Many question why Khloe is continuing to try to make her marriage to Lamar work, after he’s allegedly cheated and been using drugs. However, she is scared to admit that after four years, her marriage is failing, an expert told HollywoodLife.com.
Khloe Kardashian and hubby, Lamar Odom are going through a difficult time right now, and while momager Kris Jenner is reportedly pushing her daughter to file for divorce, relationship experts have revealed she’s not ready want to face the truth.
Khloe Kardashian: Why She’s Staying With Lamar Odom
Khloe, 29, may be exhausted by all the drama surrounding her marriage with Lamar, but she’s not throwing the towel in yet. While her love for him is strong, they’re also staying together because she doesn’t want to admit that it’s not working, according to an expert.
“Khloe is remaining with Lamar because she doesn’t want to admit she’s failed in her marriage,” Dr. Gilda Carle, “30-Second Therapist,” for the Today show tells HollywoodLife.com exclusively. ”Apparently, she doesn’t want to face the truth — that there’s a very high rate of recidivism among addicts, and Lamar will need years of therapy until he begins, if he begins, to get well. She’s living in a happily-ever-after fantasy that is just not supporting her dreams.”
So sad! Dr. Gilda advised that Khloe should also seek help alone, and then she will be able to help her husband, 33.
“Khloe also has said she wants to ‘save’ him, but no one can save anyone,” she said. “We can only save ourselves. She can help him more by letting him know she still loves him, but that she loves herself more and she must take care of herself. I recommend she seek counseling alone, and discover why she’s having trouble letting go, why she’s refusing to take the next steps necessary, and why she has the fantasy of him coming back whole.”
Khloe Is Still Very In Love With Lamar
Lamar showed up to Khloe’s house to talk divorce details on Oct. 1, when the two reportedly got into a huge fight. However, she’s still sticking with him, because she really does love him unconditionally, a source close to her revealed exclusively to us.
That love is completely obvious since she really has stuck with him through it all.
“You can see Khloe as a woman who is in love with her husband,” Dr. Cooper Lawrence, WPLJ radio co-host exclusively told HollywoodLife.com.. ”She probably sees him differently than we do. She doesn’t see him as some rich celebrity athlete, she sees him as a wounded bird who has had a terrible childhood and a terrible past. Marriage vows are for better for worse, this is worse and I think we should be celebrating her for sticking by him when he is at his worst . . . especially since she probably has a lot of men who are interested in her not to mention a family that doesn’t want bad publicity.”
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– Emily Longeretta