Selena Gomez — you have been lovesick long enough over a guy who’s just not growing up. Right now is the moment to make your latest split permanent. You need to wash Justin Bieber out of your hair for good.
Selena Gomez, there’s no point in allowing yourself to pine over Justin Bieber for one more day. You need to move on permanently and mend your broken heart. As tough as it will be to let Justin go, it would be even worse if you didn’t allow your love wounds to finally heal.
Selena Gomez & Justin Bieber’s On-Again Off-Again Relationship — Time To End It
After the Biebs’ repeated run-ins with the law, frolicking with strippers, cavorting in Panama with Chantel Jeffries, and skateboarding in nightclubs until 3:30 a.m., you have to face the fact that the Justin you love, no longer lives.
You fell in love with an entirely different guy by the same name, who was 17, sweet, sensitive, romantic and committed to your relationship and to presenting a positive image. But somewhere in the past two and a half years, fame, fortune and new friends appear to have transformed Justin from the adorable boy who cherished you and rented out the Staples Center for a super romantic night to make you feel special.
The old Justin had a great time going to IHOP with you, and getting takeout from Panera Bread for picnics in the L.A. hills. The new Justin gets his thrills from throwing 75,000 one-dollar bills at a stripper, visiting a brothel in Brazil, and throwing such wild house parties that it’s driving his neighbor out of his mind.
You, on the other hand, have only continued to mature in an outstanding and impressive way. You’ve successfully transitioned from a child and teen star into someone with a young adult audience. You just had two #1 hits, “Slow Down” and “Come and Get It,” won a series of awards, had a successful concert tour, and designed a stylish collection for Kmart.
You’re still best friends with the girls that you’ve known for years — Taylor Swift, Demi Lovato and Vanessa Hudgens. Meanwhile, Justin has traded his hometown best friends like Ryan Good, and even celeb friends like Jaden Smith, for Lil Twist, Lil Za and Khalil. Lil Za of course was arrested at Justin’s house under suspicion of possessing cocaine, and Khalil was arrested alongside Justin for drag racing and DUI. In other words, Selena, you stayed true to yourself and to your friends but Justin has been transformed in every way.
What’s worse is that he promised only a few weeks ago to be loyal to you. He told you that you were “the one” and that he “couldn’t live without” you, according to our HollywoodLife.com source. He convinced you to take him back and to start seeing him again, but just a week later, he turned around, went to Miami and started his latest and ongoing party craze. And yep, that’s the one that includes Chantel Jeffries, plus a blonde who he reportedly took back to his hotel in New York, and a series of arraignments with the police.
Selena Gomez — Slam The Door On Justin Bieber & Don’t Look Back
We heard that you were ‘devastated‘ when you found out about Justin’s arrest in Miami. You feared for his “safety and well-being,” and you reached out to his mother,Pattie Mallette, immediately, a source told HollywoodLife.com EXCLUSIVELY. But now you’re not devastated, you’re disgusted.
You think the picture of Justin biting the nipple of a stripper with Khalil is “completely gross and immature,” according to another HollywoodLife.com source. Apparently, Justin thinks “this stuff is hilarious” and that the nipple picture was all “just a big joke.” Well, Selena, we’re with you. We don’t think it’s a joke. We agree that it was gross , and not only that, it was degrading to women. We just hope that you can use these latest episodes to fuel your determination to break free from your love obsession with Justin.
Kris Jenner has told Khloe Kardashian that she has to slam the door on her marriage to Lamar Odom and not look back, a source told HollywoodLife.com. Well, we think that Kris’ advice perfectly applies to you, too. Even if you still love the old Justin, and even if there’s a chance that that old Justin will reemerge one day — and he may — you can’t stick around and wait for him.
Selena, you deserve happiness in your life. You deserve to be free of a torturous love life. And you deserve to eventually find a guy who will treat you like the goddess you are. So steel your heart and steel your mind. You need to slam that door on the Biebs for good, and don’t look back. And in a few months, you won’t even be sorry anymore.
Do you agree, HollywoodLifers? Is it time for Selena to put Justin in her rear view mirror for good? Let me know.
— Bonnie Fuller
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