” the source revealed exclusively to HollywoodLife.com.
Whew! I can only imagine how heartrending that must be, especially after three years of togetherness. Being in love means that you are there to celebrate your lover’s successes, but are also there to support your partner when they are still striving to fulfill their dreams.
Jordin Sparks & Jason Derulo: She Used To Be The Bigger Star
When you and Jason started dating in 2011, you were the bigger star — you were the winner of the sixth season of American Idol, in 2007.
Your debut self-titled album, released later that year, has sold over two million copies and spawned two huge hit singles — “No Air” and “Tattoo.” “No Air” even earned you a Grammy nomination for Best Pop Collaboration With Vocals!
Jason, on the other hand, was an up-and-coming singer, just launching his career. However, just as his career started to take off, he suffered a terrible accident.
He broke one of his vertebrae while he was doing acrobatics rehearsing for his Future History tour. Jason fell on his neck, and the accident was almost fatal. In fact, his injury was called a “hangman’s break,” because it’s the same bone that is broken when someone is hanged, he has explained. Most people die from this injury.
Well, Jordin, you devoted yourself to Jason during his long recovery. Jason even acknowledged how you stayed by his side.
“Jordin was very instrumental in my recovery,” he told E!. “It takes a very special person to drop everything they’ve got going on in their life, especially someone of her caliber, to come and aid me. That was really special.”
Jordin Sparks: You Will Have The Last Laugh After Jason Derulo Breakup
Now, here’s the thing — you totally stood by Jason during his long recovery and you must have been so proud when he released”Talking Dirty” and “Wiggle” and now they’ve turned into monster hits.
But does someone who really loves you dump you as soon as they become successful, especially when you were there through their hardest times?
No doubt, you put your own career and aspirations on hold in order to nurse him through a completely miraculous full recovery.
He certainly was grateful at one point; not only did Jason tell E! how terrific you were, but you also starred in the video for his hit song “Marry Me” — a song which he presumably wrote just for you!
“Marry Me” couldn’t have been a bigger statement about art mirroring life. Jason was literally saying that he was going to ask you to marry him and that you were his love for life! He even showed off a major diamond engagement ring in the video!
You must feel so burned! Any woman would. Well, now you’re reportedly back in the studio working on a new album and we bet there will be more than a few songs that are inspired by the demise of your romance with Jason Derulo.
In fact, you tweeted a couple of weeks ago that you’d written the saddest song ever.
Jordin Sparks Has A Positive Attitude About Jason Derulo Breakup
Jordin, it’s great that you’re recording away and we can hardly wait to hear your new tracks — I just hope that you don’t let Jason off too easy in your album. Think Taylor Swift!
And yes, our HollywoodLife.com source says that Jason believes “success [took him] in a different direction and that was away from Jordin. They would have survived in Jason’s eyes had their relationship been like Jay Z and Beyonce and both equally had a career!”
Jordin, we bet your new album will be huge. You already appear to have the right positive attitude about the split. “Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened,” you tweeted to your 4.12 million followers.
You also changed your Twitter picture and art from photos of you and Jason to sexy, smiling photos of you alone and ready for a new start, dressed all in white!
Jordin, you’re just 24. There’s a big life for you ahead without Jason. There are lots of other men out there who would die to date you and somewhere is the real true love of your life, who will stand by you, no matter what.
Say sayonara to Jason. Don’t look back. And when your album is a monster success, you’ll have the last laugh!
HollywoodLifers — do you agree that Jordin will find a better love than Jason? Let me know.
— Bonnie Fuller
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