‘The Bachelorette’ Finale: Andi Breaks [SPOILER]‘s Heart

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Dorothy Bryant

Posted at 3:57 PM on August 1, 2014  

Andi is big slut….not sure whether she did the right thing in bed or during head, but no shame in her game….test the waters before choosing…..ouch — on national tv…be4real

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L Duncan

Posted at 5:43 PM on July 31, 2014  

I can speculate on others but do I know NO. And really don’t care these are adults and it was
consequential.

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Steve

Posted at 10:06 PM on July 30, 2014  

Although the show lends itself to this type of thing, Andi proved her complete lack of character. Some say a tramp, some say part of the show. Either way she is so obviously a liar that can’t seem to take tesponsibility for her actions. #lostalltespect

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jack

Posted at 3:19 AM on July 30, 2014  

I don’t feel bad for Nick in the least, my “girlfriend” is mean as all get out most of the time, at least he got a little, trust Me wipe those tears away Nick, at least she was nice to you, I had to watch the show because of.my “girlfriend” and get beat up while watching it, and have to hear about the conclusion the entire next day later,stick a fork in me

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Lou

Posted at 2:29 AM on July 30, 2014  

I really liked Andi in the beginning but don’t like her as much since the final show. She claimed to have loved Josh since the first time she laid eyes on him. So how could she sleep with Nick? Apparently that meant something to him but not to her. I don’t blame him for asking her the “sex” question on TV because he tried several times to have a private conversation with her and she refused. The man needed and deserved answers and I don’t blame him!

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juan

Posted at 12:07 AM on July 30, 2014  

holy crap I was watching bachelor, I thought it was a really long crest tooth whitening commercial, thank God I read this I almost bought some

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juan

Posted at 11:57 PM on July 29, 2014  

I just opened a pack of baseball cards I can’t believe it I am now the proud owner of an AndI r

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juan

Posted at 11:45 PM on July 29, 2014  

its not verified but I heard around the the campfire that Andy also slept with that Han solo guy.

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Marcia

Posted at 1:34 PM on July 29, 2014  

I really liked Andi before the finale, but she didn’t break up with Nick gracefully as much as she thought she did. It was clear to everyone watching that she was in love with nick. Even though I was rooting for josh, I could see the genuine bond she shared with nick and I could see that she was definitely in love with him, or was falling in love with him. She may have gone to see him at his doorstep to soften the blow, but I feel a lot more could have been said to nick to make him understand her decision and not leave such a raw and open wound for him to continue contemplating. When he asked if this was “about us or someone else” she should of spoken up and let him know the truth instead of just apologizing. It might’ve been hard for him to hear, but I’m sure he would of respected her a lot more in the long run to hear honesty in that moment.

Having Andi just completely deny the fact that she was in love with nick is kind of insulting and makes it look like all of her actions and “cues” she was giving nick were all lies. She said everything was genuine but saying she never fell for him or loved him doesn’t match up.

Her better answer should of went along the lines of ” I did love you, everything I felt was real in that moment, but in the end this is about me choosing the love that is right for me, and that love is with someone else. there is nothing wrong with what we had, but I found something bigger than us”… harsh yes.. but you can’t be angry with the truth..and in time I’m sure he would respect her more for it.

but shes made herself look completely insensitive, defensive and in complete denial of what she shared with nick, she preaches about doing the right thing, but in this case she hasn’t. Maybe the guilt of sleeping with nick prompted that defense mechanism in her, to prove her loyalty to Josh, and if that is the case it is so unnecessary. I personally don’t think sleeping around with people when real feelings are involved is okay, but that’s me..I will not judge her and say she is wrong because she is a grown woman and that was her decision I don’t think people should bash her for that.

I am happy for her and josh, I was like I said rooting for them the entire time, but my heart does go out to Nick, because in the end I do feel like he was played by Andi.

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steve

Posted at 10:23 PM on July 30, 2014  

Marcia – I agtee with 99% of what you wrote. what I completely disagree with is the sex part. When someone is supposedly in love with someone for weeks and weeks as she said she was with Josh, that person doesn’t sleep with another guy. I’m shocked that more guys are seeing it this way than girls. If I were josh I would tun for the hills feom this manipulative liar.

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What what!

Posted at 1:01 PM on July 29, 2014  

Oh my people, this show is about sex as the final decision making factor. One last hurrah. At least she didn’t sleep with farmer Chris too! Typically the contestant gets the opportunity to sleep with 3 peeps at the end. Whoopdee fricking doo! Rinse and repeat next season.

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adam

Posted at 10:39 AM on July 29, 2014  

I am glad nick told everyone on live t v that he slept with andi. It shows who she really is. Andi is a whore. Whey to go andi you already cheated on josh the guy you love. Let me tell all the women that say nick should have not slut shamed andi and stick up for her are whores themselves. Would you ladies still want to be with a guy that says he loves you then to find out he just slept with someone else?

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cali

Posted at 1:18 PM on July 29, 2014  

There is something very unsettling and creepy after a guy knowing a women for only two months – feeling so intense and jaded that he has to blackmail that woman by putting her on blast as Nick did.
Whether she slept with the guy or not is not at tissue – it’s his over emotional and intense behavior that is creepy.
To really fall in love takes times and it takes a lifetime to know everything about a person.
Nick reacting the way he did, feeling entitled as he did – after only two months on a TV show is creepy and troubling at best.
Any woman or man who experiences such would run the other way because it is not normal.

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Tia

Posted at 1:47 PM on July 29, 2014  

Right on, Cali. You got brains and insight, girl.

 
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Katie

Posted at 4:50 PM on July 29, 2014  

Every person is different and falls in love at a different pace. Who are you to say that he was not truly in love with her?

 
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Nishi Hundan (@NishiHundan1)

Posted at 11:22 PM on July 29, 2014  

Andi is a huge whore

 
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Eva

Posted at 9:37 AM on July 30, 2014  

Mmm so that makes Josh??

 
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Mk

Posted at 12:06 PM on August 1, 2014  

I agree with you. If I find out that a guy who claims to love me yet was able to sleep with another woman, I’m so out of his life! Andi was so rude to Nick and she didn’t have to be cruel. It’s hard enough breaking someone’s heart after misleading the poor guy the whole time till the very end. I have no respect for her!! She went from being so loving to disgust in matter of hours. What happened Andi???

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Alberto Herrera

Posted at 9:29 AM on July 29, 2014  

hypocrite? Andi knows better…

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Alberto Herrera

Posted at 9:19 AM on July 29, 2014  

no wonder why most ladies have two closets full of shoes!

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Mac

Posted at 8:59 AM on July 29, 2014  

I think Juan hit it also.

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DingDong

Posted at 9:10 AM on July 29, 2014  

I’d spray on her face.

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Alberto Herrera

Posted at 8:33 AM on July 29, 2014  

oh i see, what your saying is make love till you find you soul mate right tia. thats really selfish!

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wendi

Posted at 2:47 AM on July 29, 2014  

andi is self righteous and the way she looks at Nick and speaks to him at after the final rose was inappropriate. she appears to be above him and was defensive. She is defensive and shows no heart.

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Tia

Posted at 4:00 AM on July 29, 2014  

She’s an attorney, a strategist – she played him.

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susan

Posted at 2:08 AM on July 29, 2014  

Its a horriable show very phony and I am sure that it is all set up before hand.
No one stays together anyhow.
Anytime any one got too close to her she ditched them as she knew all along who she was going to choose.
Dumb show with even dumber people on it .

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Katie

Posted at 4:51 PM on July 29, 2014  

Then why did you watch it?

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Brian

Posted at 1:58 AM on July 29, 2014  

Now I understand why Nick was so upset. Why would Andi sleep with him knowing that she loved Josh? It doesn’t make any sense to me. She knew that she loved Josh, she wasn’t being honest with Nick until the day of the proposal, that honesty should have come much sooner.
Brian

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norarae

Posted at 1:31 AM on July 29, 2014  

Seriously! She would have been a fool to pick Nick. No one wants a whiney emotional wreck that can’t even make real eye contact. I’m sure she had feelings for him but realized quickly..esp after they slept together.. that it wasn’t exactly what she wanted. And Im sure she feels like her decision was validated when he wouldnt leave her alone and whined like he did. Get over it..he knew what he was getting himself into. The show puts a lot of pressure on them to act a certain way and there has to be two in the end. Andi did the respectful thing to Nick, picked Josh and she found love! Wishing Andi and Josh the best!! Everyone wants to find love like they have!!

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Tia

Posted at 3:56 AM on July 29, 2014  

Don’t be a moron.

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fiona

Posted at 9:22 AM on July 29, 2014  

Right on Norarae! The only “morons” on here are the haters that can’t stand to see others happy. Its a show…and it was Andi’s call. Unless you are in her shoes you really shouldn’t judge.

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Jasmine Smith

Posted at 12:20 PM on July 29, 2014  

Agreed…not only can he not make eye contact but he can’t even complete a sentence on how he feels. He’s a wimp. I never saw anything in him worth the time she put into him..He was playing a game the whole time….I never believed for one second that his feelings were real. He came off to be so phony….and what guy complains about getting laid….seriously come on now!.He just wanted to shame her…There is no need for shame. Your suppose to be an adult. Grow up and put your big boy pants on. I call his whole act through out the show as bad acting and total BS….It’s not a wonder that with that kind of personality he hasn’t found a women who would put up with him.

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Precious

Posted at 12:43 AM on July 29, 2014  

She definitely played Nick and led him on. And after all the lovey dovey moments they had on the show she couldn’t take time out to talk to him privately. If you knew from the start that you loved one man, why sleep with another. I think it was pretty obvious she was gonna go for the former athlete with a brother in the NFL. I personally don’t think they’ll last

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Tia

Posted at 4:05 AM on July 29, 2014  

You are right on the money. Egos such as theirs cannot peacefully coexist for long. I give it 2-3 years – tops!

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Alberto Herrera

Posted at 11:22 PM on July 28, 2014  

If i were Josh i did no marry Andy, she is a whore, she slept with one (“loving”?) another, come on, thats not love. Josh’s family should be ashamed of her

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Gober04

Posted at 11:53 PM on July 28, 2014  

Wash your mouth, Mister.

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Alonzo

Posted at 7:34 AM on July 29, 2014  

First of all this is not a new show, its been around for a while. What did you think the fantasy suite was about? Playing cards & watching a movie? Get out of LALA land! Every fantasy suite date involves sex, wouldn’t you want to know what this other person that you want to spend the rest of your life with is like in bed? When you have to make a choice between two individuals, would you not want to know if you are compatible in bed?

Being a virgin or not sleeping with your fiancee before the wedding day is from the 1800’s, this is 2014 get a clue! Nick was an A-Hole for exposing what went on behind closed doors between him & supposedly someone he professed to love.

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Kelly

Posted at 10:02 AM on July 29, 2014  

I agree this girl is nothing but a tramp. She clearly doesn’t understand what love is. To sleep with a guy before you propose to another on a t.v show is an example of where society is headed. The one I feel sorry for is Josh being Nicks sloppy seconds. No self respect or dignity.

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Alberto Herrera

Posted at 11:09 PM on July 28, 2014  

she slept with nick and acted like nothing happened?

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Gober04

Posted at 11:50 PM on July 28, 2014  

What should she have acted like. Most couples lay together before getting engaged. Don’t be a hypocrit.

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Tia

Posted at 4:14 AM on July 29, 2014  

Well, there is that old saying…”Don’t buy a pair of shoes without trying them on first…” ;-)

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Jasmine Smith

Posted at 12:25 PM on July 29, 2014  

Agree with that

 
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Myriam

Posted at 11:07 PM on July 28, 2014  

So Dissapointed she really took it to far! However Nick should Say That they slept together ON nationsl tv That was wrong

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Meli

Posted at 11:31 PM on July 28, 2014  

Sorry but Nick tried to have a private conversation with her but she ran from him so he had to ask the questions he needed answers for on TV, that was her decision

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wendi

Posted at 2:55 AM on July 29, 2014  

it’s not wrong since he did try to reach out in private. Also, when emotions are involved it is hard to control what to say and what not. It was live tv

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Tia

Posted at 4:18 AM on July 29, 2014  

She invited him to join her in the “F” (Fantasy) Suite … uh, DUH?

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Jasmine Smith

Posted at 12:46 PM on July 29, 2014  

He was wrong in doing that….what a creep….just shows his mind set and who he is really…I don’t think she took it too far…she is under contract to take someone to second place and she had feelings for Nick until he proved to her he couldn’t relax around her and just have a day of fun. No he had to still be on edge and question their relationship on that last date. He probably couldn’t relax and enjoy their time in the fantasy suite either. that’s why she gave him a last date to see if he could. but he was always intense….Don’t blame her for dumping him. He showed his true colors in the end….not a nice person.

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Taylor

Posted at 7:34 PM on July 29, 2014  

If the roles were reversed – Andi a guy and Nick a girl – and that comment was said EVERYONE would have boo’d Andi because she played him. She said she didn’t love him yet she strung him along and even encouraged his proposal the night before. She had a poor attitude when talking with Nick. His hand was forced to ask the question he really wanted an answer to because she was already avoiding him. She didn’t handle things well.

 
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Eva

Posted at 9:48 AM on July 30, 2014  

One day really makes a difference..

 
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Mk

Posted at 12:26 PM on August 1, 2014  

I don’t think Nick’s intention was to shame her, he just wanted to know why she slept with him if she knew she was in love with Josh from the beginning. It’s a legitimate question. The Andi mislead Nick shows poor character, especially the last day they were together. She totally intentionally lead him to believe she was going to choose him. Why?!!! Even if you are doing it for the sake of the show, you’re still dealing with real person’s emotions. Poor Nick thought he found his soulmate, give him a break people. That’s tough to get over especially when you thought feelings were mutual.

 
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Regina

Posted at 10:58 PM on July 28, 2014  

Disappointed in Andi. She played another man the same as she didn’t respect being played yet she justifies it because of how she handled it. She didn’t have the respect for an on or off camera closure discussion.

She got exactly who she deserved which certainly wasn’t the devoted love and romance of Nick or Chris.

So disappointed In her cold response. Chris and Nick deserve a more genuine and less materialistic woman.

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Tia

Posted at 4:08 AM on July 29, 2014  

I have a sneaking suspicion that Chris and Nick will have the last laugh when this is all over, i.e. it ain’t gonna last.

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amanda

Posted at 8:39 AM on July 29, 2014  

I was so amazed by andi throughout the show….she was the most interesting bachelorette to watch…until the finale….her treatment of Nick was disgusting…..she said she knew from the moment she saw Josh that she loved him….that means she led Nick on almost the entire show…and why sleep with him?…Nick had every right to call her on it..she wouldnt agree to talking about it in private…hey and why not….she couldnt face Nick……and how does her new fiance feel about this…he couldnt care less…he now has fame and will have fortune as a result of being chosen…after all he didnt even have a job….a very phony guy…

Nick a serious, sensitive , thoughtful man…a rare find…she blew it….guys like josh are a dime a dozen….it wont last….

 
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Jasmine Smith

Posted at 12:49 PM on July 29, 2014  

Really, so you are a better judge of her feelings than she is?…..It’s a show….she has to follow the agenda to the end….I’ll bet if she didn’t have to do that she would of set them all home sooner. Get a grip on reality.

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cali

Posted at 1:31 PM on July 29, 2014  

Most of us have the painful experience of a heartbreak one way or the other; when that happens we all want answers to how and why. More times than not we will never get them nor even an explanation.
When Andi told Nick that they were not right for each other – he could of have kept his integrity; after only knowing her for two months – his behavior was not only troubling but creepy.

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