‘Bachelorette': Fans Attack Nick For Revealing Sex Life With Andi

Tue, July 29, 2014 7:46am EDT by 95 Comments 49,609 Article Views
Bachelorette Nick Viall Sex Andi Dorfman
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NoOneCares

Posted at 11:56 PM on July 31, 2014  

Who are we to judge? We are all human, we aren’t born without sin. The season is over. Like it or not, she picked who she wanted which is the whole point of the show. Everyone’s gone back to their normal lives, you’ll never hear from these people again. You guys are on here talking about these people like they give two craps about u. Guess what, they don’t give a crap about what we think or say so it’s not important. It’s called entertainment. It’s old news already. I don’t judge people, I’m not god. If you don’t have nothing to say, don’t say anything at all. Moving on… *drops mic*

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Dee

Posted at 9:28 PM on July 31, 2014  

It’s interesting how everyone bashes him for telling but realistically when else was he going to have a chance to talk to her? She rejected him without really telling him why and he was trying to understand it all and felt like he was led on by her especially after they’d slept together. It might not have been the best venue for him to say that to her but given how much of a coward she was being in talking to him face to face, he wasn’t going to get another opportunity to talk to her let alone share how he felt. He had one shot to get his feelings out there and get that closure he needed and deserved. It didn’t seem like he said it with malicious intent. The poor guy was hurt and felt like that night was more than what it clearly was to her and he probably took the show more seriously than she seemed to and he probably didn’t think she’d sleep with both of them. I think he thought that them sleeping together kind of sealed the deal between the two only for him to then find out he was getting dumped after that. She hurt him yet she was acting like he’d hurt her by avoiding him but really she was just wimping out of a confrontation. Had she talked to him like he’d originally tried to do with her those three different times she could have avoided having her sexual exploits aired on national television.

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Letty Eballa (@LettyEballa)

Posted at 2:55 PM on August 3, 2014  

What part of no he did not understand. He was there to win her back, not to get closure. If she did not get back to him he will expose her dirty laundry. He knows the game. He studied it very well. As a matter of fact he was bragging about it with the other guys. Even if she talked to her before, the cameras will be there. He will do exactly the same thing That was his MO. If he loved her as he said he did,why did he throw mud at her in front of millions of viewers. He has no personality and character. He should go the doctor and get his brains examined. He is a psycho and a pathetic loser. Go fix yourself. Maybe someday you will be lucky!

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fishing

Posted at 6:21 PM on July 31, 2014  

Hurrah, that’s what I was searching for, what a stuff!
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Trish

Posted at 11:45 PM on July 30, 2014  

Wah wah! Sour grapes! What a sore loser. Usually it’s the girl that cries and says she was left high and dry by the guy, but roles were reversed! Andi’s like the guy and Nick is the emotional girl who thought they made love.

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Meri

Posted at 4:09 PM on July 30, 2014  

Were they trying to be ironic, having her wear white?

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timetobeadults

Posted at 2:28 PM on July 30, 2014  

Meh. If you don’t want your private life discussed, don’t go on a tv show where your dating/sex life is the main focus. Everyone knew people had sex on the tv show, why act SO SHOCKED when someone finally said it out loud?
I don’t think Andi or Nick should be ashamed or embarrassed for what happened. It’s time to start discussing sex like adults. People do it. Sometimes one person gets hurt. Sometimes it’s not good. Sometimes sex is just for fun. It’s all normal, but we’re afraid to talk about it.

Should this have been a private conversation? Probably. But, that’s not how reality tv works. It’s all ratings. Nick was definitely pushed to saying something by producers, don’t kid yourself by thinking otherwise.

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Bobby

Posted at 12:14 PM on July 30, 2014  

So did Nick have sex with Andi first or second? Could it be possible Josh asked Andi to marry him and he wasn’t even the last person to have Andi when she said yes? That’s just funny! If Josh was last why did she even bother having sex with Nick when she told Josh that she has been in love with him since the day she laid eyes on him? If I am Josh I am getting the hell out of this relationship. This Andi chick is bad news.

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Valerie

Posted at 11:02 AM on July 30, 2014  

Andi didnt lie about the feelings she had for nick. Andi really really liked but she just wasn’t in love with me. I’ve been in a relationship where i really really liked someone but wasnt in love with them, I just didn’t see a future with him. 6 months and it was done, it happens. You have to remember when two people that really like each other and have this undeniable chemistry are alone together in a room, things can happen. They could’ve controlled themselves. I’m pretty sure a lot of you have experienced that. I know I have but i know I can control myself if i dont feel it’s right. No one forced them to stay in that room. In my opinion, they should just get rid of the fantasy suites. Everyone keeps saying she slept with him. The real truth is they slept with each other. You can’t blame the girl, She didnt force him to have sex. U can’t call what she did cheating when it wasn’t a relationship at all, she was dating both men in a competition to see which one she could potentially marry so she picked josh.

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Renee

Posted at 6:46 AM on July 30, 2014  

Did we all watch the same season? She played that poor man like a fiddle. It’s one thing to date in the real world when you aren’t constricted by rules set forth by producers etc. versus on a carefully designed reality show. The fact that Andi slept with him when she knew how he felt about her, completely, was a cheap shot. Don’t even try to say otherwise. If the roles were reversed and some man slept with a woman who was madly in love with him, only to dump her shortly after, you would all be up in arms.

It’s not nice to use people. Period. She didn’t have to sleep with him. And he didn’t have to sleep with her, but he was the one who had genuine love in his heart. Perhaps if it hadnt been on a TV show it would be a different scenario since the humiliation factor is not magnified. But when you are not just dating around and are there to supposedly find a damn spouse, I think a higher standard of ethics must apply in how one conducts themselves.

Andi conducted herself like a hypocrite and I did not like how she handled any of her actions. From what I saw she was callous and self pitying. She always managed to make the guy she was dumping comfort her instead of vice versa. What a magician. I felt the way she dumped Nick was cruel. It was nice she did not make him go through the whole dog and pony show, but the way she spoke to him was the shocker- she acted like he was a stranger. I can understand why he felt such immense heartbreak. Sure he wasn’t my favorite, but I think the guys were hard on him as was Andi. He was just different from them, but he obviously was not a salesman trying to win a game. He really loved her.

It’s not creepy. Id like to hear about how many of you morons would think it is romantic if the story were im a romantic drama. Boy meets girl, girl dumps boy, boy jumps through hoops to win girl back. Isn’t that really all it was for Nick? Stop being ridiculous, I know half of you would kill for a made for TV moment like that. Yet suddenly it’s stalker behavior? Not even.

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patti

Posted at 6:50 AM on July 30, 2014  

TOTALLY agree!!! This is ‘bang’ on in my mind too. Thanks for being so completely right about the situation. I couldn’t have said it better myself. Thank you Renee!!

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Lori Webster

Posted at 3:53 PM on July 30, 2014  

So true, thank you for giving me the knowledge that there are some people out there that are articulate and smart and have a heart. Nick was not my favorite either, but she sure did string him along and showed no remorse afterwards. She seemed heartless. You are so right on with your comment.

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Meri

Posted at 3:55 PM on July 30, 2014  

Exactly my thoughts. Don’t hurt people.

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Trish

Posted at 12:08 AM on July 31, 2014  

Yeah like how Nick screwed over the other guys all season? Or when he dissed all over Josh on a telephone call that he had on an airplane, and then says they were good friends. He is calculated in being the victim. There is a reason why none of the guys liked him, and he admitted throughout taping that he didn’t care how the other guys felt. I felt empathy for him too, until he dragged Andi under the bus.

 
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Valerie

Posted at 1:15 AM on July 30, 2014  

Nick knew when he got on the show that it was a competition meaning there’s a chance you’ll either win or lose and your heart may get “broken” in the process. He should’ve kept that in the back of his mind. Just because you happen to “fall” for someone, it doesn’t mean they’ll automatically pick you. He was too sure of himself. She slept with him, so the hell what. You guys need to stop acting like goody too shoes. Just because she slept with him, it doesnt make her a slut. It takes two to tango. It called a double standard. Men do it all the time, it’s not like she slept with every guy. Nick is not a man or a gentlemen, he acted like a little biatch. Real men or women don’t kiss and tell. I’m sorry but that was a biatch move. “If u didnt love me, why did u make love to me?” I would’ve been like really stopping acting like a little girl. A real man would never open his mouth to say that. Men lead women on all the time. Andi didn’t lead him on, It was a, competition duh. He’ll get over it, 6 weeks you’re infatuated not in love. Don’t hate the player, hate the game.

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Eva

Posted at 9:07 AM on July 30, 2014  

Its a public show with public feelings and suddenly you can’t talk about if you slept with them? kinda odd and not to mention we watch their whole relationship and her make out with how many men? i’m glad he spoke up and said something she comes off as trying to be such a perfect princess and she’s not. She doesn’t have to be but she tries to act like it why its annoying. She may not be a slut but its slutty behaviour to sleep with someone you know you don’t love while your in love with someone else. Some ppl call that cheating. It may have been a competition but you don’t have to lie about feelings you don’t have. I didn’t like Nick through the season but he wasn’t wrong to ask her and i’m glad ppl can see what she’s really like. Our cavelier attitude towards relationship makes bad behaviour acceptable and its not. You have to have a standard otherwise you’ll fall for anything.

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Shellsea

Posted at 12:04 AM on July 30, 2014  

Nick is not hurt! He’s pissed! And in full malice as he played it off with his hurtful little pout. No one in the house ever trusted him…no one! He is vendictive and came in full force to slam Andi to the ground! But I cannot justify why Andi chose to sleep with him? Really? Although I must say that In that one instance last night after Nick decided to trash them both in front of America I changed my my opinion entirely for Andi and thought Run Josh Run……..Quick!

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Summer

Posted at 8:11 AM on August 1, 2014  

Totally agree. Nick is a conniving spoiled brat. His fake hurt feelings and stalking was calculated to gain the most publicity and to the inflict the most hurt on Andi AND Josh. He never cared about Andi, he only cared about winning. In the end, she now realizes what most of the other men knew all along, that Nick is a total douche.

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Deborah

Posted at 10:24 AM on August 4, 2014  

right on for sure Summer,you nailed it.

 
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JayJay (@J_Jammer)

Posted at 11:31 PM on July 29, 2014  

Andi is an awful woman. She’s awful. She couldn’t even sit there and LISTEN to what Nick had to say. All she was able to do was defend her actions and never take responsibility for them and she couldn’t get off her “I” kick. I did this. I did that. I did this for you. I I I I I I I I . SHUT UP. Shut up. She’s just the worst kind of woman. No sane man would ever, ever, ever want that.

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cake

Posted at 9:03 PM on July 29, 2014  

Nick was a @!ick for saying that on TV in front of strangers… he definitely fights dirty. Can you imagine how he would try to hurt and humiliate you when arguing? Yeah, not a man at all.

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JayJay (@J_Jammer)

Posted at 11:24 PM on July 29, 2014  

Yeah, cause she was in no way someone that led anyone on or said awful things or used “I” way too many times.

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ha!

Posted at 8:58 PM on July 29, 2014  

LOL, I think it’s funny. She’s an overbearing, arrogant witch.

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JayJay (@J_Jammer)

Posted at 11:27 PM on July 29, 2014  

She is an AWFUL human being. AWFUL. The worst kind. The kind that sits there and pretends to care about anyone, when in fact she only cares about herself. PROVEN by her I use. She’s worse than President Obama.

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Izzie

Posted at 6:19 PM on July 29, 2014  

What in the world is up with this younger generation of women? They wanna test drive their life partner like they do a dam car. Where are your morals or self respect? If you love a man, and are truly in love with him you are going to love all of him, not just how he uses his sex organ? Are some of these women on here posting, for real? No wonder this generations is described as the ME generation. Not only are they selfish as hel# seems like they will bed hop and test drive any man to see if he’s worthy of marrying. We are in deep trouble here with this type of thinking, and little do they know, that most men won’t marry a women like that, they will bed you but marry you they will not. So, keep test driving those men girls, and keep being bride maids. WOW, I’ve heard it all.

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patti

Posted at 6:17 PM on July 29, 2014  

I’m with Mita, Chandra, Mary etc…I don’t see Nick as the villain here. If Andi had been honest with Nick she would have said “hey dude, sorry but that was all part of the script, I had to take 2 of you to the end and make it look like I was torn”. I didn’t like that Andi turned it all on Nick as if he was at fault. He’s a really nice sincere guy and he fell in love. Where’s the compassion for his broken heart. ON the last night Nick told her that he was really scared and she told him “everything will be okay”. If that didn’t mean “I’m choosing you” then I don’t know what the hell it was supposed to mean.She DEFINITELY led him on for the sake of the ratings and that’s the really crappy part of this show. Someone has to be strung along and have their heart broken in order for 2 people to find love. Sorry it had to be Nick :(

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Rusty

Posted at 6:05 PM on July 29, 2014  

I have not watch the show in years but that does not stop me from reading about it..and I’m thinking that maybe she wanted to test her men out. And this guy was a joke in bed and the sex was horrible. So she decided on Josh because he was better in bed and lives near by since they are both from the same state. I don’t blame her I would also test out my men but that does not mean that I’m a whore.

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Izzie

Posted at 6:08 PM on July 29, 2014  

You are a whore if you are testing your men out all in the same week that you’ll be getting engaged. Good lord are morals completely lost on this generation or what?

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Shelly

Posted at 8:56 PM on July 29, 2014  

Amen Izzie. No morals or values. I am shocked that its ok to sleep with both guys before deciding who she will take huge free diamond from. Sad sad sad!!

 
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Mita

Posted at 5:14 PM on July 29, 2014  

Maybe Andi shouldn’t have had sex with Nick then tell the world she never loved him. What does that make her if she can easily hop in the sack with a guy she never loved, but have sex with him and lead him on to think they have something special? I’d say she’s a manipulative easy hoe who got her azz handed to her and she deserved it. If you don’t want your slutty behavior expose then don’t act slutty.

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Chandra

Posted at 6:01 PM on July 29, 2014  

Exactly!! She for sure lead him on. This is a guy who has been telling you (Andi) he’s going to marry you for weeks (to which you blush, bat your eyes and give him every reason to believe you feel the same) and is hours away from proposing – that’s all he gets?? I would have been blindsided too – not only by the news, but by the total lack of emotion. She is just disgusting and flat out rude. Who does she think she is to treat people this way? Oh wait, she’s a lawyer! I see

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Rain

Posted at 12:11 AM on July 30, 2014  

Oh, please! Grow up! You all are so quick to throw the whore label out there. They were consenting adults. She didn’t force him to sleep with her. He tried to talk to her for 2 months and she didn’t want to. Why does that make her heartless and a whore? She told him it was over. She told him why. He didn’t like the answer and decided to punish her. He can say now that he didn’t mean to humiliate her or Josh but he also knew before he said it what the outcome would be. She did not owe him a conversation. She did not owe him closure. Her idea of closure was an explanation, which she gave when she sent him home. His idea of closure was to try to humiliate her on national tv. When someone keeps trying to talk to someone that does not want to talk to them or shows up at places they are and tries to see them after repeatedly being told no, modern society calls that behavior stalking. The perpetrator never sees that their behavior is wrong or pushy. It is the ultimate in selfishness. Their wants and needs consume them. So it seems to be with Nick.

 
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Meri

Posted at 4:00 PM on July 30, 2014  

oh yeah

 
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Lori Webster

Posted at 4:00 PM on July 30, 2014  

@ Rain, YOU ARE AN IDIOT!!!! GET A HEART!!! Consenting yes, he loved her, and she knew it, she did not love him, When you sleep with someone under those circumstances “consenting” is not longer revelent. WoW you need a class in morales and what is right and wrong.

 
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Mary

Posted at 5:01 PM on July 29, 2014  

I think we all owe Nick a big thank you. He exposed this show for what it really is and that’s a giant venue to sleep with multiple people and disguise it as looking for love. If you were looking for a man to marry and a forever love, I wouldn’t think bed hopping would be high on your priority but it obviously was what Andi wanted out of the show. Josh’s friends have already reported that this WILL NEVER LAST because Josh just wanted to win and doesn’t have those type of feelings for Andi like she has for him. It’s apparent that he doesn’t care much for her, since the sex with Nick doesn’t bother him, if he was truly in love with Andi it would bother him. The fact that it doesn’t prove he’s just riding this train for the media attention and exposure it’s giving him. The show is becoming a huge joke.

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Joe

Posted at 5:05 PM on July 29, 2014  

Becoming?

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Mary

Posted at 5:09 PM on July 29, 2014  

Bad wording sorry. It’s always been stupid to think you can find love in 6 weeks while bed hopping and swapping sexual partners like it’s no big deal, just like putting on new shoes daily. Nasty!!

 
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sara

Posted at 6:04 PM on July 29, 2014  

I agree with Mary. Nick told us what we all knew already, first the show is a scam and second, Andi aka Ms. Hollywoodwannabe is nothing but a whore…

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Eva

Posted at 9:17 AM on July 30, 2014  

I agree! Thank God someone is being honest and I don’t think its below the belt. She should have taken the time to meet him privately even if that meant Josh was there so she didnt’ have to confront all his feelings in public. I’m so happy he came out and said that i’m super shocked she slept with him and with Josh what in the world. I know ppl expect it but she so knew he loved her if she was in love with someone else she should have tried to give him a hint of her feelings toward someone else and not lead him on. Its one thing if you say your not feeling it and they continue to try and convince you its another thing if you lead them to believe you love them and they express their love towards you the way they think they should. Huge thank you to Nick. The show has always been a bit of a joke but now its just a fame machine.

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Meri

Posted at 4:03 PM on July 30, 2014  

Can you say “superficial”

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liz

Posted at 4:54 PM on July 29, 2014  

im not sure what he hoped to acomplish but all that was in fact acomplished was embarresment all around.Her for doing it and him for being a stalker about it

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Joe

Posted at 4:47 PM on July 29, 2014  

Nick is a dweeb who tapped a hot woman. He had the chance to declare it on national TV, and he did. Well played, Nick!

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Elma

Posted at 4:54 PM on July 29, 2014  

Promoting loose morals and this casual sex behavior tells me all I need to know about you.

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Joe

Posted at 4:59 PM on July 29, 2014  

That’s funny Elma, you made my day!

 
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Chandra

Posted at 6:03 PM on July 29, 2014  

Well, the show places these people in the most beautiful places on earth. They set the scene, no money limits on the dates. its like a friggin fairy tale. Not surprised that they ended up in bed. Heeeeeeeello?

 
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JayJay (@J_Jammer)

Posted at 11:29 PM on July 29, 2014  

She isn’t hot.

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Elma

Posted at 4:46 PM on July 29, 2014  

This is a show with loose morals and loose women (and men) so it’s not surprising that they all sleep together and to my surprise some are actually upset with Nick because he exposed the loosness and casual sex that this show promotes while claiming to help you “find love”. You cannot find love with multiple sexual partners in 6 weeks. It sadens me to think younger people are watching this show and believe this sort of behavior is acceptable and morally correct.

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Chandra

Posted at 4:34 PM on July 29, 2014  

He had every right to reveal the sex. Andi wouldn’t give him any face time after she blew him off. Clearly he has love for her and was confused in why she didn’t pick him, since SHE DID HAVE SEX WITH HIM. She is not too bright. She should have gave him some time to talk but she expected him to walk away with no explanation. Then to only give him time on live tv?! Thats the only chance he had to confront her. He has every right to ask what ever he wants and he did, her way, on tv.

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Bree

Posted at 4:33 PM on July 29, 2014  

All is fair in love and war. I didn’t think it was a low blow. She was being very cold to him and he was just being honest about something that meant a lot to him but obviously not to her. She should have met with him before the show so he could get closure and he probably won’t have said that. Y’all just need to relax.

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Chandra

Posted at 4:36 PM on July 29, 2014  

Agreed!

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Meri

Posted at 4:06 PM on July 30, 2014  

Self centered and selfish people get theirs eventually. Nice to actually see it

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Joe

Posted at 4:23 PM on July 29, 2014  

Nick is a dweeb, and he tapped a very hot woman. He had the chance to declare it on national TV. Well played, Nick!

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Deborah

Posted at 9:14 AM on July 30, 2014  

Nick proved himself to be the sleezeball the other men pegged him for. This is not a man in love this is a man that is angry that his act feel flat. He is vindictive,obsessive, could easily become a stalker. Life with Nick would of quickly become hell while Andi could of never fulfilled his fantasies,and his twisted need to dissect every fricking moment of their life. A man professing such pure and all encompassing love does’t attempt to defame the woman who is the object of those sentiments on national TV.. He is a poor loser,has no social skills and is completely self involved. His attempt at a blow to Andi was a thinly veiled brag about his male prowess. He is gross. For all of you calling Andi a whore or slut who in the world would chose to marry someone if you don’t figure out your sexual comparability? Obviously Andi didn’t feel any.

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Summer

Posted at 8:20 AM on August 1, 2014  

Totally agree. Nick replaces JP as this show’s biggest douchebag. He is vile.

 
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patti

Posted at 5:10 PM on August 1, 2014  

totally disagree

 
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