Kristen Stewart — it must be killing you to have an invitation from Rob to go to London, and to actually have to turn it down. But your thoughtful reason for NOT going really shows your commitment to your relationship with Rob.
Kristen Stewart Not Going To London Shows She Loves Robert Pattinson
Kristen, Rob left for his hometown on Dec. 3, and from there he’ll be heading to Jordan and Morocco to start filming his next movie, Queen of the Desert. That means you won’t be seeing him for quite some time. That must be breaking your heart. After all, it hasn’t been that long since you and Rob started talking and seeing each other again.
Thankfully, things have been going well between you two ever since Rob finally reached out after months of radio silence. A source told HollywoodLife.com at the time that Rob had been missing you “desperately,” and that he had realized that none of the women he had been dating filled the hole in his heart.
You, for your part, had never stopped loving Rob, another source told HollywoodLife.com. And you never even considered going out with another man after Rob dumped you. You just hoped beyond hope that Rob would come to realize that what he had with you was so special. Luckily, he did.
However, winning Rob back hasn’t meant that you’ve also earned forgiveness and trust from those closest to Rob — mainly his two protective older sisters, Lizzy and Victoria Pattinson.Rob’s sisters “can’t stand Kristen,” a source recently told Life & Style. “His family is terrified that he’ll never get away from her. They think she’s bad news.”
Rob may be well on his way to recommitting to you, Kristen — he even came to the “intimate” Thanksgiving feast you prepared — but his family is a far tougher sell.
That’s why you probably weren’t surprised when Rob didn’t ask you to spend the holidays with him, as you two have done for the past three years.
Kristen Stewart: It’s Great That You Respect Robert Pattinson’s Family
Nevertheless, once Rob was back in London, he clearly missed you and called to offer congratulations on your upcoming film, Camp X-Ray, after it was selected for the Sundance Film Festival. Lo and behold, once you two chatted for a while, Rob invited you to come to see him in London after all, a friend of yours told HollywoodLife.com exclusively.
“She was just so happy,” the friend revealed. But Kristen, you are so mature and thoughtful that you were able to see the bigger picture, and we you’ve decided not to go.
“Kristen would love to see Rob in London, but she doesn’t want to be the source of any tension between Rob and his sisters. She feels like she’s on good terms with Rob’s mom after all the cheating drama,” a friend told HollywoodLife.com exclusively.
“If things were different with the rest of his family, she would be there for Christmas, but she still has concerns,” the friend adds. “The last thing she wants is to bring any drama whatsoever into Rob’s world.”
Kristen, that is so respectful and smart. You realize that if you did go to London while part of Rob’s family is still not on board with your relationship, then you’d only create a tense situation, which could ignite silly fighting between yourself and Rob. That is NOT what you need. Your renewed romance still needs to be nurtured, not submitted to an unnecessary test.
Kristen Stewart: You’re Smart To Think Long-Term
Kristen — your strategy is best. Even though your heart is probably aching for Rob, it’s best to think long term and NOT give in to neediness.
In another year, if all goes well, wounds will have healed, Rob’s entire family will hopefully welcome you with open arms, and you won’t be left behind at Christmas.
By sacrificing your short-term happiness now, you’re being considerate of Rob’s close relationship with his sisters.
He will ultimately appreciate it and so will his siblings. Right now, time is on YOUR side, Kristen. Rob will see that saying no to his invite is another important step in proving your true love.
Do you agree, HollywoodLifers? Let me know.
— Bonnie Fuller