Khloe, you’ve given Lamar every chance to seek help for his alleged drug addiction. Now, there’s just one present he deserves on your anniversary, Sept. 27 — divorce papers.
Khloe Kardashian: You’ve Done Your Best
Khloe, I’m so sorry to say this because marriage is supposed to be a commitment through thick and thin, sickness and health, but you have tried and tried to get Lamar to seek help ever since an alleged drug addiction began to destroy your marriage and his NBA career.
You’ve done all the right things. You’ve refused to be an enabler by asking Lamar to leave the Tarzana home you shared in August, and you’ve cut off communication and refused to see him since he spiraled downwards in his battles.
But neither your pleas for him to go to rehab nor your tough love have worked. In fact, it appears that Lamar has just slid further and further down into his alleged addiction.
A Wife Can Only Do So Much
Khloe, you’ve suffered enough heartbreak.
You’ve loved Lamar devotedly ever since you first met him. You took your marriage vows seriously. But a wife — any wife — can only do so much.
Lamar is disrespecting you and your marriage every single day now. If he is not equally committed to you and his vows, and has indicated NO effort to change his ways, then you have to accept reality. The reality is that your marriage — as much as you cherished it — is over. Lamar has chosen through his actions to end it, even though he hasn’t actually told you, it’s over.
Khloe Kardashian: You Deserve Better
Khloe, you deserve better. Much, much better. You’re 29. You have your whole life ahead of you. You’ve never looked better. You have a huge career and a loving, supportive family.
You don’t have to live with this misery. Yes, your heart will hurt for a long,long time. And you will miss the man that Lamar was — terribly.
But, unfortunately, you have no control over Lamar’s behaviors and actions. He has chosen his alleged addiction over you and your marriage together.
You have no way of knowing when, if ever, he will come to his senses and start the road back to being the man you love.
And just remember: he may sadly, never take that road and be that man again.
It’s Time To Start A New Future
That’s why on the fourth anniversary of your marriage, I think you should take the difficult step of starting your new future and file divorce papers.
If there is any shred of love and responsibility left in Lamar at this point, divorce papers may be the only incentive to drive him into rehab. If not, then you absolutely know you did the right thing.
Good luck, Khloe. Just know that your family and fans support you, whatever you chose to do.
Hollywoodlifers, do you agree that Khloe should file divorce papers from Lamar on her fourth wedding anniversary? Let me know!