‘Bachelor’s’ Clare Crawley — Thank You For Telling Off Juan Pablo

Tue, March 11, 2014 5:51pm EDT by 18 Comments

Clare, loads of us women were cheering when you pushed Bachelor Juan Pablo away after he told you that you were not the woman for him. His behavior toward you was sexist and insulting, and he needed to know it!

Clare Crawley — Bachelor Juan Pablo Galavis had the most unbelievable nerve to lead you on up until the very last moment, hinting that he loved you and would choose you as his bride in the season finale of The Bachelor.

‘Bachelor': Juan Pablo & Clare Helicopter Date — Clare Tells Off Juan Pablo

Clare, it was so rude of Juan Pablo to tell you on a sexy helicopter ride that he “loved fu**ing” you. It stunned you, especially when he paired it with the statement that he felt like he didn’t really know you. We had a giant “huh” moment, just like you, at that point.


If Juan Pablo was concerned about knowing you better, then why was he whispering dirty words in your ear during the filming of a show that’s supposed to be about love, and not just sex?

Clare, no wonder you freaked and considered ending your relationship with Juan Pablo before you even got to the finale. But I guess Juan Pablo, mindful of his Bachelor ratings duties, tricked you into repressing your natural instincts to back off, and instead you moved ahead with the final rose humiliation.

Juan Pablo led you on by telling you what you wanted to hear — that he liked you for all of you, and that he wanted to have a baby with you. You even succumbed to telling him, “I don’t want a rose, I want forever.”

Clare, you were being honest and loving and committal, but Juan Pablo was just using you. That’s why it was so fabulous when he went in to comfort you after blowing you off in the finale, and you pushed out of his arms and told him exactly what was on your mind.

“I thought I believed in you. I lost respect for you. I thought I knew what kind of man you were,” you told him. “I would never want my children to have a father like you.”

Juan Pablo needed to hear all of this. His behavior was completely disrespectful. But that wasn’t the first time that he hypocritically did you wrong.

Clare Crawley — You Are So Lucky To Be Done With Bachelor Juan Pablo

Who can forget when Juan Pablo joined you for an impromptu skinny dip — which he fully enjoyed — but then lectured you the following morning about how you shouldn’t be doing something so intimate with him when he has a daughter who’s just 4. He even had the nerve to tell you that you wouldn’t be setting a good example for his daughter, Camila.

Umm, hello? Juan Pablo was there in the water with his clothes off too! But nevertheless, you, Clare, were the one who was left embarrassed, humiliated and hurt. We were so happy here at HollywoodLife.com when you refused to see Juan Pablo on the After the Final Rose show. “That day in St. Lucia was closure for me,” you explained to host Chris Harrison. “Juan Pablo was not the man I hoped he was. I said it all that day.”

You did, Clare. But Juan Pablo was so clueless that instead of feeling your pain when he rejected you and seeing the error of his ways, instead he chose to diss you on the finale. “Whoo! I’m glad I didn’t pick her,” was his ridiculous dig at you as you walked away in tears in front of the cameras.

His reaction just showed again what a jerk he is.  Clare, you are so lucky to be done with Bachelor Juan Pablo, and to be moving on with your life. You’re super courageous and so honest, and women everywhere are high fiving you — and you need to know that.

So HollywoodLifers, are you happy that Clare told off Juan Pablo? Let me know.

– Bonnie Fuller

More ‘Bachelor’ Coverage:

  1. Clare Refuses To See Juan Pablo During ‘After The Final Rose’
  2. Clare Crowley Disses Juan Pablo: I’d Never Have Kids With You
  3. ‘Bachelor’ Finale Recap: Juan Pablo Chooses [Spoiler]

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Dee

Posted at 10:58 AM on March 25, 2014  

clare came across to me as a neurotic, desperate , not very intelligent woman, who made the choice to play the sex card, when she was losing ground, which made her look like a bimbo, which she most likely is, since she went there. She gave Juan a booty call.

Using the sex card never makes on a winner. Yes, she told him off, but only because he dumped her. Had she been “chosen” she would have gushed about her “love” for him and we would have seen that “shallow relationship” unravel, when she got tired of pretending who she was. She was a needy, spiteful B who let her claws come out on both Nikki, Juan and anyone who did not bow down to her.

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Katie

Posted at 7:21 PM on March 14, 2014  

So glad she stood up to JP!! She was led on by him the whole time. Maybe she wouldn’t have gotten so upset over the fact that the night before he told her he could see himself with her in Sacramento and having babies with her in a year and 2 months. When you say something like that your gonna think long term and your left thinking there’s a high chance he’s gonna propose to her or at least give her the final rose. He wouldn’t like it if some jerk did this to his daughter one day. He should’ve just kept his mouth shut. Maybe it was best for Clare to have followed her instinct and just went home that night. She deserves a much better man that doesn’t play games and wants to fall in love and be with someone forever. Looking back now, they should’ve picked someone else to be on the bachelor than JP.

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Julie Riddle McCrocklin

Posted at 3:07 PM on March 14, 2014  

Her attitude was confusing to me. All final contestants go into the finale thinking they are the “one”, The Bachelor/Bachelorette do not say they love the contestants until they make their final choice. Clare chased JP with her body the entire time, not surprising a comment was made in that vein. That was the nature of the relationship – at least in the final edit. Always sad to see the “runner-up’s” reaction. Did not care for Clare at all.

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Stupid is as stupid does

Posted at 10:49 PM on March 13, 2014  

Clare had it coming. That woman wanted a husband. ANY husband! She went from “deeply in love” to “I’d never want my children to have a father like you” in one moment! She wasn’t in love, she was going after a prize. She objectified Juan Pablo the same way he objectified her. A woman in love would’ve been devastated over losing the man she loved…not pissed off because she gave too much of herself without getting what she wanted back. News flash, Clare…this “happens to you all the time” because you’ve got to have more to offer than your cooch and your fantasy to have babies. It’s obvious that Clare thought having sex with Juan Pablo would “seal the deal” and win her the prize she was after. Juan Pablo was no saint, for sure……but Clare proved right from the beginning of this show that she’s so desperate for a man that she has zero self-respect. She’s one of those girls on the men’s toilet wall…”For a good time call Clare”.

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Guest

Posted at 7:42 PM on March 12, 2014  

Unfortunately she said that it happens to her all the time. Although I am glad she told him off, she shouldn’t have made herself so easily accessible for the moonlight trist in the ocean. That was setting herself up for failure. We all know that if you have sex on the first night of a date it the relationship doesn’t usually last and he sees you as just a sexual object that is ready to go at any moment. I hope she changes her “game plans” in the future to land her that respectable man that won’t use her again!

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Margaux

Posted at 7:10 AM on March 12, 2014  

Lesson here:Don’t give *it* up for a wenier ,until he puts a ring on you’re Finger!

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jude

Posted at 2:31 AM on March 12, 2014  

She was too easy to get in the sack, so she got played. He told her he enjoyed effing her. Wham bam thank you ma’am.

This show is nothing but an prostitution ring.

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Ida sockdhim

Posted at 11:44 PM on March 11, 2014  

Slime ball douche bag doesn’t begin to describe this season’s bachelor. He makes my skin crawl.

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saj

Posted at 10:28 PM on March 11, 2014  

Juan is nothin but a tool. If he don’t have the courage to tell the women he choose he loves her he’s the one that isn’t in it for the right reason.

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Posted at 10:20 PM on March 11, 2014  

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ahny

Posted at 9:44 PM on March 11, 2014  

People must understand that it does not matter whether the girl easy or hard to get. The fact is that the way he flip flop around, so disrespectful, only using daughter to get what he eants, not be accountable for his own action and instead blaming on others are disgusting manners. No one deserve to be treated like that! Good for het telling him off. With personalities like that you can already predict how this jerk would be like with any women.

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GIGI

Posted at 9:19 PM on March 11, 2014  

Too bad Claire was so intimate with him in the first place.

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Jennifer

Posted at 9:03 PM on March 11, 2014  

An easy girl will always be second best. Shame on you, Clare. You should let the man work for it. Giving it up so fast just made you look like a complete moron. We don’t feel bad for you because any man wouldn’t want that kind of woman to be the mother of his children.

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Lin

Posted at 8:18 PM on March 11, 2014  

The runner-up is always strung on to the end by every lead this show has had. Why does that make him more of a jerk than any of the others? She needs to take some ownership–I never saw someone lick their lips and do weird things with their teeth like her. She was kind of asking for something less sweet and romantic by her own persona–like a chick you’d meet at a pickup bar.

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pat

Posted at 10:47 PM on March 11, 2014  

He selected the right person. Clare would drive anyone batty with her lip licking , phony, over exaggerated phrasing and her warped sense of entitlement. She threw herself at him every chance she got. I think the only jerk in the show was Chris Harrison. Good on Juan for not cowering to cowering to his demands. He’s happy, Nikki is happy, why should he have to profess his love after only a few weeks. He may be a player, but he was honest!

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Frank

Posted at 7:57 PM on March 11, 2014  

Why any girl would get naked with this cross eyed moron is a mystery to me. He defines the term “tool” to a tee. And he’s truly a pu$$y

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olga

Posted at 7:15 PM on March 11, 2014  

Is she the one that did it in the ocean in the reality show? Naughty girl. There’s almost no difference btw her or a porn star.

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Crystal

Posted at 6:45 PM on March 11, 2014  

He’s a jerk! That’s what he is a jerk! Juan is never going to find a woman, cause he does not know how to treat one right.

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