Selena Gomez — it looks like you’re having a fabulous time with businessman and bachelor Tommy Chiabra. We love seeing you flirt and PDA with a hot new guy, but we also don’t want to see your heart broken again. So please tiptoe into the romance waters — don’t jump all in!
Selena Gomez: Rushing Romance With Tommy Chiabra? — Singer Should Slow Down
You’ve endured two and a half years of on-and-off romance with the Biebs, and now it’s time for you to break free from that going-nowhere situation, and just have fun as a beautiful, sexy, single woman of 22.
That’s exactly what you’ve been doing for the past few days in St. Tropez, where you’ve partied, played, and swam on a yacht and in the Mediterranean with girlfriend Cara Delevingne and hunky Italian businessman Tommy Chiabra.
We hear at HollywoodLife.com that you are liking Tommy a whole lot — plus, there are lots of photos of the two of you holding hands and jumping into the water, and cuddling together while you’re wrapped in a bright yellow towel. Your head is resting on Tommy’s shoulder in one pic, and you’ve got your arms wrapped around him while you’re jet skiiing together in another photo. It absolutely looks like you’re having a fabulous time.
In fact, you Instagrammed a photo of your big chocolate birthday cake and told your fans, “This has been the BEST birthday yet!” I’m so happy that you’ve had a wonderful birthday surrounded by friends, and that you may be feeling like a fresh romance is blooming with Tommy, who previously dated Gossip Girl alum Jessica Szohr, and who’s the founder of Royal Yacht Supplies, which charters yachts, among other things.
Selena Gomez: Enjoy A Fun Fling With Tommy Chiabra
Tommy is clearly older than Justin, and he’s actually even better looking, so it’s easy to see why you’d be caught up in a flirtation with him!
But I just want to caution you to try to hold back your heart. Even if you think Tommy is the greatest thing since sliced bread and Justin Bieber, you need to move slow.
You just can’t allow yourself to rush in and potentially get your heart broken again. You’ve got to remember that Tommy could be a playboy. He’s a bachelor about town, hanging out on the French Riviera on a yacht, surrounded by models — he certainly may not be real relationship material.
But Selena, go ahead and have a good time. Enjoy the attention, and let a fling help rebuild your self-esteem. Just don’t expect Tommy Chiabra to be the ultimate man of your dreams.
Do you agree, HollywoodLifers? Let me know.
— Bonnie Fuller
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