Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon — stop living separately and get yourselves into a marriage counselor’s office! Work on your marriage, don’t end it. Here’s why.
Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon — it’s not too late to end your separation and work on the problems in your marriage. It’s so sad. Nick, you just confirmed today, Aug. 21, that you and Mariah are living separately.
Mariah Carey & Nick Cannon: Fix Marriage Instead Of Splitting
“We have been living in separate houses for a few months,” you confessed to The Insider.
Nick, it’s great that you’re being honest, since numerous outlets have already reported that your and Mariah’s relationship is on the rocks. But what I didn’t hear you reveal during that interview is that you and Mariah are trying to work out your differences.
You need to do that, Nick. You and Mariah have only been married for six years and you two were so in love when you tied the knot after just six weeks of dating, on April 30, 2008.
Then on your third anniversary, Mariah gave birth to your adorable twins, Monroe and Moroccan, 3.
Can you two really have fallen totally out of love with each other? Or have you been fighting over issues that you could actually resolve in therapy?
I suspect that there is still a lot of love between you two. In fact, it was just two years ago that Mariah doted on you, Nick, when you were seriously ill with kidney failure in the hospital. It turned out that you were suffering from lupus, a serious autoimmune disease.
Mariah , you were so worried about Nick that you literally moved into Nick’s hospital room. I’m not buying that that kind of love just evaporates.
However, what has been reported is that Mariah is upset about your loose lips. You told the radio station Power 106 during an interview on March 26, 2014, that you’d had sex with four celebrities, including Kim Kardashian, before meeting Mariah. The other three hookups included Nicole Scherzinger and Christina Milian.
Nick, you also blabbed during that interview about the first time you had sex with Mariah, 45, which was actually on your wedding night. Yes, I can see why Mariah would be annoyed by that.
“She actually tells me to keep my mouth shut,” you confessed to HollywoodLife.com exclusively, referring to that unfortunate interview. Of course, talking publicly about your pre-marital sex with other women doesn’t seem like enough reason to end a marriage.
So, who knows if a Page Six report that Mariah suspected you of cheating is true? But in any case, even if you did cheat, that’s not always a reason to head for divorce.
Nick Cannon: Apologize & Fix Your Marriage
Most marriages recover from a cheating incident, according to relationship therapists consulted by HollywoodLife.com.
In other words, Nick, you may have messed up big time, but that doesn’t mean that you and Mariah can’t still turn this situation around. You have two big reasons to try to fix your problems — those two sweet three year olds.
As long as you and Mariah still have love for each other — and I bet you do — then you owe it to Monroe and Moroccan, and to yourselves, to try to mend your relationship fences.
Nick, you can learn to be more discreet about discussing your relationship, and if you do have a wandering eye, then you need to stop — for good. If you love Mariah and your children, then you have to stay faithful to them. You’re 33, and you’re capable of being a monogamous man.
Go to Mariah and apologize for any mistakes you’ve made. Beg, plead and do whatever you have to do to convince her to start couples therapy ASAP, and to let you move back in.
Sometimes being a rich celebrity can really hurt a failing marriage — you can afford to live apart. How about pretending that you’re like the rest of us, and that you NEED to stay together? Being back in the same home can force you to work out your problems.
Do it, Nick and Mariah. Don’t let hurt, pride and mega fortunes get in the way of issues that could be resolved. Try to save your marriage!
Do you agree, HollywoodLifers? Should Mariah and Nick work on repairing their marriage? Let me know.
— Bonnie Fuller
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