Selena — you have done everything you can to be both a good friend and girlfriend to Justin Bieber, and the bottom line is, he’s just not ready to commit to you or to being an adult. It’s time to start mending your heart.
Selena Gomez — you have tried so hard to get over Justin Bieber, and then to get back together with him in a mature and measured way. But just when you thought that Justin was ready to recommit to you, he let you down in the biggest way possible.
Has Selena Gomez Moved On From Justin Bieber Relationship? — Get Over Him
Just days after telling you that you were “the one” for him and that he “couldn’t live without” you, Justin headed off to Miami, where he was arrested for a DUI, drag racing, driving with an expired license and resisting arrest without violence. And he wasn’t in the car alone when all this happened. Nope. Right beside him in the front seat was a pretty model the same age as you — 21 — Chantel Jefferies.
So not only did Justin behave like an immature teenager, but he also was at it once again — flirting with other pretty young women. And now we know that he went well beyond flirting and he shacked up with Chantel both in Miami and Panama.
No doubt, he decided to have a fling with her because you reportedly gave him an ultimatum — go to rehab or accept that it’s over with you. A source close to you told HollywoodLife.com EXCLUSIVELY that you spoke to Justin on the phone after hearing the devastating news of his arrest, and that you laid it on the line with him.
Selena, as heartbroken as you must be right now, you need to stay strong. You’ve spent two and a half years being in love with Justin, but more of that time has been spent in torment than in bliss.
You fell in love with “the old Justin,” and you’ve stayed in love with that Justin, another source told HollywoodLife.com EXCLUSIVELY. But unfortunately that “old Justin” doesn’t seem to be coming back any time soon. And you know what — there’s only so long a girl can wait.
Selena Gomez — You Can’t Wait Around For Justin Bieber
Selena — I supported you following your heart and trying to make it work with Justin a couple of weeks ago. But that was before this latest episode, which revealed that Justin is not respecting your relationship.
I’m sure he does love you still, and that at some point he’s going to realize in a very major way what he’s lost. But you can’t wait around while he romps with Chantel Jefferies and the next Chantel and the next Chantel. You are too good for that and you have too much to give to somebody who will really cherish you.
You’re smart, you’re talented, you’re beautiful, you’re thoughtful and you’re loving. And on top of that, you are a hugely successful superstar who’s a role model for millions of young women. You need to keep leaning on your wonderful friends like Demi Lovato, Taylor Swift and David Henrie for support. You need to surround yourself with your family, cherish being a big sister to baby Gracie, plan your next career move, and try to give other guys a chance.
I’m sure there’s about 100 million guys who would love to date you and be the man for you that Justin could never be. So Selena, as hurt as you are now, just hold on to the knowledge that you will get through this, and that time does heal all wounds.
One day, you will not give a hoot about the Biebs and you will be so happy that you moved on.
Do you agree, HollywoodLifers? Should Selena ditch Justin Bieber for good? Let me know.
— Bonnie Fuller
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