Tori Spelling: Dean McDermott Blames Cheating On First Wife

Wed, May 14, 2014 11:29am EST by 35 Comments 17,113 Article Views

Dean McDermott has been caught using the same exact excuse for cheating on Tori Spelling as he did with his first wife, Mary Jo Eunace. Has he fallen into the same situation, or is he just a repeat offender?

Dean McDermott, 47, and Tori Spelling, 40, are airing all of their dirty laundry on their hit reality show, True Tori. However, one recent confession from Dean sounded all-too-familiar to his ex-wife.

Tori Spelling: Dean McDermott Blames Infidelity On Mary Jo Eunace

Well, this is a bit sketchy.

Court documents from Dean’s 2005 divorce from his ex-wife, Mary Jo Eunace, 52, reveal that he felt the same way about Mary’s “lack of affection” as he does Tori’s.

Displays of affection and love had dissipated to the point of concern. I took it upon myself to try harder in the relationship and open discussions regarding our relationship and intimacy,” Dean wrote in the documents exclusively obtained by Radar Online.

This sounds almost identical to a scene on True Tori where Dean explains to Tori that their sex life is not half as desirable as he would like it to be.

Dean told their therapist that they only had sex once every two weeks, and that it “wasn’t fantastic all the time.” Of course, this confession from Dean caused Tori to burst into tears.

“What did I say” Dean asked, baffled as to how or why his criticism of their sexual encounters could hurt her feelings.

Tori Claims Dean Was ‘Never Satisfied’ With Her Sexually

During the same couples therapy session, Tori confessed that Dean’s appetite for sex was too much for her to handle.

Tori tells Dean and their therapist that after having four children, having sex “multiple times a day” was just not realistic anymore.

“He was never happy. Our sex life was never enough. It was never enough for you and there was nothing I could do about it,” she said during the session.

“I wore that guilt all the time, thinking, ‘He’s going to cheat on me.’ I could never give him enough sex.”

As crazy as True Tori has been, it is definitely heartbreaking to hear Tori make such a raw and painful confession.

The show was started so that Tori and Dean could work on reconciling as a couple, but it just seems like things are continuously getting worse for them.

Tell us, HollywoodLifers — Do you think Dean and Tori are headed for divorce? Why do you think he is using the same excuses? Let us know your thoughts below.

– Lauren Cox

More Tori & Dean News:

  1. ‘True Tori’: Dean Admits ‘I Don’t Think I Want To Be In This Marriage’
  2. Tori Spelling & Dean McDermott: It’s Inappropriate To Have Your Kids On ‘True Tori’
  3. ‘True Tori’: Dean McDermott Threatens To Leave Tori Spelling — Watch

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none

Posted at 2:02 AM on October 25, 2014  

That guy has serious issues. She is not a blow up doll. Women have lives, they are not just there for sex when their husbands want it. Sounds to me like he has serious issues with needing attention. I have been married 20+ years my husband is lucky if we have sex once every few months. I am too busy and honestly it’s not a priority. Tori needs to kick this jerk to the curb and gain about 20 pounds, she looks like a skeleton.

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Nicole

Posted at 1:51 PM on October 22, 2014  

Did dean cheat on his ex wife with tori? I feel so bad for their relationship. When you go into a relationship with infedelity you leave it the same way. The no affection excuse is a shame. Two days of a fling is definitely not worth the loss of love and family. I would of left right after that she’s a strong woman .

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Anonymous

Posted at 5:01 AM on October 11, 2014  

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Ella victor

Posted at 11:55 PM on September 21, 2014  

Learn to get the names of the people you’re writing about, then maybe you’ll gainnsome credibility.

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Michelle LaBrosse Purcell

Posted at 9:13 AM on May 21, 2014  

Dean went into this relationship saying he wanted sex multiple times daily, and Tori was well aware of this. She promised him she would never change (he’d already been through 12 years of marriage, so he knew how sex decreases after a baby is born). She’s the one who changed once her babies were born – and she expected Dean to be the one to change for her??? She knew right from the beginning what he was, and what he wanted from the relationship.

My suggestion – stay with him, and actually give him what he wants. You’ll both be happy, and the two of you won’t be spreading the misery to two other unsuspecting partners.

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Tami Lessard

Posted at 2:32 AM on May 22, 2014  

You r a poser it is SO obvious !! Your answer to repair the total distruction of a family for life, by a Fugly pig is a blow job reg basis as required.

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Deb

Posted at 12:55 PM on July 11, 2014  

Michelle, I agree, They should stay together and work it out. They should not bring in innocent by standards into this mess. His next girlfriend or wife should NOT have to put up with her spoiled kids and the drama that comes from a divorced man. She should NOT bring in an innocent single man who will have to put up with her needy kids either. Stay married and work it out. Give him more sex and thats that.

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Stacy

Posted at 5:28 PM on November 25, 2014  

I’d take Dean…as long as I didn’t have to deal with Tori. There is NOTHING wrong with having sex several times a day. She knew it going in. Anyone that says, “she’s not a sex toy” needs to shut up. That’s how she got him in the first place. She screwed up and thought she was so special and different from his 12 year marriage. No honey…sex on top of a happy life. The End.

 
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none

Posted at 2:04 AM on October 25, 2014  

Seriously??? That is the worst advice on the planet. Women are not sex toys. The man is garbage.

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Sandra Capp

Posted at 2:48 AM on May 20, 2014  

I feel sorry for the kids.Tori and Dean asked for this ,if he will do it with you, he will do it to you.Tori how long we’re you married before you fell in love with Dean. Haha right!i think this whole thing is for money because the other show was loosing in ratings.i feel you go home every night laughing at all of us for watching and feeling bad for you. I think you two deserve each other. Your both self centered and spoiled. Good luck to your children. Your both bad actors.

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Mel Rose

Posted at 10:02 PM on May 19, 2014  

They both chose to cheat on their spouses with each other. Both of them should be ashamed of themselves. Tori your a drama queen you and Dean both deserve what your getting. I bet their exes are laughing hysterically now watching this play out. Once a cheater always a cheater and that applies to both of them.

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Mel

Posted at 11:08 AM on July 22, 2014  

Well said!!

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Lacey

Posted at 3:51 PM on May 18, 2014  

Nothing is his fault and he comes off as a fake in every episode. He’s just such a giant douche bag.

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Lovernotafighter

Posted at 8:16 PM on May 17, 2014  

I think if Tori is smart she will divorce Dean and get on with her life. Of course, she will never truly be rid of him now that they have four children, but she would be wise to at least free herself of him as her husband. As countless others have pointed out (but which seems to be a missed point on the actual show), both of these people cheated on their first spouses when they got together! Did Tori think about how it affected Dean’s first wife and son when she slept with him on that long ago movie shoot? I’m guessing no. As for Dean, he needs a lifetime of therapy, and he is not good husband material. Even if they stay together, he will cheat on her again for sure. Divorce him, Tori, let him go out and resume a “bachelor” lifestyle and sleep with multiple women if he wants. Tori, find a man who will treat you with some modicum of respect.

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Deb

Posted at 12:58 PM on July 11, 2014  

Having children does not tie you to someone after marriage. The responsibility are the kids, not the ex wife. You only have to communicate with the ex when it comes to the kids, the minimum communication possible. It is not a life sentence. Once the kids or kid are adults, there are no obligations to stay in touch. It’s over.

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Deb

Posted at 1:00 PM on July 11, 2014  

One more thing, why the heck would she bring in an innocent man into her mess? Why does she need to find someone, who will end up miserable, while she dotes on her needy kids. All single guys out there should stay away from single mothers, its a messy situation, and these women are very selfish. They want a relationship a committed partner, but they are not willing to make their kids respect the new husband. Its bull feces.

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NK

Posted at 11:15 AM on May 17, 2014  

Dean cheated on his first wife. Why was there an expectation that he would change? He bled Tori dry both financially and emotionally. He blames everyone but himself. What a catch! By staying married to this guy there is always a chance of him hurting again his wife and ultimately the kids. They should divorce and raise the kids in 2 separate hopefully healthier environments. Les hope the kids do not take after him.

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Tom

Posted at 12:44 PM on May 16, 2014  

They are both cheaters. Can’t really feel sorry for either one of them. Btw I don’t think this is the 1st time he’s cheated its the 1st time he was caught

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Deborah

Posted at 8:56 AM on May 15, 2014  

First of all, its Mary Jo EUSTACE..you really should get names correct! I do feel bad for Tori but mostly for her children, and I think they already have a nanny…

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Bite Me

Posted at 10:02 AM on May 18, 2014  

I only feel sorry for Mary Jo Eustace’s children, they are the only ones who are being dragged into this mess.

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dunjav2013

Posted at 3:17 AM on May 15, 2014  

Reblogged this on dunjav.

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lisa

Posted at 12:50 AM on May 15, 2014  

She needs to dump Dean and hire a nanny to help with the kids so she stops feeling so overwhelmed. It seems she wants to stay with him so she doesn’t have to raise 4 kids alone-bad idea! Kids feel the tension! Get a nanny instead.

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Kristine

Posted at 8:23 PM on May 14, 2014  

he is simply a child in a mans body- his mother never taught him right- I’m sure he blames her too. Dean needs to man up, and learn to care about others- and no- not just sexually. He is acting out due to some deep seeded problem. He is a sick person/ praying for al of them.

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Patty girl

Posted at 7:21 PM on May 14, 2014  

He is a serial cheater. She really has the mind of a child ” I want to be nurtured” grow up you have a houseful of kids being raised by co-dependent manipulators. This kids don’t have a chance of growing up with a healthy psyche.

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Kristine

Posted at 8:09 PM on May 14, 2014  

Yes- he is wrong- but she wants to have her needs met- which he clearly is not doing. Why? Because he only cares about satisfying himself & his selfish needs.

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Carlette53

Posted at 7:18 PM on May 14, 2014  

People complain about them but still watch the show??? Why not watch a DVD of your favorite movie. If people refused to watch this crap they wouldn’t put it on TV !!

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Deb

Posted at 7:04 PM on May 14, 2014  

Dean has rat eyes and reminds me of a weasel. Tori should say good riddance. Something about him just makes me shudder. Yuk! Tori you can do so much better.

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Loopy

Posted at 11:47 PM on May 14, 2014  

Now, now that’s not right. You forgot his greasy hair and face plus his slimy violent ugly personality. BTW- this is true that he is a cheating looser gold digging addict scumbag, but the rest is for the TT scripted cameras.

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Deb

Posted at 1:02 PM on July 11, 2014  

She is no beauty queen herself. So ugly, looks like a witch.

 
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Bite Me

Posted at 10:05 AM on May 18, 2014  

Take a look at her, I mean, come on?

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Deborah Judd

Posted at 5:45 PM on May 14, 2014  

why do these people run from the paparazzi, but embrace these cameras? I think this is a publicity stunt for ratings and money. I don’t know why Dean McDermott calls himself an actor. HE SUCKS AT IT!!! It is so transparent when they are in the doctor’s office when he starts to have his “breakdown” and “comes back to us”. REALLY?? Give me a break already. Get a job. And Tori, man up and lose this dude.

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Laquinta Williams

Posted at 1:59 PM on May 14, 2014  

The same way you get him is the same way you lose him,,,,why did she think she would be any different?

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Liz

Posted at 5:20 PM on May 14, 2014  

Because she is a self centered cunt.

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Kristine

Posted at 8:10 PM on May 14, 2014  

You got that right girl!

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silvereyes1945

Posted at 8:26 AM on May 16, 2014  

Yeah, just what we need-a woman calling another woman a cunt!!! What are you going to call her next-a slut? Dean is the one who is the scumbag here. Tori may be self-centered in your eyes, but a lot of women can identify with her because kids can put a damper on the sex life. Dean’s just trying to blame both wives instead of himself-a cheater and drug user. That said, I’m not a Tori fan, and she should’ve saw this coming considering how she behaved with him by cheating on her own husband. But that was then, and clearly Dean only married her because he thought he would get a lot of money and a big movie career. When that didn’t happen- he wallows in other women and drugs to get over his disappointments. I don’t care how Tori and Mary Jo might have done or not done XYZ in their marriages to Dean. He would probably cheat on any woman he was married to. Unfortunatley, for Tori this might wind up one ugly custody battle because lazy, no career Dean can say he was the primary caregiver during most of their marriage because Tori was the main breadwinner. Didn’t matter if he was busy riding dirtbikes in the dessert, doing drugs, and cheating with different women. And even though he is doing Chopped Canada, I don’t see him on there long because people do not like him in reviews of the show. I hope Candy Spelling really will help Tori with what I foresee as a nasty custody battle because Dean will try to hang on to the kids just to get a piece of whatever finances Tori has left. He’s a golddigger who just wants to runaround with women and do drugs-hardly fit to be the custodial parent.

 
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